Okay, so this is what I don't understand about the "moderate" gator who's just upset about those articles.
See, I was upset when a bunch of media people decided that ME3 was perfectly fine and entitled losers only disliked it because they didn't like sad endings, and that an ending change would ruin games-as-art forever. Even as someone who doesn't really care for DMC, I cringed whenever I heard "oh you just can't handle black hair." When Arthur Gies was acting like he had made some kind of secret bet where he had to defend SimCity for a whole week to win a million dollars? That was pretty funny! Or when we heard that Sony would implement DRM too, just like MS, because this was simply the inevitable arc of technology and we all had to accept it. Even in the months leading up to all of this insanity, it was a running joke among the mods to post obvious examples of Polygon's descent into clickbait after their longform features (sadly) failed to produce hits, even when Kuchera was insisting that "clickbait" didn't exist.
But I never joined a hashtag campaign over any of this. I made fun of them or vociferously disagreed with them online for far longer than is humanly healthy, yeah. But I have no idea what such a campaign would have done, or accomplished, that would be reasonable in any way, shape, or form.
So, as someone who's spent the last week trying to become good at fighting with a ninja frog pokeyman, and desperately trying to pretend that Ganondorf will be top-tier this time, I... wasn't really offended by any of these articles that apparently were supposed to be insulting me.
But you know what? Not my place to say what offends someone. Okay.
But... that leads me the question: If you honestly only joined the 'gate over those articles... why join a hashtag campaign? What, exactly, are you honestly doing with that campaign? What have you accomplished? What are you hoping to accomplish? What things are you doing right now that you honestly think will make those accomplishments happen? How much 'gate-related time have you spent actually working towards those goals, in comparison to just... telling people online that it's not about (bad thing), it's about (good thing)?
Because saying "well I'm a gamer and I'm not a misogynist" is all well and good, but you have to understand that most (if not all) of the people who wrote and agreed with those articles are "gamers" in the traditional sense as well, and they certainly don't think that all gamers are misogynists either. It's also not really accomplishing anything as a movement. So if you and the rest of the moderates aren't really moving anything forward, then the only visible action is from the people who are trying to accomplish a goal; and boy, do they have "interesting" goals. And so far, the only actions being taken are by the "crazies" who you claim don't represent you. That's why the only news being reported on is "person violently harassed out of their home after criticizing an internet movement," or "B-list actor thinks that small academic group that nobody has ever heard of is a government-funded conspiracy to control gaming."
So far, all of the moderates I've seen don't seem to be really doing anything with even a fraction of the effort as the "fringe that doesn't represent us." All I ever see of them is affirmations that they're respectable human beings (which is great, but I and most other people honestly weren't impugning you on that), or rushing to the defense of a nine-letter nonsense word whenever someone associated with it does something terrible.
What do you call members of a movement who don't actually... move?