Does A Woman's Body Count Matter to Men, Yes or No?

Does it matter?

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Tl;Dr it's not the body count so much as to what it says about their mentality, the way the view relationships, etc now if that aligns with how you see things great if not move on because even if you try to ignore it will bother you and things will ultimately fail.
 
My first answer would be, no, it doesn't. If I meet someone who is the right person for me in every way, physically, emotionally, mentally, then her past will not prevent me from being with someone who is highly compatible with me and with whom I could potentially be for the rest of my life.

That said, this scenario is very unlikely. My ideal partner will see sex as something that's pretty special, that you don't just give to every random Joe you come across. So it doesn't matter, and yet it does because it says a lot about the person.
 
I've been cheated on twice in my life and it was both by highly promiscuous women, so yes it matters. You'll never get a straight answer from a woman about her number though and she'll just get pissed if you straight up ask (never do this btw it never leads to anything good and even if the number is low she'll just be mad). If you ask subtle questions and keep a count/check list in your head you can sort of suss it out though.
 
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ConkerTheSquirrel. said:
Because for the woman who's experienced, in her head, she's doing a Mental Dick-Measuring Contest.

There's always someone else in her past who might have a bigger dick than you (literally and figuratively).

So, whether we like it or not, it is about ego.

"Comparison is the thief of joy"

If you want your SO to be subconsciously cucking you to her past, then okay! Whatever satisfies that kink, I guess!
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pro tip brother once u figure out how to get girls to like you and actually want to fuck you all this toxic shit goes out the window

women have a much higher social IQ and can sniff ur toxic attitude and insecurities towards woman from miles away
 
12Goblins said:
pro tip brother once u figure out how to get girls to like you and actually want to fuck you all this toxic shit goes out the window

women have a much higher social IQ and can sniff ur toxic attitude and insecurities towards woman from miles away
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That's why women respond so well to game. They can't handle the truth, so you have to finesse them with honeyed words. It's best to just keep your opinion about this to yourself, especially if you're trying to get something (pussy) out of them.
 
Sonik said:
Of course it matters and aside from the obvious promiscuity also predicts pretty well the future of your relationship


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More partners = probably more pretty than the rest. The more pretty you are, more people wants to have sex with you, so cheating becomes more common.

Same goes for men. It's easier to avoid cheating when you arent handsome and women arent desiring you.
 
Hugare said:
More partners = probably more pretty than the rest. The more pretty you are, more people wants to have sex with you, so cheating becomes more common.

Same goes for men. It's easier to avoid cheating when you arent handsome and women arent desiring you.
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I don't think you understand how this works at all and that's definitely not how it works for women, even the most average looking plain Jane can sleep with dozens of men easily nowadays. It's all about how women decide to live their lives, the only ones who don't have many choices are either really old or really fat
 
Sonik said:
I don't think you understand how this works at all and that's definitely not how it works for women, even the most average looking plain Jane can sleep with dozens of men easily nowadays. It's all about how women decide to live their lives, the only ones who don't have many choices are either really old or really fat
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Honestly, I think women who are only "moderately" attractive have the most opportunities because guys of all levels of attractiveness/wealth/status desire them. They're often more approachable anyway, or at least guys perceive them that way.

High status guys see them as easy pickings (while still being attracted to them) and lower status guys think they have a chance (and sometimes they do).
 
You must be an insecure, sad impersonation of a "man" if a woman's body count is hurting your ego.

Go work out and start being a real man.
 
OverHeat said:
You would fuck someone that's have a body count of more than a 100? 🤮
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I judge a person based on who they are today and what they mean to me on a personal level. Everyone has a past. I wouldn't want a woman to judge me by my past but by what it made me today.

Grow up and be a man.
 
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The worst divorces and breakups I have seen are when women settle down very young and have little experience. They hit around 30 and just break.

When you have a more mature and experienced woman she is who she is for better or worse.

