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[Smiles and Cries]

Does it turn you off?


I'm use to these girls being little shy, I think I like that best.
But I must say I kinda like this new style...


ex-girlfriend AIMed me this...

"I miss you, I am coming to see you in the morning"

me: Okay I will be here

her: probably by 11

me: ok

her: cool

...

her: Will you make love to me?

(thinking - where did that come from?)

me: Sure, anywhere, anytime (smile)


her: Will you make me *um like you use to?

(my jaw hits the floor)

me: Sure, if your heart is in it like you use to...

me thinking: (where did that come from? )

her: Good, see you in the morning.

***

Anyway you get the idea... what the hell, that came out of left field I was not expecting her to come at me like that, we went to a movie a few weeks ago and had a chance to talk a bit about old times. I left it at that. Where did the shy girl I use to know go?

Lunchtime Bootycall?

Part of me wants her ass to slow the hell down... it has been a few years since we dated.
That other part of me is saying what the hell lets...
I guess I should have said NO when she asked but she just caught me off-guard.


things that make you go... Ummmm?

 

[robochimp]

Bootycalls arent about making "love"

 

[Jewbacca]

Bootycalls arent about making "love"

They are about accidently having kids because bad luck just works that way.

 

[Smiles and Cries]

True... but most shy girls never say the other word... they always say "Make Love"

anyway I don't really think she is only after that she wants us to get back together.
the reason I called it a booty call is because it was very sudden

I was hoping we could take a little more time. getting back with an ex is a bit complex for me

 

[DarienA]

They are about accidently having kids because bad luck just works that way.

Wow your booty calls suck.

 

[Smiles and Cries]

They are about accidently having kids because bad luck just works that way.

damn you!

 

[Boogie]

Well hooray for you

 

[Soul4ger]

Spooge on her face, says I.

 

[lexy]

Does it turn you off?

No, but I'd be hella suspicious. Women can be scary sometimes. Women are scary.

 

[Alyssa Hu$tle]

No one has really answered his question boys... when a shy girl becomes bold, does it turn you off?

Do you like the shy girl best? Or the bold one?

...And why?

I am actually really interested to know your opinions.

 

[Boogie]

No one has really answered his question boys... when a shy girl becomes bold, does it turn you off?

Do you like the shy girl best? Or the bold one?

...And why?

I am actually really interested to know your opinions.

I am unqualified to give an opinion

 

[Smiles and Cries]

No one has really answered his question boys... when a shy girl becomes bold, does it turn you off?

Do you like the shy girl best? Or the bold one?

...And why?

I am actually really interested to know your opinions.

thank you, that was the main point of the post

 

[Soul4ger]

No one has really answered his question boys...

WTF, where's the fun in helping?

 

[DarienA]

No one has really answered his question boys... when a shy girl becomes bold, does it turn you off?

Do you like the shy girl best? Or the bold one?

...And why?

I am actually really interested to know your opinions.

If the transition is sudden(one week I see you, you're shy introvert, two weeks later you're trying to pull my pants off in public) I suspect third party involvement, and that turns me off... if it's something that I see gradually happening, then I just think of it as just natural personality development/change.

 

[Boogie]

thank you, that was the main point of the post

No it wasn't. The main point of the thread was "Hey everyone, look at me, a girl wants to have SEX with me! When she comes over, I'll post again on GAF while she's still orgasming in the corner of the bed!" ;P

 

[Alyssa Hu$tle]

thank you, that was the main point of the post

My pleasure

 

[Alyssa Hu$tle]

No it wasn't. The main point of the thread was "Hey everyone, look at me, a girl wants to have SEX with me! When she comes over, I'll post again on GAF while she's still orgasming in the corner of the bed!" ;P

HA!
*rolling on the floor laughing*
Too funny!

 

[Smiles and Cries]

No it wasn't. The main point of the thread was "Hey everyone, look at me, a girl wants to have SEX with me! When she comes over, I'll post again on GAF while she's still orgasming in the corner of the bed!" ;P

What is this not GAF?
Stop Hating or no pics!

