Another factor to "just enjoying games"...
Many of us have been enjoying games for years if not decades. You can only say "Where did you find this game?!? I really really really love this game" so many different ways in so many different words. A community full of this conversation isn't all that interesting. At least hate and arguments spur some kind of conversation.
The implication is that one must post quality in order to get your point across, and this is difficult. Maybe one isn't well-spoken or otherwise able to express thoughts. Heck, maybe one is straight-up a bad writer and has bad taste in games. You can bet no matter how well-explained the opinion is, it will be belittled and dismissed with one-sentence drive-bys, and this is discouraging.
First off, in case you noticed I 'unliked' your post, it's not because I dislike it. I 'like' posts either because I agree with what they're saying or because I don't have much else to add on but thought it was good and want the poster to at least know I've read it. Sometimes it's also cause someone mentions a game that I don't see mentioned much and it's my way of giving a high-five.
So now that I've decided to reply to you (more like a ramble), I've also removed the reaction, please understand (hah).
IMO shallow praise is pointless, as I discussed with Roni weeks ago. I don't see much value when someone says stuff like "Sekiro is one of the best games of all time".
A basic chatbot could randomly insert a game name and spout "______ is one of the best games of all time", and some people on GAF (or any social media) will like that post. BTW, a bot could easily give reactions as well.
I'm sure for some people it's as you said: it's not easy to articulate and talk deeper about why a game is good. It's very much its own discipline and yet a lot of these people who can't articulate themselves properly are quicker than the wind to shoot down journalists who can't play games as well or express their gripes with games that these people like.
Do I think every gaffer is an edgelord? No. Do I think every journalist has bad opinions or is part of an anti-gamer cabal? No.
I've read some great posts on here detailing why a game is good and I've also read great articles in gaming media. There is good stuff to be found on both sides, so to speak.
I think ever since the split, the smaller number of people on here playing the same games means there is generally less indepth discussion to be had.
Heck, maybe you wanna talk about the scoring system or enemy wave design in a particular shmup and I'd love to participate except I have not dedicated my gaming life to playing that genre, so regrettably I can't offer much in that area.
It also doesn't help that I've seen posts with plenty of thought put into them get trolled by driveby comments. I don't mind humour, though I hope there's more to say than just a meme attempt.
I know I've not felt very motivated to write a lot on here because it's either a reaction (which I don't care for) or no reaction at all. It's somewhat rare that someone actually says something in response and I think that's a sad as fuck situation.