Its an opinion piece, you can critique all you like, but if that is a metric that is important to her that doesn't invalidate it, nor make her wrong
Look at dating sims, they literally live or die on what she is talking about. I've never played a dating sim, but I will assume the more successful/critically acclaimed ones have the better characters, because why would someone play a dating sim if all the characters were dull?
As for dating sims, there's nothing wrong with stating the obvious: many people like to go on that fantasy trip, they don't always get that sort of thing irl (a rogues gallery of potential mates, all of whom exist solely to date you), and sometimes there is a sexual attraction element. You show me a dating sim with genuinely good writing and we'll talk (there's a few OK ones that essentially parody dating sims, but that's not quite the same), but I think the fact dating sims are infamous for how atrociously they are frequently written - despite any popularity - goes to show that "writing" is not actually a major element in that determination. That's why dating sims usually have "one of every type" of dating mate, because they're trying to fill in dotted lines for people's fantasies. "This is the shy girl, this is the assertive girl, this is the sporty girl", etc. There are always going to be opinions on this score, but there are also people who think Transformers is well written. Sometimes you just have to nod and move on.
And there's nothing wrong in wanting to think a character is date-able, but if I'm not talking about right or wrong in that sense. I'm saying it's a pretty lame and in my view dumb and reductive sentiment to use as a metric for how well written a character is as their level of date-ability. And her full article does not actually do itself any favors by expanding greatly beyond that in its list of metrics for well written characters. It makes that point seem outsized. It's actually an extremely shallow point to make as a barometer for that, and in fact I
do think she's wrong on that score.
Surely the idea someone can play a narrative heavy game and then picture themselves getting coffee with one of the characters doesn't blow your mind?
It doesn't blow my mind, but if you're going to have a conversation about metrics for determining quality writing and you say "well I always go by how much I want to date them", then for me you're not particularly a serious person and I don't think you have much interesting to say on the subject of quality writing in games or movies or books.
Essentially, the writer of this article has a final point I can agree with, but I'm not sure she actually understands what good writing is because her metric for it is bullshit.
There is an entire film trope based around making a character with the express purpose of making guys want to date them, the Manic Pixie Dream Girl
You realize this phrase was invented as a way of criticizing how shitty this trope is, right? It literally was invented as a critique of director's who essentially create imaginary females that exist not for the quality of their character or nuanced personality but as basically fantasy fuck sticks that could never truly exist in the real world because they essentially are there just to make some male character fulfill his soulful story conclusion.
Quite appropriate for this conversation I'd say.