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[benjipwns]

http://thefederalist.com/2016/04/13/what-women-really-want-is-the-patriarchy/

Women have blindly followed the feminist mantra and now find themselves lonely and confused. It’s time to welcome back the patriarchy.

In today’s enlightened age, women think they know what kind of man they want, but in reality, most don’t. In fact, many women, unwittingly confused by the myriad feminist mantras bombarding them daily, seek the type of committed, romantic relationship with a man that will ultimately leave both her and him inherently dissatisfied.

This is as much due to the ideology behind feminism’s flawed ideas as the men who have been, over the years, subconsciously programmed to behave according to its dictates. It’s never too late to figure out that men need to own their patriarchal prowess. If they did so, they’d soon discover this is what women really want.

How Men Should React

Deep down in the confines of her soul where she hasn’t even bothered to look, much less understand, a woman wants a man who exudes masculinity, who remains a steady rock in her current-filled stream of emotions and hormones. Instead of a man who says he’ll eat at the restaurant of her choice for the fifteenth time that month, she wants a man who cooks a meal she’s never tried before.

Instead of a man who says “Hey wanna?” she really craves a man who starts kissing her at the front door and before you know it she is begging, “Can we do that again….tonight?” Instead of a man who complains his co-workers are annoying, his kids are messy, and he doesn’t feel great about himself, she craves a man who knows his calling in life, takes responsibility, and makes it his mission to fulfill his purpose with clarity, courage, and hard work—and thus a man who cares for his mind, body, and soul to that end.

Two women I know took entirely different paths and responded differently on this spectrum: The first bought into the feminist mantra hook, line, and sinker, scoffed at strong alpha males who were opinionated, direct—even demanding. She married a softer, but more romantic man who would do whatever she wanted at the drop of a hat.

The second dutifully married a more direct, straightforward man, however demanding and borderline-misogynist he was. Fast-forward a few years; both women had two kids. Guess which one is happier? The former’s husband has become so passive-aggressive that the family’s finances are in disarray and their sex life is nonexistent. The latter found a synergy with her husband most of my friends hardly recognize: They’re working towards familial goals, have hot, regular sex, and he’s compromised and become less of a demanding jerk. Guess that patriarchy thing works out sometimes?

Women can have careers, be independent, strong, and happy, but if they want to do all this and attract the kind of man they really crave, they need to throw out the hallmarks of feminism that claim their male peers are domineering, stupid, misogynist authoritarians who will make their lives miserable. If anything, the opposite is true.

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Sandy • 8 hours ago
Well, I'm one woman knows exactly what she wants, and my favorite Bible verse spells it out nicely:

Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband. ~ Ephesians 5:33

^^^Notice how he is instructed to love her, even as himself, meaning (IMO) he'd lay down his life for her, if need be, to keep her safe. Whilst she, OTOH, must reverence (revere/respect) her man, first, and foremost. I love this verse because it delineates so clearly the inherent differences between the sexes.

We can argue a man needs love too, and it's certainly true. But a man needs his respect, above all else. He needs it to hold his head up, and feel like a man. And, while a woman definitely wants to be respected - she is happiest being loved. Different priorities, but each gets what they need most.

I'd argue, further, that his is the harder job - loving her through all her many moods. While she, assuming she has chosen well in her selection of mate - should find it easy to give her husband the respect he needs.

Kyle • 8 hours ago
Very good article Ms. Russell. It all rings true. Women are told it is about a man trying to "control you" and not to let him do that. My pastor has a great way of saying it, "equal but different roles". Also, someone once said, "show me a successful man and I will show you a man with a high sex drive." Beta males lose that over time after being pushed down by their mates.

Riverboat Gambler • 8 hours ago
When Genesis talks about the creation of Eve, the original text describes her as "an opposite as [Adam's] power equal".

We are equal, but we are different. It's these differences that makes us more than the sum of our parts when brought together. Today's feminism discards this concept for one of not only equality, but identicalness. In so doing, we lose the unique characteristics that make a male-female relationship superior to any other.

Trumpenkrieger • 4 hours ago
What is the most telling is the feminist silence on Rotherham and Cologne. Seems to me feminists think feminist men are gigantic pussies and instead yearn to be manhandled by Akhmed the goat-fucker. So pretty much the OP is spot on.

Take that social studies warriors.

 

[MGrant]

 

[old manatee]

Damn, looks like women are from Venus and men are from Mars after all.

 

[benjipwns]

Instead of a man who says he’ll eat at the restaurant of her choice for the fifteenth time that month, she wants a man who cooks a meal she’s never tried before.

Don't do it, it's a feminazi trap!

 

[Log4Girlz]

Damn, looks like women are from Venus and men are from Mars after all.

But then who is from Uranus

 

[Rabbi_Vole]

Well I can't cook and am a pretty lousy kisser.

 

[Etrian Oddity]

I don't think this is accurate so much as that most girls nowadays are basically guys with boobs. Same behavior, mindset, attitude, etc when it comes to dating.

 

[old manatee]

Well I can't cook and am a pretty lousy kisser.

Maybe you're a woman. The article is pretty clear about what our roles are..

 

[Shaanyboi]

Wow. This... wow.

 

[Kettch]

who remains a steady rock in her current-filled stream of emotions and hormones

Hahaha. I couldn't get any further than this.

 

[Count Dookkake]

Article is bogus, but so many do like calling us "daddy."

