All the accusations of Rey being a Mary Sue and "leveling up" are just disappointing. Maybe things came a little too easy to her at times but it's not really very different than it was for Luke and it was never played for cuteness like it was with Anakin in TPM. I don't think she was ever portrayed as being OP in terms of piloting/mechanics (two skills I'm sure she honed as a scavenger on Jakku) and her quick learn of Jedi technique and lightsaber combat can be chalked up to her being experienced at melee with her staff, and her likely repressed Jedi training, which was heavily hinted at in her vision.
I'd love to see a thread titled "post like its 1977 and you just saw Star Wars for the first time" I think ultimately we're living in a time when the audience itself in general is overstimulated and overexposed to the various storytelling tropes that all movies lean on from time to time and possession of that knowledge is paradoxical in terms of their enjoyment of what's going on.
In order for some of us to properly enjoy these popcorn fantasies and lose ourselves, which I think is probably the intention of the creators, maybe we need to unlearn what we have learned.