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I was banned for 2 weeks for saying Nintendo fans are passionately petty. Nothing vulgar or anything. Literally that was it.
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=231267806&postcount=207
This is system wars bullshit lol.
I was banned for 2 weeks for saying Nintendo fans are passionately petty. Nothing vulgar or anything. Literally that was it.
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=231267806&postcount=207
Ooh this a good one.
The way the internet has been in recent years feels like global gaslighting at times until you walk away from the keyboard and realise the rest of the world has lives outside of the pathetic race to be Ideological Purist #1 and just does not care and cares even less the more shrill that noise becomes.
You were if you were talking to evilore. It's happened loads of times.
Hmnkay... i see people getting banned left and right but no requested permabans.
Unless people do some crazy shit. I'm not much for drama. i hate drama. So i don't want to make dramatic suicide threads or insult people.
So again, i respectfully request a permaban.
I'm a better man without this forum. And i don't have the self discipline to log out and not log in anymore.
Evilore just shot himself in the foot.
I don't know how much the rest of you know about game forum culture (I'm an expert), but honor and shame are huge parts of it. It's not like it is on Twitter where you can become successful by being a shameless creep. If you sexually assault someone in real life and try to discredit the victim, you bring shame to yourself, and the only way to get rid of that shame is repentance and rotting in jail.
What this means is the general public, after hearing about this, is not going to want to associate with GAF for any topic, nor will they support any of Evilore's future initiatives. This is HUGE. You can laugh all you want, but Evilore has alienated an entire community with this move.
Evilore, publicly apologize and resign from your position or you can kiss your business goodbye.
I have to agree. This is the ultimate form of this meme.At long last, this meme has reached its final form.
And yet, rather than being funny, it's mostly sad. Because in this case, it's all 100% true. Well, except for DiipuSurotu being an expert on forum cultureI have no idea how knowledgable he is on the subject.
You know those threads had mod edits about not attacking Anita and argue her points right?
You didn't read.
You didn't learn a damn thing.
You shit posted to try and de-legitimize her whether you did it consciously or unconsciously.
I don't think you understood my post.
Complete strawman.
If you're a Republican you are either completely uninformed, ok with racism, or supportive of racism. It's just facts... :/
Doesn't make you a nazi, but no need to cuddle your views.
Explain how a Republican is not one of three above and we can discuss.
I'm really sad Neogaf is devloving this way. My girlfriend and I met here. The people of gaf helped me when I was homeless, when I came out of the closet, and when I needed a job.
GAF was my all in one stop for news stories, discoveries, games, and socializing online.
There's no chance of things being the way they were again is there?
I'm really sad Neogaf is devloving this way. My girlfriend and I met here. The people of gaf helped me when I was homeless, when I came out of the closet, and when I needed a job.
GAF was my all in one stop for news stories, discoveries, games, and socializing online.
There's no chance of things being the way they were again is there?
This is exactly right. It's a fucking shame it took what happened for NeoGAF for everyone of those Toxic parts of NeoGAF to finally understand it was them that contributed to OT being a cesspit of sycophants running around agreeing verbatim with everything or not saying anything.Fitting the bill? Fitting what bill?
I'll continue to call it like I see it: you are and were the problem.
Not the only problem, but a major problem. You attack -anyone- who disagrees with you with things like that: your "fitting the bill" is code for calling me a racist / sexist/ nazi / or whatever, even though -nothing- I've said is any such thing. Even though I've spent the majority of my life fighting such things.
My only crime is I disagree with you. So I must be the worst. I must be scum. And you will paint me as such. That's low. You're low.
And all the posts here - doing the same thing. 'Oh, look at all the [insults] coming out of the woodwork' and claiming oppression...
Well, yeah. This forum was protected by a shield of people like you that shouted down any opposing viewpoint with harsh slurs. Who wants to be accused of being something they're not? So most people stayed quiet. They weren't alt-rights hiding, waiting for something [I'm sure a couple were]... but in general, people just did not feel safe speaking their mind.
