Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Fedoras: We Don't Want You Anymore, M'Lady

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This is satire, right? That dude is so quote unquote nice guy that he can't possibly have existed in anything but a bad sitcom.
 
MercuryLS said:
It's not that black and white. In the nice guy category you've got the simp and you've got the confident nice guy. The latter does well.
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I think his point was that, contrary to what people say by trying to establish three camps - the "nice guy," the true nice guy, and the "asshole" - it's actually just the well-adjusted the the not-so-well-adjusted, with the "nice guy" and "asshole" being two sides of that latter coin.

TeethMummy said:
I couldn't care less about another OT thread about fedoras, neckbeards, nice guys, etc. The dogpiling and circlejerking over how pathetic some people are is almost as lame as the actual people they're mocking.

HOWEVER

This gif is hilarious and it made the whole thread worthwhile for me. Cheers.
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You're totally right. Granted, some people are always going to be exposed to this stuff for the first time, but at this point, it's better to just levee these sorts of things alone. This ground has been treaded far too many times, probably since the '90s, even. It's probably better to just leave these people alone and let these notions fade to obscurity.
 
freenudemacusers said:
no fair, i can't even properly troll this thread
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instead, i'll just leave you with this pathetic display

http://www.mgtow.com/
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What the fliying fuck? Is that for real? I've never feel this disgusted by an internet site, not even stormfront had make me feel this disgusted.
 
This is the first time I have heard the expression "nice girl".

Now I wondered if I friendzoned some girls while I was going out with random girls in college.

Mind blown.
 
Darn trolls making german engineered cars look even more douchey. I don't want people to think I'm a nice guy when I get my RS5. :P
 
Omega Rex said:
Do girls ever complain about how "no one wants nice girls"

i feel like this is only a problem with guys. Insecure and trying to get people out of their league or people they have nothing in common with.
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Of course. See Taylor Swift. And the whole "guys just wanna date sluts" garbage.
 
You thought you were hot shit with all those gaming threads and now you're a junior.

And my biggest problem is figuring out what character I'm going to main in smash bros.
 
My fave part

I asked you about your hopes and dreams and listened to you bitch about your ex-boyfriend as you ordered that $100 bone-in ribeye and the wine with the fancy vintage you just had to try. You finished the wine but took most of the steak home in a doggy bag. I only now realize that it was the ex-boyfriend you were texting all evening, I hope he enjoyed the steak I bought him. By the way that “emergency call” you got after dinner didn’t fool anyone. I’m not stupid, unlike most of the guys you’ve dated.
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The whole bit about the rib is hilarious. What a bitter sad individual.
 
I'm convinced that there is some unibomber level of elite troll that has been around since maybe 1993 or so that is responsible for all of those old email chain letters and now for this facebook crap.
 
I really don't think "nice guy" equates to fedora.

Fedoras are a particular breed of aggressive nice guy. Most of these people lack the confidence to even attempt to pull off a style, fedoras have misguided confidence.
 
Omega Rex said:
Do girls ever complain about how "no one wants nice girls"

i feel like this is only a problem with guys. Insecure and trying to get people out of their league or people they have nothing in common with.
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No, men don't really care if a girl is "nice" or "mean" . shit has little to do with male attraction. Women can be very picky because they have so many options with potential boyfriends.

Girls complain about "the wrong type" of guys hitting on them.
 
I with the "parody" people. Some guy wrote this to be satirical, probably hoping that the "nice guys" of the internet would latch on to it. And they have. And it's glorious. Honestly, I hope I see more stupid "nice guys" post this around Facebook and Twitter. It'll force them to out themselves and then maybe someone can come and disabuse them of their notions.
 
I think much of it is people who don't understand the dating field. Not everyone who is together is together because of "love at first sight" and some are. Not everyone who dates and does well together last long.

The concept of casually dating is really difficult for some people to understand and rejection is just too much and too personal for them, which is really just something they'll need to come to terms with as being part of the process.
 
Fedoras: Not sure who you're talking to, or what imagined reality you're living in - people still don't want to date you.

Please
don't
respond.
 
Are you kidding me!!? I've been waiting DECADES for a hot chick to fuck me for being nice. Now you're telling me we don't want them? How am I suppose to get laid now?
 
