I was hoping it'd be an arcade racer with good graphics. The graphics was the main draw for me. I don't like sims. They aren't fun for me.
Have you tried fiddling with some of the difficulty settings? There's a ton of customization in there, you might find some settings that work for you. On pro, all of what you said applies tho. I'm tempted to say git gud, but I can imagine it being tough on people who aren't big on sims.
That being said, i'm still having an absolute blast with this game, even in this 'early' stage.