Seriously I asked a good question

 

[Boogie]

What is this not GAF?
Stop Hating or no pics!

Seriously I asked a good question

Wait, I'm confused. You want GAF, but don't want hating? Does not compute ;P

 

[lexy]

No one has really answered his question boys... when a shy girl becomes bold, does it turn you off?

Do you like the shy girl best? Or the bold one?

...And why?

I am actually really interested to know your opinions.

I prefer bold girls. The shy thing is cute to a point. After a while it's just annoying.

Maybe when you're 12 it's okay to be shy but when you're in your late teens or 20's and still pulling that shit? Come on man, I've got no time for that.

EDIT: *V If you really want to discuss this topic you might want to stop derailing your own thread.

 

[Smiles and Cries]

Posting this is my GAF DUTY
Hating is your DUTY
Telling you don't Hate is the GAF Reply
so fair this thread is going by the OT BOOK :lol

 

[Boogie]

Posting this is my GAF DUTY
Hating is your DUTY
Telling you don't Hate is the GAF Reply
so fair this thread is going by the OT BOOK :lol

Indeed, including the requisite reference to Praisme's classic thread. We're all such robots :lol

 

[Soul4ger]

I'm of the impression that anytime a girl calls and says "Fuck me," it's a turn on. And I think most guys here would probably agree with me on that. At least, if I know her and think she's hot. The only time I don't like when a shy girl becomes bold is when she's ugly. BUT HEY, MAYBE I'M JUST SOME SORT OF A CAD.

 

[Smiles and Cries]

agreed

 

[aoi tsuki]

HA!
*rolling on the floor laughing*
Too funny!

The original thread was even better.

 

[Boogie]

HA!
*rolling on the floor laughing*
Too funny!

The original thread was even better.

Indeed.

 

[ToxicAdam]

No, but I'd be hella suspicious. Women can be scary sometimes. Women are scary.

I googled "ulterior motives" and it linked me to this thread. :lol :lol


This sounds like "revenge sex" to me. (Meaning, she is using you to piss off someone else) Enjoy the ride. Wear a rubber.

 

[Mr Gump]

It really depends on what you're after. If you want to get to know someone intricately, learn their ins and outs, be smitten with them and spoil them - with the intent of falling in love, then a shy girl fits the bill.

On the other hand if you just want to fuck then go for the bold. There's no messing around when it comes to getting what you came for.

The important thing is realising what you're after and not wasting your time with the wrong girl.

 

[LakeEarth]

They are about accidently having kids because bad luck just works that way.

Jesus Christ. I've done it once, ONCE, and its resulted in a pregnancy scare. Why'd she have to go 2 months without a period right after we did that :lol

 

[shuri]

 

[robertsan21]

ITS A TRAP

:lol :lol :lol

 

[Dilbert]

Hmmm...interesting question.

Speaking for myself, the whole "shy girl becoming bold" move is GUARANTEED to work on me. As long as it isn't TOO quick of a transformation, it's guaranteed hotness. It's probably related to a build-up of tension in general, though -- the same reason that not having sex on date #1 or #2 makes that first encounter that much more intense.

I think the other factor at work is contrasting styles. I tend to be a bit introverted and reserved by nature, so a woman who is more outgoing and forward is a nice contrast to my own personality and adds some good tension to the sexual relationship. Even if a girl walked up to me and was wickedly forward from Day 1, it would probably be a turn-on for me...but I can see where it might be a turn off for a guy who was used to holding the reins.

Now, as far as what this particular girl might be up to...yeah, there is probably some ulterior motive there. When I've had ex-girlfriends call me up out of the blue for a booty call, the reasons have ranged from "still dating some other guy and feel like pissing him off" to "just broke up with someone and need validation" to "single, horny, and just miss the sex." It's up to you if you want to risk the emotional consequences of the encounter or not. The sex is pretty much guaranteed to be killer, though.

 

[demon]

Oh, yeah, been there before. Wooooo-yah great sex.

 

[Macam]

I'm all for bold girls, but there's a fine line between bold and obnoxious.

...and of course it's a trap. It always is.