One of your colleagues is implicated by others in a scandal. Investigation occurs, implications proven to be BS. Meanwhile TFYC is in a terrible spot and you have the information needed to provide information to the public and help a charity project.
Oh noes we shouldn't write an article about said scandal because my poor friend was implicated but he's totally innocent and it was a relationship that strictly did not affect his journalistic integrity but no no we shouldn't write an article about said scandal because he was in a relationship with the woman integral to said article but no no said relationship has no bearing on journalism at kotaku but we shouldn't write said article because my friend used to date that woman and that has nothing to do with me because I'm a journalist and I have integrity and I can and will report on important issues and if there are any conflicts of interest obviously I would write a disclaimer and disclose my relationship to this kotaku journalist who used to date this woman but I shouldn't because he's a fellow colleague and our friendship might cloud my judgement.
OK...
Write the article, disclose your relationships, let the readers make up their minds. If you write a biased article, you will be called out. If you write a fair and reasoned article, even though you might have conflicts of interest, you will have disclosed them and people will listen to your arguments, instead of looking at who you are and who you are writing about.
Also everyone who hates kotaku pobably won't read the article on kotaku anyway.