Mammoth Jones
Member
Yep. Figured this when he said he ain't been there for a month. Sadly most human beings needs regular physical contact. And in college? Cmon son.
'We need to talk'
- Thread starter Theecliff
- Start date
- Status
Yep. Figured this when he said he ain't been there for a month. Sadly most human beings needs regular physical contact. And in college? Cmon son.
JC we need to talk...I still haven't watched Wall-E and I'm not sure that I want to.
Mammoth Jones
Member
So much this. Don't be shocked. Relationships take maintenance.
triplestation
Member
lmao at pull a contanza
im sorry this happened to you OP, i feel as bad for every other guy this has happened to
its the worst kind of bait and switch
youre probably a genuinely good guy too
im sorry this happened to you OP, i feel as bad for every other guy this has happened to
its the worst kind of bait and switch
youre probably a genuinely good guy too
ViewtifulJC
Banned
Honest to Goodness this isn't "internet tough guy" talk, this is "been dumped before in the past and I'm married now" talk.
Brace yourself for the possibility that it's over...You say you don't know what your gonna do....well I do. You're gonna feel like shit for a little bit, dust yourself off and eventually meet somebody else! I know it won't seem like it but trust all of us, it's not the end of the world. I went through the long distance thing in college too....you're wasting your youth man...
And besides, should this happen, this frees you up to be with somebody that will care about you like you care about them.
Good luck bro!
Brace yourself for the possibility that it's over...You say you don't know what your gonna do....well I do. You're gonna feel like shit for a little bit, dust yourself off and eventually meet somebody else! I know it won't seem like it but trust all of us, it's not the end of the world. I went through the long distance thing in college too....you're wasting your youth man...
And besides, should this happen, this frees you up to be with somebody that will care about you like you care about them.
Good luck bro!
Cereal KiIIer
Member
She found a bigger dick and/or richer dude.
NOBODY BREAKS UP WITH ZOMBINE.
NOBODY.
Op, for real though...this girl is trying to play you and it's complete bullshit. Pull a fast one on her and tell her to cut the crap. You owe it to yourself to be happy.
Mammoth Jones
Member
Best advice in the thread. Especially about not wasting your youth.
That's the safe answer. The two things and only two things women care about in guys...according to guys.
Honestly though. stay strong. "We need to talk" doesn't sound good and it probably isn't. I'd be pissed as hell at her for throwing that mindfuck at me when we couldn't immediately talk through it. Having to sit there and wonder. You don't deserve that, nobody deserves that.
Live Free or Die
Banned
Whenever a woman says "we need to talk" or "i need to talk to you", its never a good thing.
ReturnOfTheRAT
Member
I just had the "let's take things slow" talk last week. So far, so good however.
At least it's not the "we need to talk" relationship/dating talk.
At least it's not the "we need to talk" relationship/dating talk.
block tower
Member
if someone wants to see you they'll make time to see you. she's not into you anymore and you going along with her jerking you around will only end in her fucking other dudes and you being friend zoned. Cut your losses and walk away man. Whatever you did you turned her off while you were away, that or she just lost attraction and found someone else. Don't beat yourself up about it , examine if you may have done anything to turn her off, reflect on it and learn from it.
also if you suffer from depression or low self esteem it's not healthy to rely on others to fulfill your happiness . relationships are about giving and not just receiving , if you have to rely on receiving in a relationship to maintain happiness you should take a break from serious relationships and get to a good place where you can be happy with or without someone .
also if you suffer from depression or low self esteem it's not healthy to rely on others to fulfill your happiness . relationships are about giving and not just receiving , if you have to rely on receiving in a relationship to maintain happiness you should take a break from serious relationships and get to a good place where you can be happy with or without someone .
Succinct Verbosity
Member
I am currently talking to a girl who is crazily sporadic with texts, from days of no contact to hours of continues contact at a time. Sometimes when you talk less it's not always a defined ending of a relationship, but in your case those words certainly aren't leading anywhere good.
