Guy-GAF, Why Do You Hate Anal Sex?

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I get uncomfortable when thinking about receiving anal sex. Finger or toy. Don't think I''l ever do it. I love giving it to someone, though. Anal sex is awesome.

And people are so childish with this poop nonsense. Be clean or get clean smh
 
Never said that, but I know there are guys who have no problem with blood but go ''poop comes from there''.... there won't be poop in there if you're clean and healthy.

Enemas are seriously the only way to ensure there aren't remnants of fecal matter left over from a recent bowel movement.
 
I'd let a girl put things in my butt if she wanted to except I wouldn't ask for it.

Pegging I don't think I could get into. It's too much of a role reversal for me I think.
 
Enemas are seriously the only way to ensure there aren't remnants of fecal matter left over from a recent bowel movement.

It really depends on the state of your digestive system that day and/or what you ate recently... I have days when I lube my finger and push it up there as far as I can, in-and-out many many times and it comes out clean as a whistle... and there other days when no matter what I do that chute isn't getting clean, even enemas won't do the trick if you've having a bad poop day (and I suspect for some people that's most day).
 
Why?

Aren't you the least bit curious?

Not interested or curious at all. Not in the least. I know my body well enough that I can say with certainty that I would not enjoy it and would absolutely not be missing out on anything. Others in here like it, great. I don't believe I would and that's not bad either, nor should I be guilted into thinking one way or another.
 
I get uncomfortable when thinking about receiving anal sex. Finger or toy. Don't think I''l ever do it. I love giving it to someone, though. Anal sex is awesome.

And people are so childish with this poop nonsense. Be clean or get clean smh

Noted.

Not interested or curious at all. Not in the least. I know my body well enough that I can say with certainty that I would not enjoy it and would absolutely not be missing out on anything. Others in here like it, great. I don't believe I would and that's not bad either, nor should I be guilted into thinking one way or another.

Your tone implies an irrational level of anger here.
 
It really depends on the state of your digestive system that day and/or what you ate recently... I have days when I lube my finger and push it up there as far as I can, in-and-out many many times and it comes out clean as a whistle... and there other days when no matter what I do that chute isn't getting clean, even enemas won't do the trick if you've having a bad poop day (and I suspect for some people that's most day).

But bro, GAF told me there's no poop down there, all you have to do is not take a shit for an hour and take a shower
 
Enemas are seriously the only way to ensure there aren't remnants of fecal matter left over from a recent bowel movement.

My gf sometimes uses her middlefinger to dig out poop lol. When I see her without a fake nail on her middlefinger, I know what she did and what she wants from me. It's sexy

There are a lot of techniques to clean yourself anyway.
 
I'm not uncomfortable with the idea, it's just that in practice it gets pretty messy, and I would rather deal with my own shit with someone else.
 
Your tone implies an irrational level of anger here.

lolwut. No, I'm not angry, I just don't like that "It's sooooooo good...you're really missing out~" attitude that I've seen a few times in this thread with respect to really anything.

You didn't even quote me, btw; I probably would've missed your response if I wasn't still reading, lol.
 
My gf sometimes uses her middlefinger to dig out poop lol. When I see her without a fake nail on her middlefinger, I know what she did and what she wants from me. It's sexy.

Yeah man, nothing sexier than knowing your girl just dug poop out of her ass with her finger.

Anal is hot but nothing you just said is.
 
How do have anal sex with a girl without it hurting? I actually want it to feel good for her as she enjoys having a finger in her ass during sex. I have some silicone lube. Should i use that?

Over no lube/"magical saliva"? Yes, definitely. One of the main reasons for discomfort is because there's almost no lubrication produced compared to a vagina or mouth. Putting lube on yourself and even applying a little in her to begin with should be helpful (do try to keep it handy nearby so you can reapply if needed. Some people like getting fingers in them for a bit before moving up to the real thing. Because of this, having the lube application double as foreplay serves the alternate purpose of getting the receiver more comfortable/looser with what's going to happen. Finally, it helps to keep up constant communication with your partner when you're entering in. Make sure that she's ok with how far in you are, if she wants a breather, etc. And she needs to make sure that's she's RELAXING. If she's tensing up/straining, she's only making it harder on her self.

