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[Bildocube]

I'm curious, what does it mean when a friend of an ex brings up the ex in conversation countlessly, even saying at a certain point "she was asking about you though." Long story short, ex broke up with me a while ago, we had a truce (whatever that means), and then there was (and still remains) a period of no contact.

I'm definitely not looking to get back with her. I'm just curious as if I should be feeling good about myself like "yeah see what you missed out on? damn straight" :lol

Even at one point the mutual friend just abruptly stopped conversation and said "oh... *ex name* is calling, she says "Hey!"" I just went offline. I'm just curious. Honestly, I couldn't give a crap either way, I just think it would feel good if it's the case because she was really really horrible to me.

 

[DCX]

I'm curious, what does it mean when a friend of an ex brings up the ex in conversation countlessly, even saying at a certain point "she was asking about you though." Long story short, ex broke up with me a while ago, we had a truce (whatever that means), and then there was (and still remains) a period of no contact.

I'm definitely not looking to get back with her. I'm just curious as if I should be feeling good about myself like "yeah see what you missed out on? damn straight" :lol

Even at one point the mutual friend just abruptly stopped conversation and said "oh... *ex name* is calling, she says "Hey!"" I just went offline. I'm just curious. Honestly, I couldn't give a crap either way, I just think it would feel good if it's the case because she was really really horrible to me.

Read this, think about this...and get back to us...

DCX

 

[Goreomedy]

Don't waste time on this one. You've got so much more to look forward to. Like...

A messy divorce that involves kids.
Hiring a private investigator to spy on her for dirt.
Pictures given to you by the PI of her taking a strap-on to your best friend.
Hiring someone to "make it look like an accident".
25 years, eligible for parole in 13.

 

[J2 Cool]

Yeah, she's regretting it, seeing the error of her ways. Meanwhile, you can feel good about it. But people tend to come back around to who they are so don't get so comfortable or friendly with her. It's a vicious cycle and a pointless crappy situation. Posting about it shows you're giving it too much thought already.

 

[Matlock]

"See this shit? This is your ex. What you need to do to make this as sweet as possible for you and your loved ones is remember this simple motto. You ready? Hit it and forget it!"

 

[Diablos]

Track that bitch down and slap her in the face.

I'm gonna guess it means she's either worried about you or just simply wants to know how you are. I mean you used to see each other all the time, now never. So such a question would only be natural unless you guys really really hate each other. And if that's the case she's just a psycho

 

[Bildocube]

Thanks guys. :lol All of you are right.

Especially Matlock. :lol :lol

Yeah, this no contact is permanent deal. I have no intention of ever talking to her again. I just have an ego problem, I think that after all the shit she put me through at least I would come up on the greener side of things.

 

[Dr. Kitty Muffins]

Is she psycho? Psycho ex's never let go.

 

[DCX]

Thanks guys. :lol All of you are right.

Especially Matlock. :lol :lol

Yeah, this no contact is permanent deal. I have no intention of ever talking to her again. I just have an ego problem, I think that after all the shit she put me through at least I would come up on the greener side of things.

I kinda fell out with an ex the same way, i ended up on the short end of the stick and always knew i did the best i could in the relationship and she was the one who fucked up and bailed. You know what? As far as i know, she is worse off now...and in a messed up way, i'm glad...not glad that i hope everything goes wrong but karma evens things out...i would never go back to her...but it does feel good to know she kinda fell apart after me...her loss not mine.

DCX

 

[Bildocube]

Good point.

 

[Bluecondor]

Thanks guys. :lol All of you are right.

Especially Matlock. :lol :lol

Yeah, this no contact is permanent deal. I have no intention of ever talking to her again. I just have an ego problem, I think that after all the shit she put me through at least I would come up on the greener side of things.

Dude - I am totally with you - never talk to her again. They think they can drop you and you'll be waiting around for them. Any time a woman does this to me - I just walk away and never look back. I just don't want the drama - especially if they are willing to sever ties with me....