You Riding Solo or Tandem?

What is your relationship status?

  • Single and Loving It

  • Single and Hating It

  • In a Relationship and Loving It

  • In a Relationship and Desperately Want Out

  • In a Relationship and Ambivalent About It

  • Single and Ambivalent About It


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Hey, all! I had a great big long post written out about my love life because I wanted your feedback, but even I got bored reading it lol. So I decided to turn my question into a poll like the one about having/wanting kids instead.

What's your relationship status?
 
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My wife and I have been together for half of my life. I love her more than anything, and wouldn't want to have life any other way.
 
Thursday will be two years with my current girlfriend, but we've been best friends for ten years and at this point, she's like family already. I'm insanely fortunate and grateful, all the time.
 
I'm cool. My girl is a lot younger than me, which presents some challenges, especially when we have to do things with her circle of friends. Everything feels forced, even though I am a pretty immature dude who traffics in the same pop culture they do - it's just hard to relate to people who are gen z and still in college and have no idea how rough the world is about to get for them.
 
Look at this guy, using big words like ambivalent to try and discombobulate users here.

Just say mixed feelings 😉

Edit: I'm in a relationship and happy about it.
 
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Edit: I'm in a relationship and happy about it.
Anthony-chan!

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It's been all of your above choices over my lifetime.

Been married for going on 27 years now. And like I told my son recently, I think romance and Love -- though intertwined they may be -- are not the same things. I love my wife.
 
i've been happy being single until I develop massive soul crushing limerence on someone completely out of my reach and realize how lonely my life is
 
Fascinating results, though maybe not unexpected that "In a Relationship and Loving It" would be top dog.

I'm Single and Ambivalent. Had a long-term relationship that ended poorly years ago. I'm naturally introverted and haven't put much effort into dating since. After getting over the fear of rejection, now it's hard for me to feel like the juice is worth the squeeze in finding someone, tbh.

I've got good close friends and family, but they're not really on "The Journey" with you like a partner is, you know? At the same time, I like being able to do what I like all the time (most of the time). Like I said, I'm ambivalent.
 
I'm single because I'm not good socially and being around people drains me. It is nice to know that when I get older and get a job I'll have all the money to myself though
 
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I could tell you all about my relationships and how my uhhh psychological issues caused problems but who would care? You've got to have a life on your own. Stable. When there's room sure; a partner could be welcomed. I'm surprised the woman I've had dealed with my issues and still that doesn't register. I'm my own worst enemy.
 
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I currently see someone, and when we're together it's pretty good, but due to life stuff, we're separated often. Kind of riding things out until a change happens, one way or another
 
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