It is much easier to vet somebody like that.
 
Shaki12345 said:
I judge a person based on who they are today and what they mean to me on a personal level. Everyone has a past. I wouldn't want a woman to judge me by my past but by what it made me today.

Grow up and be a man.
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Her "past" tells a lot about her character. Also "people don't change" is mostly true in real life so if she was a sleeping around in the past what makes you thing she will change her ways for you?
 
Bojji said:
Her "past" tells a lot about her character. Also "people don't change" is mostly true in real life so if she was a sleeping around in the past what makes you thing she will change her ways for you?
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You seem very insecure. I always think of myself as her best option. Why else would she choose me? Maybe sleeping around in the past made her think twice later on in life. Who knows? And by the way, what she did in her past sexually is NONE of your business anyway.
 
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Shaki12345 said:
You seem very insecure. I always think of myself as her best option. Why else would she choose me? Maybe sleeping around in the past made her think twice later on in life. Who knows? And by the way, it's NONE of your business anyway.
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Why? Her past boyfriends and lovers can enter your life (im one way or the other) at some point so it would be better to know about them before that happens.

My woman has low body count (<5) but I already had to deal with ex boyfriend "still in love" 2 years ago.
 
Bojji said:
Why? Her past boyfriends and lovers can enter your life (im one way or the other) at some point so it would be better to know about them before that happens.

My woman has low body count (<5) but I already had to deal with ex boyfriend "still in love" 2 years ago.
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It is NONE of your business which dude or dudes your wife or gf fucked before you. If she tells by herself that's ok. If you ask, you are a beta cuck and she will feel less attracted when time goes on.

Grow some balls bro.
 
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Shaki12345 said:
You must be an insecure, sad impersonation of a "man" if a woman's body count is hurting your ego.

Go work out and start being a real man.
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lol, LMAO even...

You're all brave with your theories and words until shit hits you in the head/you actually experience it.

It's easy playing it the "big man®" on internet forums but reality man is a different thing, also, no actual sane "real" man is buying what you're trying to peddle, it's all internet tough guy/better guy© bullshit.
And you're the guy calling other cucks® ? LMAO, try to have some self-awareness at least...

If I had a dime for everytime I read/heard this kind of absolutely pathetic drivel I'd be driving a Ferrari now.

PS: 99.9% of polyamorous and pathetic cucks would (literally) share the same opinion - until of course reality hits them in the head.
 
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Giallo Corsa said:
lol, LMAO even...

You're all brave with your theories and words until shit hits you in the head/you actually experience it.

It's easy playing it the "big man®" on internet forums but reality man is a different thing, also, no actual sane "real" man is buying what you're trying to peddle, it's all internet tough guy/better guy© bullshit.
If I had a dime for everytime I read/heard this kind of absolutely pathetic drivel I'd be driving a Ferrari now.

PS: 99.9% of polyamorous and pathetic cucks would (literally) share the same opinion - until of course reality hits them in the head.
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Listen up G. I had more than 60 women in my life. Am I a whore?

I have made the mistake, earlier in life, to ask girls about their sexual past to then get more insecure.

Now, years later, I have manned up and I don't give a F anymore. I expect her to choose me because she's the man I want. And that goes both ways.
 
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Shaki12345 said:
It is NONE of your business which dude or dudes your wife or gf fucked before you. If she tells by herself that's ok. If you ask, you are a beta cuck and she will feel less attracted when time goes on.

Grow some balls bro.
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So you are ok with no knowledge of your woman past? Past will always enter the chat at some point.

She told me everything herself (on first few dates even) but I think it's smart to have as much information about your partner as possible. You want to spend your life with the person you don't really know?
 
Bojji said:
Her "past" tells a lot about her character. Also "people don't change" is mostly true in real life so if she was a sleeping around in the past what makes you thing she will change her ways for you?
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Who she is NOW is where you should judge if she's of good character or not. Not who she WAS before she met you.

