The intent is that if you can't win that often you don't deserve to be gold ranked. It may be an achievement but being a gold player is supposed to mean that you're much better than average at the game which means you have to win lots.
I'm not saying I don't agree with your frustration , especially if you feel you ARE good enough to make it in that gold tier. I mean, I haven't had a single ranked match yet and probably won't for a couple months because I don't think I'm good enough to compete at a satisfying level to myself or my opponents.
SF is at it's best when opponents are very close to equal in skill , it gets boring if you trounce everyone and it gets frustrating if you lose all the time. Ultimatly if you want to be in gold you've gotta check your tapes and find out how to fill those holes in your game to start winning those 3/4 games to move up.
They don't call it a struggle for nothing.