Moar gasoline for the fire...

http://thoughtcatalog.com/isabel-ch...uy-i-wasnt-ready-for-you-before-but-i-am-now/

Dear Nice Guy,

I don’t know you yet but I’m so ready to date you. Seriously, I am. For a long time, I dated bad boys. Yes, I was that girl you blame for always coming in last. I guess I dated bad boys because, somehow, I liked their unavailability, sexy sideways glances, and late-night calls. I fed off the chase and mystery they provided me. I saw them as a challenge that I always happily accepted. Let me tell you, I’ve dated so many jerks throughout the years. A lot of times, I ended up being disappointed with how it ended with them, and wondered why I always had such blind optimism about these guys I clearly knew were jerks to begin with. But to be honest, I don’t regret any of it now.

I learned a lot from each and every one of those bad boys. I learned something from every un-answered text, from every “I’m just not looking for a relationship” talk, and from every lame excuse as to why he just couldn’t make to my house party until after 1 am. I guess I never let the jerks get to me. I realized it was never me; it was always them. I was born with an abundance of self-confidence. Maybe that’s why I was never too bothered by each guy who was a jerk to me. Maybe it was because I was smart enough to realize I never actually wanted to end up with a jerk. It was always you I wanted, Nice Guy.

With all that being said, I’m ready to date a Nice Guy. I’ve learned all the lessons I need to learn from bad boys. I now have the ability to distinguish between when to give up on a relationship and when to fight harder. I know all the excuses and lies and can see when it’s right to say a big ‘f*ck you’ or an ‘okay, I’ll let you make it up to me.’ I know what it’s like get all dressed up for a night out only to sit in your room watching Netflix, crying and staring at your phone because the person you had plans with never showed. And that a “got too drunk sorry” text is not a sufficient excuse or apology. I know all these things. My mom always said that the problem with people who end up unhappy is that they don’t know how to walk away from something that has already served it purpose. Well, I can see now that bad boys have served all the purpose they possibly could in my life and that it’s time for me to learn a new lesson. I want to learn from you, Nice Guy.

It’s time for me to learn what its like to have someone to fall back on when I feel weak. It’s time for me to understand what its like to open up to someone without the fear that I’ll be emotionally shamed or that it will scare them away. It’s time for me to understand why people write love songs or tear up at the end of the notebook. I want to know what it’s like to be desired for more than my body, for someone to look at me with passionate eyes, slowly but surely falling in love with my mind, body and soul.

I want to know what it’s like to have someone who will always show up, who will always make time for me and who will always respect me. I want to know what it’s like to be able to count on someone, and know that even though love is never safe, I will be safely hurt by them. Mostly, I know I can learn all these things from you, Nice Guy.

I don’t want anyone thinking I hate bad boys. I don’t hate them; I’m just done with them. I have to thank bad boys for a lot actually. Bad boys have taught me how to depend on myself. How to pick up my broken pieces. They’ve allowed me to secure the perfect break-up remedy. Booze, friends, rebounds, cry, workout, acceptance, find new bad boy, repeat.

I understand myself so much better because of these bad boys. I know what I’m like at my worst. But I’m ready to know what I’m like at my best.

I promise you this, Nice Guy: I don’t know you yet, but I will be a nice girl to you in return. I will show you what you’re like at you’re best. I will treat you with the respect you deserve and will always answer your call when you need me. I will show you what all those bitchy girls couldn’t.

So, I guess all there is left to say is…

I’m ready whenever you are.
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Ultima_5 said:
Someone's bitter
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I'd love to hear the girl's side of the story.

These things remind me of advice column writers--if you can't manage to make yourself sound sympathetic and reasonable in the account that is solely of your own writing, it suggests the truth is a whole lot further from your view.
 
That hits on like every bullet point ever of the internet backlash against fedora-wearing nice guys.

I'm calling fake.
 
Big difference between being a "nice guy" and being pathetic. There are plenty of nice guys that have no issue dating. Typically when I hear about nice guys not being able to get a date, there is a lot more going on than them being nice (ie. they are terrible at social interactions, and interacting with women). They just use that as an excuse as to why they failed. After failing x amount of times they become bitter.

Of course, there will be certain cases where some just don't like nice people. But then why would you want to date that person anyways?
 
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