You are part of a culture of fear. Fear of speaking. Fear of putting forth one's own opinion because they might get piled on as being a [whatever]. People can't even use common phrases, for fear they're taboo... 'free speech', in this case. Use the wrong phrase, get lumped in with Nazis. So people stay silent.
And now, yes, the shields are down. So people -are- speaking their mind. And because you're so used to painting anyone you didn't agree with as the worst of the worst, you suddenly think you're surrounded by the worst of the worst.
No. You're just exposed. You're just the emperor with no clothes. You think you are wearing the shining outfit of progressive thought, and you used it to paint everyone else as degenerates. But you were just naked, and low. "Then stop fitting the bill" my ass. You try to silence through accusation, thinking you're the higher ground when you can barely breath through the muck.
Don't get me wrong - I believe in many of the same things as you. I believe we always need to work towards a better world. I think many people are ignorant, and a surprising number of people entertain quite vile ideas. But where we differ is I don't assume anyone that disagrees with me must be one of those people, and I certainly don't accuse people of it on the drop of a dime. If someone asks me a question, I answer and try to educate [even if it's the tenth time I'm asked] instead of shaming them.
I know this won't stick, today. But maybe, someday... something in here will make it past your ideological shield and you'll realize I'm on your side. I'm trying to help you understand that we grow through discussion, not silence. I'm not saying we should have the scum of the earth here - we agree on that. But the issue is your brush is far too broad. Vile people exist. And they should certainly be dealt with - I'm perfectly fine with giving no quarter for abusive behavior. But that's not what was happening here [and your 'stop fitting the bill' comment is a perfect example of that].
I'm really sad Neogaf is devloving this way. My girlfriend and I met here. The people of gaf helped me when I was homeless, when I came out of the closet, and when I needed a job.
GAF was my all in one stop for news stories, discoveries, games, and socializing online.
There's no chance of things being the way they were again is there?
Fitting the bill? Fitting what bill?
I'll continue to call it like I see it: you are and were the problem.
Not the only problem, but a major problem. You attack -anyone- who disagrees with you with things like that: your "fitting the bill" is code for calling me a racist / sexist/ nazi / or whatever, even though -nothing- I've said is any such thing. Even though I've spent the majority of my life fighting such things.
My only crime is I disagree with you. So I must be the worst. I must be scum. And you will paint me as such. That's low. You're low.
And all the posts here - doing the same thing. 'Oh, look at all the [insults] coming out of the woodwork' and claiming oppression...
Well, yeah. This forum was protected by a shield of people like you that shouted down any opposing viewpoint with harsh slurs. Who wants to be accused of being something they're not? So most people stayed quiet. They weren't alt-rights hiding, waiting for something [I'm sure a couple were]... but in general, people just did not feel safe speaking their mind.
You are part of a culture of fear. Fear of speaking. Fear of putting forth one's own opinion because they might get piled on as being a [whatever]. People can't even use common phrases, for fear they're taboo... 'free speech', in this case. Use the wrong phrase, get lumped in with Nazis. So people stay silent.
And now, yes, the shields are down. So people -are- speaking their mind. And because you're so used to painting anyone you didn't agree with as the worst of the worst, you suddenly think you're surrounded by the worst of the worst.
No. You're just exposed. You're just the emperor with no clothes. You think you are wearing the shining outfit of progressive thought, and you used it to paint everyone else as degenerates. But you were just naked, and low. "Then stop fitting the bill" my ass. You try to silence through accusation, thinking you're the higher ground when you can barely breath through the muck.
Don't get me wrong - I believe in many of the same things as you. I believe we always need to work towards a better world. I think many people are ignorant, and a surprising number of people entertain quite vile ideas. But where we differ is I don't assume anyone that disagrees with me must be one of those people, and I certainly don't accuse people of it on the drop of a dime. If someone asks me a question, I answer and try to educate [even if it's the tenth time I'm asked] instead of shaming them.
