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I'm not saying that cool and collected = thinker, either. Rather, that the cool and collected "mask" is usually pretty thin and all it takes is patience -- not constant callouts -- until you see that mask slip.I disagree that cool and collected = thinker.
Nobody is more collected than Nobody_Important, yet, nobody would think that suggesting him as a profound thinker was anything but nonsense. On the contrary, he hides behind that persona, twisting words and events to suit his agenda.
I'm not ascribing greater respectability to the person who is calm and collected. I think you've misunderstood the crux of my post.The words and actions are what matters. Not the optics. The idea that someone is speaking passionately, thus have nothing meaningful to say, is an ignorant one based around modern pseudo-intellectual nonsense. Do the words resonate? Do they express an idea worth considering? Then be as angry as you want.
A calm, quiet person can be an idiot, as much as a heated person. A heated person can be as profound as a calm, quiet person.
Wisdom is found in every nook and cranny in this world. Be careful not to arbitrarily restrict what you receive it from.
You and I have clashed before on the topic of how to "properly" address these persistent issues in the community.
By all means, be suspicious of people and maintain a long memory. I don't mean "suspicious" dismissively, either. One should generally be suspicious and hide behind anonymity on the internet, but that should also open the door to be free and honest with one's opinions on a subject. The poison is when people abuse this to use the anonymity to do anything and everything to prevent free and honest exchange of opinions, if for no other reason than they do not wish to look in the mirror or to see others improve their lot in life.
I'll take a passionate person with whom I disagree as long as I get the impression that I am engaging with someone real, with real opinions.
I am regularly disappointed by the GAFer who is well-spoken on the surface but when prodded a bit they crumple into a pile of logical fallacies and dogma.
That is the dividing line, whether the person is or isn't presenting themselves honestly, or if they cower behind tricks of debate or stall tactics to avoid owning up to the persona they've chosen to create on an anonymous videogame board.
If you can't be honest on a videogame board, I truly wonder if that person has the capacity to be honest in their "real life". I doubt they are.
Even if you have a crystal-clear opinion of someone in your head, confronting them directly isn't always gonna get the result you want, especially if they can play the coy, polite shit-stirrer. Those folks certainly aren't adding anything good to the community, but "poisonous snake" isn't exactly banworthy, either.
It doesn't matter if these people currently exist.That said,
Regardless of how you post, this is the holy grail. Unfortunately, I don't think a large amount of these people exist, either on Gaf, or in general.
Do you believe they can be made to exist, i.e. they can be taught to expand their minds in this manner? I do, and I engage with GAF at large under the assumption that a not-zero number of people can improve their thinking and cross that threshold, given patience.