Your fridge example is actually the best one I could ask for. Remember the amount of sheer hate that scene received precisely because it stretched too far. Which you acknowledge, so.. I dunno, kind of a weird choice to bring up.
Actually each of those franchises mentioned received critical backlash for its escalation as they went on. You've got Crystal Skull, obvious. MI:2 got a lot of flack for some ludicrous John Woo silliness. And Die Hard 5 is one of the lowest rated big budget blockbusters of all time. Action movies in general face a real crossroads, but thats a conversation for another time.
Now I don't have a problem with this set piece, never said I did. But I do have a problem with the poster who I quoted's tone. Its completely reasonable to feel disengaged when faced with action as incredible as this, and that doesn't merit such a snarky dismissal.