There's nothing inherently wrong with using coarse language in a moment of passion. It happens. Many of us have been normalized growing up to use terms like nigger, faggot, tranny, homo, etc. and society has convinced us that we're not using them as derogatory slurs that they're historically meant for.
But we grow up, we mature, and hopefully someone reaches out to us to inform us that we're making jokes at the expense of other people. And in that moment we either become defensive over our freedom to use the language we are comfortable with, or we learn to exercise empathy and choose different words to convey our intent.
There's nothing noble about being the former.
But we grow up, we mature, and hopefully someone reaches out to us to inform us that we're making jokes at the expense of other people. And in that moment we either become defensive over our freedom to use the language we are comfortable with, or we learn to exercise empathy and choose different words to convey our intent.
There's nothing noble about being the former.