Good Luck!
 
lolwut. No, I'm not angry, I just don't like that "It's sooooooo good...you're really missing out~" attitude that I've seen a few times in this thread with respect to really anything.

You didn't even quote me, btw; I probably would've missed your response if I wasn't still reading, lol.

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But it's soooooooooo good! You're really missing out!
 
My gf sometimes uses her middlefinger to dig out poop lol. When I see her without a fake nail on her middlefinger, I know what she did and what she wants from me. It's sexy

There are a lot of techniques to clean yourself anyway.

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My gf sometimes uses her middlefinger to dig out poop lol. When I see her without a fake nail on her middlefinger, I know what she did and what she wants from me. It's sexy

There are a lot of techniques to clean yourself anyway.

You're honesty is so sexy, beysus. ;)

whatever man. I'm not missing out on anything.

But you are. It's ok if you never want to do it, but you are missing out. Prostate stimulation does intensify orgasms, despite what you think about the act itself.
 
I don't understand how the enema part is practical. I guess I have been lucky. I've only had a few dirty experiences, and only - really - maybe 10 experiences with anal sex at all. I know she does do some work beforehand if she thinks anal might be in the picture - or even if I plan to play around with her butt. What she does, I don't know. 2 beers help her. Whatever cleanup routine she does, I appreciate, but I do like an authentic experience. I like the normal smells, sights, sounds. I like the scents and tastes of her undercarriage.

When we play, it's usually for a couple hours at time. I usually can't rely on not cleaning up thoroughly before hand. Also the amount of bearing down I do brings some stuff down as well.
 
My gf sometimes uses her middlefinger to dig out poop lol. When I see her without a fake nail on her middlefinger, I know what she did and what she wants from me. It's sexy

There are a lot of techniques to clean yourself anyway.
I just vomited a little.
 
Yeah man, nothing sexier than knowing your girl just dug poop out of her ass with her finger.

Anal is hot but nothing you just said is.

I know it sounds weird. But before we want to have anal sex, she always goes to the bathroom to check if she's clean inside. She fingers herself first. If there's little and dry amount of poop inside her, she just digs it out and we're ready to go.
 
Rimming is pretty cool, as is a finger up the butt. I'm more than happy giving or receiving either. But anal penetration as a giver was pretty lame, nowhere near as good as "normal" sex.

And there is no way I'd have a dildo shoved up my ass, not least because I'd likely feel extremely emasculated.

I remember sucking a dildo during foreplay once, it was a spur of the moment thing but I felt weird immediately. She thought it was hot though, so there is at least that!
whatever man. I'm not missing out on anything.
Well I mean, you are in the literal sense. It's just the case of whether you'd enjoy it or not.
 
But you are. It's ok if you never want to do it, but you are missing out. Prostate stimulation does intensify orgasms, despite what you think about the act itself.

But I'm not. The cons of penetration for me far outweigh the pros of prostate stimulation. I would never feel comfortable nor would I enjoy it. I'm not missing out on anything.
 
A friendly tongue knocking on the back door is great. No complaints about that. I've also had a curious finger poke its head through the back door and try and shuffle into the corridor. That was much less fun. Whole thing just felt awkward.

I've had my friend Mr D taken through a girl's back door a couple of times. It's about 50/50 on how messy he found it. First time they'd obviously tidied up, as the walls and floor were squeaky clean. Other times though, it was much less clean. Mr D came out looking like he'd been rolling in brownie.

I really don't like back door parties unless I know the host has made an effort to clean house. There's nothing that makes me feel more ill than the sight and smell of poop. Instant mood killer. When they're clean, they're great, but when they're messy, they're really not.
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As far as the thread topic.. straight male here.. no real hangups if a girl wants to mess with my ass.. but I can't say I've gotten much actual pleasure from it other than the fact I'm turned on any time a girl likes something kinky.

I enjoy finger/tomgue play with girls asses.. I'm not very into full on anal with them though.. too many "off" experiences.. messy and/or painful. But if a girl really wants it, I'm down to take the risk.. lol.
 