Are you time traveling into the past to see what someone was like? Even if you could, you'd likely see they're a different person than who they are now. As are you.

I know I'm COLLOSALLY different than who I was 5-10 years ago. DEFINITELY I'm a different person than I was 20 years ago. I'm 50 now.
 
Bojji said:
So you are ok with no knowledge of your woman past? Past will always enter the chat at some point.

She told me everything herself (on first few dates even) but I think it's smart to have as much information about your partner as possible. You want to spend your life with the person you don't really know?
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I am OK. If it comes up, it comes up. If it doesn't, I'm not going to dig in her past.

In the end, we are together because we want to be. That's all that matters in this cruel world pal. Of all the guys she had, you're the last one. You survived the Battle Royale. Be happy and drink to your victory instead of cucking yourself into insecurity.
 
OverHeat said:
You would fuck someone that's have a body count of more than a 100? 🤮
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If you looked Henry Cavil and most women desired you, wouldnt you also have a body count on the hundreds?

Yeah, right

The hypocrisy on this thread is through the roof.
 
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Shaki12345 said:
Go work out and start being a real man.
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Shaki12345 said:
You seem very insecure.
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Shaki12345 said:
Grow some balls bro.
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Christ, rein in your shaming. Men don't need to take these disingenuous platitudes from dudes who take from a woman's book of shaming a man into submitting to them if our opinion doesn't match your own.

Because see, here's the difference between me and the "No" crowd: I'm not going to shame you for your way of looking at things. A "real man", as you say, doesn't change his opinion on things because people around him are shaming him into thinking a certain way.

We die holding to what we think. If that means no pussy (I know that's a shocker for you, Mr. I-Fucked-60-Women), then fine. At least I'll die a "real man", not the Gillette version of it, as you seem to subscribe to.
 
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Reading some very unhealthy replies from either side here. Guys, you and your partner should be honest with each other, if you can't handle knowing they've had a past or get offended at being asked about it then that's not good groundwork.
 
ConkerTheSquirrel. said:
If I ever find myself with a woman whose body count is in the >100s (lol), she better dish it out when I want; otherwise, it's not going to work out as the implication of not giving me the poonani is emasculating.
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ConkerTheSquirrel. said:
If I'm being honest here, that's the only reason why I would find myself in that situation, is if I was looking for an easy lay. Now, if I can't easily get it, then goodbye!
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ConkerTheSquirrel. said:
If you want your SO to be subconsciously cucking you to her past, then okay! Whatever satisfies that kink, I guess!
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I don't think there's anything wrong with preferring someone similar to yourself if you have a low body count but the way you talk about it makes you seem extremely bitter. That type of attitude is unattractive to all women and you probably should take a break from the redpill rage baiters.
 
Rawbutt Jellybean said:
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People throw this term around like it's candy. What do you mean?

None of what I said was meant to carry any emotional weight to it, it's just how I express myself. xD A bit crude, sure, but whatever.

I'm open to hearing the other side of the aisle, but all they do is throw and hurl insults.

I'm here to listen and discuss. Now, if you think how I express myself is somehow bitter, then explain.
 
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ConkerTheSquirrel. said:
People throw this term around like it's candy. What do you mean?

None of what I said was meant to carry any emotional weight to it, it's just how I express myself. xD A bit crude, sure, but whatever.

I'm open to hearing the other side of the aisle, but all they do is throw and hurl insults.

I'm here to listen and discuss. Now, if you think how I express myself is somehow bitter, then explain.
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You seem upset that women can get laid whenever they want and you can't. You're jealous of them and would have a high body count too if you could. That's what I mean.
 
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Rawbutt Jellybean said:
You seem upset that women can get laid whenever they want and you can't. You're jealous of them and would have a high body count too if you could. That's what I mean.
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Nah man, just having a bit of fun with my wordplay here.

Women can do whatever they want, as far as I'm concerned. I'm just saying it how I see it.