 

[Nudull]

Something tells me that this might be bullshit, but that's just me.

Also, lol at the alpha/beta male tags. Can we please stop pretending that we're wolves, already?

 

[thesaucetastic]

I don't think this is accurate so much as that most girls nowadays are basically guys with boobs. Same behavior, mindset, attitude, etc when it comes to dating.

I feel like this has been the case since the dawn of humanity, at least on an emotional level.

 

[marzlapin]

Gonna need someone to mansplain this article to me. You know how it is, with those emotions and hormones and all.

 

[ElectricBlanketFire]

What women really want is different depending on the woman because every woman is different.

 

[echoshifting]

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lol amazing

 

[Count Dookkake]

I don't think this is accurate so much as that most girls nowadays are basically guys with boobs. Same behavior, mindset, attitude, etc when it comes to dating.

And guys are basically guys with boobs.

 

[Archer]

Some red pill in this thread.

 

[Hypron]

lol amazing

lmao

It's like a parody.

 

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[Not]

What would posting about this article on GAF do to convince the author and the commenters otherwise, or solve the systemic social issue of ingrained religious misogyny in any way?

Are we planning on screencapping the incoming sure-to-be-solid deconstructions of their arguments and using them to reply to every single one of the comments on the linked conservative website? Just let me know what the endgame is here.

 

[Spinifex]

Well, I'm one woman knows exactly what she wants, and my favorite Bible verse

ahahahahahhaha I had to stop there

 

[Rayis]

Some people want to be stuck in the 1950's, and that is completely their choice, I respect it, just don't legislate based on your chosen antiquated lifestyle and don't try to impose it on others who want to live the complete opposite way and want a more egalitarian relationship.

Spoiler

But what a load of patriarchal bullshit, made me want to vomit tbh

 

[littlebigman]

Aw, how adorable. Tiny weak little men on the internet projecting their insecurity and emotional issues onto women so they can feel empowered. I heavily suspect these guys were friendzoned a few too many times in high school. But whatevs, if they need to believe that those bitches are desperately craving the taste of their dicks to feel like they're not a bunch of sad little pussies, then they're welcome to that notion. It makes for such entertaining reading.

 

[You Know Nothing]

Well this is certainly an article that exists.

Gonna need someone to mansplain this article to me. You know how it is, with those emotions and hormones and all.

Don't get hysterical!

 

[the-pi-guy]

This article is such a mess.

they have discovered that the easy-to-please, passive-aggressive, “Mr. Nice Guy” offers devastating disappointment.
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a woman wants a man who exudes masculinity, who remains a steady rock in her current-filled stream of emotions and hormones.
....
she really craves a man who starts kissing her at the front door and before you know it she is begging, “Can we do that again….tonight?”
.......
Instead of a man who complains his co-workers are annoying, his kids are messy, and he doesn’t feel great about himself

So men have to be masculine, unemotional, aggressive, etc.

In an interview with Maclean’s Camilla Paglia confirmed this: “[W]e don’t know what we want. We don’t know if we want children or not. My generation produced the sexual revolution and your generation is stuck figuring out how it’s going to work.”

This, my friends is how we confirm things. /s

This article is so thick with gender roles, it makes me sick.

What's for the next article?

"Men: be super manly, have a 12 pack, be aggressive, put your woman in her place, lots of other horrible things."

"Women, make food, have lots of babies, let your man work for you"

 

[BlueWord]

Paging Dragona.

That there are actually people out there who still think like this never fails to shock me. Where do they live? What circles do they run in that reinforce opinions like these?

 

[Mechazawa]

Aw yeah, nothin' screams dropped panties like "regular sex"

 

[benjipwns]

What would posting about this article on GAF do to convince the author and the commenters otherwise, or solve the systemic social issue of ingrained religious misogyny in any way?

Are we planning on screencapping the incoming sure-to-be-solid deconstructions of their arguments and using them to reply to every single one of the comments on the linked conservative website? Just let me know what the endgame is here.

Not everything is a battle to be fought.

 

[Not]

Aw, how adorable. Tiny weak little men on the internet projecting their insecurity and emotional issues onto women so they can feel empowered. I heavily suspect these guys were friendzoned a few too many times in high school. But whatevs, if they need to believe that those bitches are desperately craving the taste of their dicks to feel like they're not a bunch of sad little pussies, then they're welcome to that notion. It makes for such entertaining reading.

It's going to be funny though to watch people who didn't read one word of the article like these pop up every so often.

Thread redeemed

Not everything is a battle to be fought.

But is everything an opportunity to mock people rather than making an effort to empathize with them and try to push them in a healthier direction?

 

[benjipwns]

What women really want is different depending on the woman because every woman is different.

This is nuts, you're nuts. Everyone can be fit into a large box that explains everything about the group within.

Gonna need someone to mansplain this article to me. You know how it is, with those emotions and hormones and all.

Don't marry a beta or he'll ruin your finances.

Accounting skills = alpha.

 

[old manatee]

Aw, how adorable. Tiny weak little men on the internet projecting their insecurity and emotional issues onto women so they can feel empowered. I heavily suspect these guys were friendzoned a few too many times in high school. But whatevs, if they need to believe that those bitches are desperately craving the taste of their dicks to feel like they're not a bunch of sad little pussies, then they're welcome to that notion. It makes for such entertaining reading.

Read better next time.

 

[ModBot]

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