I know this won't stick, today. But maybe, someday... something in here will make it past your ideological shield and you'll realize I'm on your side. I'm trying to help you understand that we grow through discussion, not silence. I'm not saying we should have the scum of the earth here - we agree on that. But the issue is your brush is far too broad. Vile people exist. And they should certainly be dealt with - I'm perfectly fine with giving no quarter for abusive behavior. But that's not what was happening here [and your 'stop fitting the bill' comment is a perfect example of that].
Yeah, a lot of the members who left seem to forget that sexual relations are complicated and sometimes it can get awkward when you misjudge a situation.
Fitting the bill? Fitting what bill?
I'll continue to call it like I see it: you are and were the problem.
Not the only problem, but a major problem. You attack -anyone- who disagrees with you with things like that: your "fitting the bill" is code for calling me a racist / sexist/ nazi / or whatever, even though -nothing- I've said is any such thing. Even though I've spent the majority of my life fighting such things.
My only crime is I disagree with you. So I must be the worst. I must be scum. And you will paint me as such. That's low. You're low.
And all the posts here - doing the same thing. 'Oh, look at all the [insults] coming out of the woodwork' and claiming oppression...
Well, yeah. This forum was protected by a shield of people like you that shouted down any opposing viewpoint with harsh slurs. Who wants to be accused of being something they're not? So most people stayed quiet. They weren't alt-rights hiding, waiting for something [I'm sure a couple were]... but in general, people just did not feel safe speaking their mind.
Fitting the bill? Fitting what bill?
I'll continue to call it like I see it: you are and were the problem.
Not the only problem, but a major problem. You attack -anyone- who disagrees with you with things like that: your "fitting the bill" is code for calling me a racist / sexist/ nazi / or whatever, even though -nothing- I've said is any such thing. Even though I've spent the majority of my life fighting such things.
My only crime is I disagree with you. So I must be the worst. I must be scum. And you will paint me as such. That's low. You're low.
And all the posts here - doing the same thing. 'Oh, look at all the [insults] coming out of the woodwork' and claiming oppression...
Well, yeah. This forum was protected by a shield of people like you that shouted down any opposing viewpoint with harsh slurs. Who wants to be accused of being something they're not? So most people stayed quiet. They weren't alt-rights hiding, waiting for something [I'm sure a couple were]... but in general, people just did not feel safe speaking their mind.
You are part of a culture of fear. Fear of speaking. Fear of putting forth one's own opinion because they might get piled on as being a [whatever]. People can't even use common phrases, for fear they're taboo... 'free speech', in this case. Use the wrong phrase, get lumped in with Nazis. So people stay silent.
And now, yes, the shields are down. So people -are- speaking their mind. And because you're so used to painting anyone you didn't agree with as the worst of the worst, you suddenly think you're surrounded by the worst of the worst.
No. You're just exposed. You're just the emperor with no clothes. You think you are wearing the shining outfit of progressive thought, and you used it to paint everyone else as degenerates. But you were just naked, and low. "Then stop fitting the bill" my ass. You try to silence through accusation, thinking you're the higher ground when you can barely breath through the muck.
Don't get me wrong - I believe in many of the same things as you. I believe we always need to work towards a better world. I think many people are ignorant, and a surprising number of people entertain quite vile ideas. But where we differ is I don't assume anyone that disagrees with me must be one of those people, and I certainly don't accuse people of it on the drop of a dime. If someone asks me a question, I answer and try to educate [even if it's the tenth time I'm asked] instead of shaming them.
I know this won't stick, today. But maybe, someday... something in here will make it past your ideological shield and you'll realize I'm on your side. I'm trying to help you understand that we grow through discussion, not silence. I'm not saying we should have the scum of the earth here - we agree on that. But the issue is your brush is far too broad. Vile people exist. And they should certainly be dealt with - I'm perfectly fine with giving no quarter for abusive behavior. But that's not what was happening here [and your 'stop fitting the bill' comment is a perfect example of that].
why do you guys overreact when someone calls out something you say as racist/sexist/homophobic
it doesn't mean you're a demon.
just that something you said is problematic
you shouldn't interpret it as a mark against your character. no one is perfect
Dude, that is exactly our point. Why is there some blanket mod policy that a certain person -- any person -- is above criticism? That is not right. Also, I've noticed dismissing something as a "shit post" is a favorite tactic of GAF's more censorious users. I was asking a legitimate question in a civil and courteous way. It's not a shit post.
