Guys, I feel like I cheated. I only tried the 2nd boss once before bed last night and died of course. Well, this morning, just to see what it was like, I tried the Beckoning Bell at the boss. Chimed it, game looked for a player, found someone. He comes upto me and bows, I bow back and we head through the fog to the boss. We get him into second form so quick and then I played the music box while he just take him out. After the fight, we waved to each other and he left. It was so easy. I feel like I cheated but I'm also amazed how cool of an experience it was.