Now, if you or anyone has a different viewpoint, I'm open to listen to it.
 
I am a sex tourist so my body count is in the hundreds. I can't be the one to judge. The best women I ever got along with were prostitutes.
 
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ConkerTheSquirrel. said:
Christ, rein in your shaming. Men don't need to take these disingenuous platitudes from dudes who take from a woman's book of shaming a man into submitting to them if our opinion doesn't match your own.

Because see, here's the difference between me and the "No" crowd: I'm not going to shame you for your way of looking at things. A "real man", as you say, doesn't change his opinion on things because people around him are shaming him into thinking a certain way.

We die holding to what we think. If that means no pussy (I know that's a shocker for you, Mr. I-Fucked-60-Women), then fine. At least I'll die a "real man", not the Gillette version of it, as you seem to subscribe to.
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A real man without getting pussy, because he behaves like a bitch is what you are in that case.
 
Body count matters less to me than perhaps...baby count? It's just, I dunno...I'm not even sure I want kids of my own, and someone else's kids in my life sounds even less appealing.
 
ConkerTheSquirrel. said:
Christ, rein in your shaming. Men don't need to take these disingenuous platitudes from dudes who take from a woman's book of shaming a man into submitting to them if our opinion doesn't match your own.

Because see, here's the difference between me and the "No" crowd: I'm not going to shame you for your way of looking at things. A "real man", as you say, doesn't change his opinion on things because people around him are shaming him into thinking a certain way.

We die holding to what we think. If that means no pussy (I know that's a shocker for you, Mr. I-Fucked-60-Women), then fine. At least I'll die a "real man", not the Gillette version of it, as you seem to subscribe to.
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You're one angry squirrel.

I don't get it. Aren't all of us fucking around when we are young?

Would you rather have a woman with no experience at all?
 
The politically correct answer that everyone wants to hear: Of course it doesn't matter what her body count is, don't be silly. People make choices in life and you can't judge her off of that! Such a double standard!

The truth: It's probably the single largest determinant of value in a female in the dating/sexual landscape.
 
DeafTourette said:
Who she is NOW is where you should judge if she's of good character or not. Not who she WAS before she met you.

Are you time traveling into the past to see what someone was like? Even if you could, you'd likely see they're a different person than who they are now. As are you.

I know I'm COLLOSALLY different than who I was 5-10 years ago. DEFINITELY I'm a different person than I was 20 years ago. I'm 50 now.
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Most people are less dumb with age (including me) but many character traits (and habits) stay the same.

Shaki12345 said:
I am OK. If it comes up, it comes up. If it doesn't, I'm not going to dig in her past.

In the end, we are together because we want to be. That's all that matters in this cruel world pal. Of all the guys she had, you're the last one. You survived the Battle Royale. Be happy and drink to your victory instead of cucking yourself into insecurity.
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I don't care about this stuff and I'm not insecure about it lol, almost 5 years into relationship it doesn't matter. It only mattered at the begging for like 5 minutes (and again when ex boyfriend showed up).

My answer to OP was hypothetical, my partner had low body count so I didn't have to think about this stuff very much. But what if she had 50+ sexual partners (or 100?)? I have no idea but for sure this info would fuck me up at first and I'm not sure we would be together is she had past like that.
 
Bojji said:
Most people are less dumb with age (including me) but many character traits (and habits) stay the same.



I don't care about this stuff and I'm not insecure about it lol, almost 5 years into relationship it doesn't matter. It only mattered at the begging for like 5 minutes (and again when ex boyfriend showed up).

My answer to OP was hypothetical, my partner had low body count so I didn't have to think about this stuff very much. But what if she had 50+ sexual partners (or 100?)? I have no idea but for sure this info would fuck me up at first and I'm not sure we would be together is she had past like that.
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Fair point. But don't you agree that if it would fuck you up, it's a YOU problem and not a her problem? (Insecurity)
 
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