You were talking with people. Of course if people dislike your views they're going to not talk to you.
As for insults? Where? Being called out isn't an insult.
You even admit in the bolded where you fucked up. Like, you used personal experience as a way to combat studies. Did you really think people would give you the time of day?
Hi.
Clearly I misread a situation and fucked up. I apologize, and I wish her the best. I may speak more on this later; for now please contain discussions about me personally to the appropriate thread. Thanks.
Hi.
An allegation of sexual misconduct has been made against me by someone with whom I used to be in a physical relationship. All allegations of this nature are serious, of course, and we should extend our respect to her and offer whatever resources she needs to cope with this situation.
While I understand the disappointment and anger some of you may harbor against me for this allegation, please know that there was more to the situation than she alleged. I misread her signals and didn't grasp how ill she was. I did enter the bathroom with her, but when she made clear that she was ill and not interested in a physical relationship at that time, I immediately disengaged and offered whatever help I could provide her.
While it does not excuse the alleged misconduct, please know that the woman and I did have a physical relationship after this incident which ended in a way that may have left some hard feelings. I understand there is no way to avoid discussing this on the forum, so I only ask that you please contain discussion of me *personally* to the appropriate thread.
Thanks.
I don't get why people are so upset about GAF shitting on people with different opinions as if that doesn't happen fucking everywhere. Try to talk about feminism on 4chan or reddit lol. If you didn't like GAF, there's a million ~moderate~ websites you could get your gaming news from. No need to stick to this one.
They're really, really awful. Not just for the people in 'em, but for friends & family of the people in 'em. Can't count how many times I've asked "why do ya keep going back to him?!". Some people eventually grow numb to it an fall into the trap of "its their life whatevs" which really stinks but I can't blame 'em for forming such an attitude. Nothing anyone says or does stops 'em from eventually getting back together over an over again. People close to 'em can't help for reals. Only some kind of "relationship detox" could hope to do the job but that requires effort and money and therapy."Well, why'd she stay?"
Tell me what you think of relationships that are physically abusive, GAF.
Nopes! Gamefaqs is the secret best place to chat about individual games cause they got a forum for just about every game ever made! Try not lumping everyone/thing together under one banner.Believe me, it's not. Try going on GameFAQs some time. It's pure unadulterated shite. Gaming side is a goddamn temple compared to that.
Dunno the story about them but weren't some of them kicked off/banned from gaf for some reason or another?I don't know who came up with the name.
But Gaffers include ZhugeEx, Shinobi, nibel and a whole bunch of other well known Gaffers. There are a lot of them. I am sure you will see who's exactly in there when it opens up.
Heck I know I sure as heck didn't get compensation or even recognition for the what... 2 or 3 OTs I made? Heck one of my next ones was gonna be for a fan translated game. I'm not so sure devs/pubs would've showered me with cash for that!That insinuates OT makers were affiliated with the developer or PR, which I assure you in most cases was not so. In fact, that's actually insulting as someone who created a few Gaming side OTs.
You wouldn't get banned for it though. And many moderate opinions are even hard to express here without escalation. Having grounded intelligent criticism could get you banned here if it's criticism against anything deemed "untouchable" by a loud opposition that has a monopoly on the truth.
Guess I need to post this again since there are some people who seem to have already forgotten after 2 page. Wow, how the mind slips!
"Allegedly"
Opening admitting to sexually assaulting someone(then banning anyone who called him out for it)
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Posting revenge porn with their real full names then another admin(a now jailed pedophile) printed the photos and jacked off over them and sent it to the boyfriend.
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You're right, how can we even know if he's guilty or not? HMMMM
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I'm really sad Neogaf is devloving this way. My girlfriend and I met here. The people of gaf helped me when I was homeless, when I came out of the closet, and when I needed a job.
