Yeah, transgender people are men who were born as women, or vice versa. They want to identify as the gender on the opposite side of the spectrum.
just like in politics where there's not just left or right, and nothing in between (as some seem to believe), there's also a middle ground with gender. Because just like with politics it's not as simple of a question but a combination of many aspects.
A gender queer person might like to dress in a very feminine way, but also wear a full beard, for example. (cmiiw if i'm speaking nonsense, btw)
similarly, a female born gender-queer could wear super baggy clothes and short hair, yet not identify as "a man" or "a woman", really.
Seeing as how central gender identity is to our personalities, wouldn't it be rather curious that this aspect of our lives could only have one out of two states?
You can be a fan of multiple sports teams, you can love all of your children the same, but you can identify with one and only one discrete gender? :/
the hardship part is that every little, innocuous plea for representation gets beaten down and mocked beyond compare.