I never said they were. However, they absolutely are. It's not in the same way as female characters, but look at all the main characters in video games and movies. They're all picture-perfect men. Nathan Drake is a stud. Snakes are studs. Kratos is a stud. Captain Shepard is a stud. Et cetera, et cetera. Very rarely does a game star an "everyman." That's definitely sexualizing them, just not as excessively as the female characters.Those men are however not sexualised though.
The person I started this conversation with mentioned two adjectives, "sexualized" and "hopeless," and I responded talking about hopeless.
Of course women are more sexualized in a medium where the creators are mostly men and so too are the consumers. At times it's way overdone, like that Far Cry 3 scene or any of the fan-service non-sense that populates Japanese media.
I'm not saying that it's right. However, I did mention the time period as an important aspect to consider when discussing certain media, which is something the creator chose to ignore.