One thing this thread is really doing is convincing me to eat better again. My eating habits have never been absolutely atrocious (I think) but recently I was eating pretty much the same thing 3-4 times a week for six months thanks to a job I had. Notably, there was a salad in all of those meals, which I always consumed. I don't think my digestive system has ever been more pleasant/regular/cleaner than when I was eating those salads all the time.
 
It has nothing to do with that. Men have a prostate, and don't know of the pleasures they can get from fear or prejudices against the concept of anal play/sex/etc. It's not for everyone sure, but a lot people aren't even willing to try for themselves.

or maybe people know their bodies adn their tolerances? couldn't be that could it?

Sorry - DP - double post. Owing to the site slowdown and thinking I had to submit again. Oops. I am sorry.

I see what you're really into.

Noted.
Your tone implies an irrational level of anger here.

condescension isn't a nice trait either. you have to accept that some people won't get anything out of anal/prostate play right?
 
What are the cons of penetration?

The physical discomfort, primarily, and the sanitary/preparation issues additionally. I know my body enough to say that I would never be able to get pass either of those two. It's not for me. I don't want it.

Well I mean, you are in the literal sense. It's just the case of whether you'd enjoy it or not.

In the literal sense, yes, but not in the sense that most people use the phrase. I'm not missing out on anything I would enjoy.
 
Not interested or curious at all. Not in the least. I know my body well enough that I can say with certainty that I would not enjoy it and would absolutely not be missing out on anything. Others in here like it, great. I don't believe I would and that's not bad either, nor should I be guilted into thinking one way or another.

I was the same, and after I tried it for the first time, I didn't change my mind, but I wanted to try it a few more times because of research and all the people saying that the male G-spot is there. They're right.

The ''hell naw, never!'' attitude is silly to have, and obviously we have gotten it from society.

Not trying to convince you to try it, and you don't have to... but no, you can't know whether you will enjoy it or not without giving it a proper chance.
 
If you aren't turned on by the idea in the first place, it's not going to enhance sex. Why is that so hard to understand?

To clarify: I was referring to any physical cons to anal play. There's been a lot of scattered talk of "risks" in this thread, but nobody's really gone into detail...and this is coming from someone who regular has anal sex.
 
I was the same, and after I tried it for the first time, I didn't change my mind, but I wanted to try it a few more times because of research and all the people saying that the male G-spot is there. They're right.

The ''hell naw, never!'' attitude is silly to have, and obviously we have gotten it from society.

Not trying to convince you to try it, and you don't have to... but no, you can't know whether you will enjoy it or not without giving it a proper chance.

I'm not saying they're not right about it being there or whatever, but I'm also not saying 'never' out of insecurity or revulsion. I'm saying it because I know there's no way I would ever like it based on knowing my own body. I didn't get that from society.
 
I thought about this the other night after partaking in some great anal sex:

You know, anal sex as the recipient doesn't feel good to me because I'm gay. It feels good...because it fucking feels good.

Seriously, anal orgasms are fucking explosive. Think regular orgasms x10.

And yet, even the most sexual, virile straight men I know are "no-no" when it comes to their butts. Even with women.

Why?

Aren't you the least bit curious?

Any brave straight male gaffers brave the anal play frontier? Share.

I find this hard to believe.
 
It's probably partly a result of that, yes.

But getting fucked in the ass by your girl seems like the least sexy thing I could imagine.

Well, to be honest, I agree with that. I don't find it sexy either.

But it won't make a man less male if he receives anal sex. That's just ridiculous imo
 
I'm not saying they're not right about it being there or whatever, but I'm also not saying 'never' out of insecurity or revulsion. I'm saying it because I know there's no way I would ever like it based on knowing my own body. I didn't get that from society.

Didn't see your other post, I believe you. It does apply to other guys in general.

Emasculation.

It's emasculating to consider it emasculation.
 
it's a slippery slope. sure stick your SO's finger in there for shits and giggles, maybe even experiment with a strap on, and before you know it you have your dog's foot up in there swirling around in the muck. i'd rather not risk it.
 
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