GAF was my all in one stop for news stories, discoveries, games, and socializing online.
There's no chance of things being the way they were again is there?
But Diablos survived? Why? 'Cause he kept the crazy in check until a point. Y'all's pride and ego couldn't handle not dropping "truth bombs".
Y'all never learned your words carried weight and that weight was toxic. Y'all believed it was just opinions and they're just opinions, man. That's where y'all failed. You never cared to look into why people were upset at y'all because you never cared. You never cared for discussion because reasonable, sensible people have a discussion and then move on. They don't argue it over and over because action comes next. You just want to keep trying to normalize a perspective and behavior.
Everyone saying they can finally breath and speak their mind never jumped ship before. They stayed silent. They grew bitter. That silence is telling. Even perpetuating the idea that disagreement lead to a ban is a lie you all want to desperately believe because you don't want to accept the realization that people dislike you for some views you hold. You want to be liked regardless of what you say and do. Now they've all left you guys and you will still be angry later when they're off in their own forum. I'm sure a lot of the gamergaters here can feel it slipping, they know they're back in the dirt. If they reflect privately for a bit, look into that void they call their soul they'll realize they're just chasing the acceptance of people they hate. They'll never admit it but their actions are telling: follow the ship jumpers. Y'all will never get their love cause you were never worthy.
My story:
Some poster made a thread calling Summer Lesson problematic.
I chimed in about the separation of reality from imagination.
CrossingEden comes in and denounces developers that make such games.
I said that developers should have the right to make the games they want.
CrossingEden calls people who play Summer Lesson paedophiles and sexual predators.
I argued that saying games make people sexual predators is the same as saying games make people murderers.
CrossingEden argued that there is no point in discussing video game violence because it is different because reasons.
I said that he is being hypocritical about it.
CrossingEden strawmanned me and suddenly made my position as "I support paedophilic content", and then summoned his lapdog besada
besada not only threatened to ban me, but also threatened to report me to authorities as well as report me to my work place (my registered e-mail was from my workplace)
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1295029
The persecution complex from people who were angry that they couldn't say offensive/ignorant/bigoted stuff in the OT with the consequence of community reaction is interesting to see.
Nope, it's exactly what everyone said, you're just refusing to understand this was all you.That's a different story but these arguments of "I can speak freely now" aren't directed there. It's subtle jabs at people being put on blast for saying racist, misogynistic, bigoted, or prejudiced shit. To them this isn't about Evilore but to get back at them damn SJWs ruining mah video games.
You engaged in "whataboutism." People bring up violence in games when they want to shut down discussion on sexual content. It's a separate discussion.
When I talk with people I don't expect them to then insinuate that my parents are abusers. That's not being called out, that's being insulted.
Furthermore, why wouldn't I use my own personal experience? The point I was making was that there are degrees of physical punishment, that it is reductive to suggest everyone who so much as taps their child on the wrist is a child abuser and that not everyone who experiences these things turns out bad.
Discourse is a nuanced thing, which people like yourself just don't seem to understand. I don't mind if people don't agree with me, but GAF collectively seems to have a very hard time of discussing within that grey area. It's always black and white. Either the absolute best or absolute worst. No middle ground. It's tiring.
And this is the exact problem I'm speaking about.
Are you sure you are ok?
I got banned once for pointing out that a moderator just heavily insulted millions of Americans (all Trump voters). I'm European and never even had a dog in the race.
I also got banned when I argued that not all the people that celebrate with Zwarte Piet, especially the children, are racist scum that deserve to be hated (I'm not Dutch). I also still have a screenshot of the ban message which read: "sorry the blacks ruined your good times". Like, what did that even mean? Pretty sure there were also countless insults thrown against me.
When the person saying it isn't actually racist/sexist/homophobic, of course they're not gonna like those types of charges being leveled at them.
And let's be honest. Most of the time we wouldn't have reasoned explanations of why some might find certain statements 'problematic'. All too often it was more like "FUK U BURN IN HELL NAZI".