Mammoth Jones
Member
Yea...don't be a backup dick. I did that when once and I'm still embarrassed. I stayed patient thinking she'll finally figure out what a great and dedicated guy I am. Meanwhile she out having a dick tasting test and I'm sending flowers and shit like simp supreme. Never again. Lmao.
I had a girl do the "we need to talk" thing to me as well. She drew it out like 2 weeks. I was a mess the whole time, I knew what was coming. I told her, if it's over just say it's over on text, I don't want to play games and it will just be harder in person. She wouldn't, for some reason she felt she had to tell me in person. It was for her not me I guess, made her feel like a better person, but she just ticked me off and I'm still annoyed about.
block tower
Member
Hahaha damn .. It's cool though man, most of us simped at one point and learned the hard way lol.
hipbabboom
Huh? What did I say? Did I screw up again? :(
OP. She's either preggers with your baby or another mans. I hate to be the one to tell you 
Chin up.
Chin up.
Paracelsus
Member
If we need to talk, then I think we actually don't.
"You should get tested"
Ivan Amiibo
Banned
.........
All signs point to it is over. Sometimes people don't even want to talk about breaking up, for one reason or another, so they just start distancing themselves.
Just know the longer you live, the more you get used to it, but it hurts every time. There are 7 billion people on the planet and a TON of them are just as interesting and fun to be with as the next.
Good luck.
Just know the longer you live, the more you get used to it, but it hurts every time. There are 7 billion people on the planet and a TON of them are just as interesting and fun to be with as the next.
Good luck.
I'm married. Done all the dating thing.
This is good for you OP. I believe you always end up meeting better chicks. You get better at these sort of things. GL!
adamsappel
Member
It must suck to be rich and have a big dick and still get dumped. At that point, you have to know you're an asshole.
KappaFappa
Banned
It's ogre, several months isn't serious
dreamcastmaster
Banned
It was so she does not feel bad, see also "it's not you, it's me" from a woman in a breakup. When do they ever take the blame for anything without mental gymnastics during a relationship only to cop a load of responsibility in the break up? It's to convince themselves they are not the bad one in the relationship. Bonus points for "we can still be friends" and then ignoring anything you do to be friends...
-ImaginaryInsider
Member
If it's over and/or she's cheated on you, don't make a scene, politely acknowledge it and leave. Go straight to a trusted friend or family member, break down emotionally there.
"I lied, i'm 17"
Darth Karja
Member
My ex girlfriend once found my friends panties in a bag hidden by the couch. I had no explanation for that...
block tower
Member
industrian
will gently cradle you as time slowly ticks away.
"Nothing wrong with that."
This. As numerous people before said, she probably found another guy or she wants to end relationship for other reasons. Be prepared for the worst.
NCR Redslayer
NeoGAF's Vegeta
What about "This conversation is over."
Killa Sasa
Member
Another vote for the Costanza. You'll have hand.
Really though, that sucks. Being direct with an ask and not playing the game is another good option.
Really though, that sucks. Being direct with an ask and not playing the game is another good option.
MulderYuffie
Member
Best of luck man I know the feeling it sucks. I hope it all turns out well for you.
Lord Fagan
Junior Member
I'm very sorry, OP. Been through this myself, recently.
It can feel so cruel. Beware any notions that you can remain friends. It'll be at her very limited convenience, at best.
Good luck, brosef. Remember, after the world ends, life goes on.
It can feel so cruel. Beware any notions that you can remain friends. It'll be at her very limited convenience, at best.
Good luck, brosef. Remember, after the world ends, life goes on.
tearsintherain
Member
Before she has a chance to say anything blurt out that being with her made you realize that you are gay. Then say you hope you two can still be friends and ask her what she wanted to say. Hope that she wanted to break up with you, anything less and it will be hard to walk it back.
More seriously sorry dude, young people who stay apart a while almost always end up cheating on each other. Hormones, being with a ton of other young people, travel, etc. Listen to sad music, cry, watch movies, take long walks -- time will heal your wounds.
More seriously sorry dude, young people who stay apart a while almost always end up cheating on each other. Hormones, being with a ton of other young people, travel, etc. Listen to sad music, cry, watch movies, take long walks -- time will heal your wounds.
- Status