My impression is that you are too inconsiderate with it. Although some phones have a bigger tendency to break than others. Then again, i don't use expensive phones.Phones are too fragile! Have you got a cracked screen?
I have an iphone 7. Dropped it a few times but not from a great distance onto a hard surface, so no cracked screen. I once had a Nexus 4 and I gave it to my toddler so that she might stop having a tantrum out in public. She threw it onto the ground and smashed the shit out of it. Showed me good.
Here's the trick: Never use your phone. The only thing I do on my phone is the occasional texting; though I use it mostly for GPS, during which it sits still on the seat of my car.
iPhone XS. Have a glass screen protector and a TPU case on it. Feels great, looks great, and can deal with small drops just fine . Otherwise it has AppleCare+ on it.
I have the iPhone XS too and I agree with this SO MUCH! Even though it's a pretty tough phone, I still have glass screen protector put in it just to be sure. I'm also enjoying it very much and its features. The only thing I kinda hated about it is its weight. Coming from iPhone 5s, iPhone XS feels like carrying a brick. It makes my old phone feel like cotton. Hahahahahaha!
I have yet to try its AR capabilities though, and using it with a VR headset. Have you? How was it?
I have this one. Best phone ever. 2 weeks worth of battery time. 1 month in standby. Perfect mint condition.