The state of NeoGAF for the next month or more is going to be people drive-by shitposting because they feel it accomplishes something towards a greater good. They can't just not sign in. They MUST be banned or have their account deleted. That's what's more baffling. You don't like it here, don't visit. It's really not hard.
Fitting the bill? Fitting what bill?
I'll continue to call it like I see it: you are and were the problem.
Not the only problem, but a major problem. You attack -anyone- who disagrees with you with things like that: your "fitting the bill" is code for calling me a racist / sexist/ nazi / or whatever, even though -nothing- I've said is any such thing. Even though I've spent the majority of my life fighting such things.
My only crime is I disagree with you. So I must be the worst. I must be scum. And you will paint me as such. That's low. You're low.
And all the posts here - doing the same thing. 'Oh, look at all the [insults] coming out of the woodwork' and claiming oppression...
Well, yeah. This forum was protected by a shield of people like you that shouted down any opposing viewpoint with harsh slurs. Who wants to be accused of being something they're not? So most people stayed quiet. They weren't alt-rights hiding, waiting for something [I'm sure a couple were]... but in general, people just did not feel safe speaking their mind.
You are part of a culture of fear. Fear of speaking. Fear of putting forth one's own opinion because they might get piled on as being a [whatever]. People can't even use common phrases, for fear they're taboo... 'free speech', in this case. Use the wrong phrase, get lumped in with Nazis. So people stay silent.
And now, yes, the shields are down. So people -are- speaking their mind. And because you're so used to painting anyone you didn't agree with as the worst of the worst, you suddenly think you're surrounded by the worst of the worst.
No. You're just exposed. You're just the emperor with no clothes. You think you are wearing the shining outfit of progressive thought, and you used it to paint everyone else as degenerates. But you were just naked, and low. "Then stop fitting the bill" my ass. You try to silence through accusation, thinking you're the higher ground when you can barely breath through the muck.
Don't get me wrong - I believe in many of the same things as you. I believe we always need to work towards a better world. I think many people are ignorant, and a surprising number of people entertain quite vile ideas. But where we differ is I don't assume anyone that disagrees with me must be one of those people, and I certainly don't accuse people of it on the drop of a dime. If someone asks me a question, I answer and try to educate [even if it's the tenth time I'm asked] instead of shaming them.
I know this won't stick, today. But maybe, someday... something in here will make it past your ideological shield and you'll realize I'm on your side. I'm trying to help you understand that we grow through discussion, not silence. I'm not saying we should have the scum of the earth here - we agree on that. But the issue is your brush is far too broad. Vile people exist. And they should certainly be dealt with - I'm perfectly fine with giving no quarter for abusive behavior. But that's not what was happening here [and your 'stop fitting the bill' comment is a perfect example of that].
But Diablos survived? Why? 'Cause he kept the crazy in check until a point. Y'all's pride and ego couldn't handle not dropping "truth bombs".
Y'all never learned your words carried weight and that weight was toxic. Y'all believed it was just opinions and they're just opinions, man. That's where y'all failed. You never cared to look into why people were upset at y'all because you never cared. You never cared for discussion because reasonable, sensible people have a discussion and then move on. They don't argue it over and over because action comes next. You just want to keep trying to normalize a perspective and behavior.
Everyone saying they can finally breath and speak their mind never jumped ship before. They stayed silent. They grew bitter. That silence is telling. Even perpetuating the idea that disagreement lead to a ban is a lie you all want to desperately believe because you don't want to accept the realization that people dislike you for some views you hold. You want to be liked regardless of what you say and do. Now they've all left you guys and you will still be angry later when they're off in their own forum. I'm sure a lot of the gamergaters here can feel it slipping, they know they're back in the dirt. If they reflect privately for a bit, look into that void they call their soul they'll realize they're just chasing the acceptance of people they hate. They'll never admit it but their actions are telling: follow the ship jumpers. Y'all will never get their love cause you were never worthy.
And this is the exact problem I'm speaking about.