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DR2K
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Just in the butt shot? What about that one
That's just me making a goofy face, totally intentional that time.
Let's talk size for a moment. What is your perception of average out of these sizes:
5"
5.5"
6"
6.5"
7"
7.5"
8"
Let's assume that girth is always in proportion, so it doesn't get to complex.
Where would you draw the line between your perception of average and more than average? Big?
I'm curious about this because I think there's a clear difference between the actual average and people's perception of average.
5"
5.5"
6"
6.5"
7"
7.5"
8"
Let's assume that girth is always in proportion, so it doesn't get to complex.
Where would you draw the line between your perception of average and more than average? Big?
I'm curious about this because I think there's a clear difference between the actual average and people's perception of average.
ZephyrFate
Banned
Average is six, seven is more than average, eight is huge and beautiful.
The Abominable Snowman
Member
Avg is 8" for me. Large ehh maybe 10+.
/Size queen
/Size queen
I'm a top!
Needs to be quoted more.. :O!
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But yeah, "average" is around 6 (actual 6 inches, not the Adam4Adam or Manhunt "6 inches" that are like 4 inches in reality because they measure with their hands).
In the end (well to me) it doesn't matter. Wouldn't mind been with a guy with no penis neither.
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But yeah, "average" is around 6 (actual 6 inches, not the Adam4Adam or Manhunt "6 inches" that are like 4 inches in reality because they measure with their hands).
In the end (well to me) it doesn't matter. Wouldn't mind been with a guy with no penis neither.
chronos4590
Member
So I found this awesome new favorite web series. It's called "It Gets Betterish" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5b-ZmOSqGKg&feature=channel_video_title
Bearded Glasses guy is sexy.
Edit: Here is the first video in the Series "Lady Gaga"
Bearded Glasses guy is sexy.
Edit: Here is the first video in the Series "Lady Gaga"
I think I accidentally came out to a friend while we had dinner together. He was asking me if I have a girlfriend and I said no and when he said why not, I told him because I'm not interested. I don't know what came to me but I guess I'm tired of not saying the truth when someone usually asked and I just blurt it out last night. Last night I thought he probably took it as a joke but on a hindsight, that was quite an admission if taken seriously.
I hope he takes it well but I really hesitate doing this because in the past it has caused me to lose some friends (they drop off the radar and stop talking to me like I'm some kind of leper). Oh well, I guess there's no point in developing some kind of friendship attachment to someone if you know they're going to drop off from your life because of news like this. May as well have it known now when I don't know him that well (we've only known each other for about a year).
I hope he takes it well but I really hesitate doing this because in the past it has caused me to lose some friends (they drop off the radar and stop talking to me like I'm some kind of leper). Oh well, I guess there's no point in developing some kind of friendship attachment to someone if you know they're going to drop off from your life because of news like this. May as well have it known now when I don't know him that well (we've only known each other for about a year).
I sometimes think about doing exactly that... but then again, what would be the point [in my case, of course]?
I mean, maybe if I had a boyfriend or was developing a relationship, well... it would be worth the trouble and drama it could cause (with some family, in the case of co-workers and acquaintances, because some of them are just too close-minded and I would have to deal with them everyday anyway, plus I am a very private person).
I have told to myself that I won't deny it if someone asks me, but no one has asked me, not even friends (well, one did a couple of years ago) and if they have a problem with it, it's their problem, not mine.
I know people have semi-talked behind my back about my "tastes", though... and what bothers me is not what they say, but the actions they do.
videogamer
Banned
That's interesting. I use the same "I'm not interested" excuse as well, but people don't usually interpret as indicating homosexuality. They just attribute it to awkwardness and lack of interest in social interaction. I don't want people to think I'm gay, but I don't want to lie either. It's liberating to be truthful about who you are without needing to disclose fully.
I've only come out to complete strangers. It's awkward in any situation.
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videogamer
Junior Member
Phonomezer
Banned
No way an eight inch cock is going anywhere near me. Jesus.
So you're a bottom then?
Phonomezer
Banned
So you're a bottom then?
I don't comment on rumour and speculation.
depends on the person lol
That's exactly my train of thought. I just don't understand why I need to tell it to anyone else unless they ask. It's none of their business who I'm sleeping with. It's not like I have a serious BF or anything like that. I guess they're curious as to why I'm still unattached but it's really hard to just tell them the truth when so far I haven't even had the need to tell them anything.
Interesting. The thing is my friend actually said "So you like guys? That's cool man" and I said "Yeah, I like guys" but I had this look where I almost burst into laugh so we ended up laughing about it. So, yeah, I don't know. I hope he takes the news well but it's hard to tell these days. On that note, it's interesting that most people's assumption (at least the ones that I know of) when you're not interested in female, it means you're interested in men. What if the person is asexual?
We need example.
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Deleted member 30609
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People knowing that you're gay is useful. It makes making friends with females ridiculously easy, for one thing. It also makes it easier to meet other gay people, because, well, people aren't going to risk asking someone out if they're not sure. This is maybe less important than I think it is, but I think it's great to have more known gay people that don't just live life in the scene in young people's lives, particularly in more insular families or communities.
I guess there's a sort of freedom in people knowing that you're gay. I kind of have to tiptoe around my house (still living at home) whenever I have my BF over, though it's kind of nice to be able to have him over and tell the parents; "Hey I'm having my best friend over this weekend, we're gonna be playing "games" all night." Kind of wish they knew sometimes though, it'd be nice to not have to hide it.
I am out to all my friends and don't necessarily hide it at work. When I came out to my friends though they assumed I was joking, which was weird, then again I'm not really up for revealing anything personal about my life.
I am out to all my friends and don't necessarily hide it at work. When I came out to my friends though they assumed I was joking, which was weird, then again I'm not really up for revealing anything personal about my life.
RadioHeadAche
Member
Does that add any excitement when you "sneak around" like that? Also I'm not really into being open about my sexuality with others. My closest friends are an exception because I needed some help when I professed my love for a mutual friend during my freshman year in college. The guy I was in love with thought I was joking; my friends were just a bit surprised, but accepting, thankfully.
I had a similar situation with a friend the other day. I don't actively try to hide my sexuality, I just don't bring it up unless it comes up. I've known him for a few years actually, but he was my lab partner this semester in one of my labs, we've went out for dinner and all that, so we've gotten closer lately. I gave him my Steam ID, and he saw that I was part of a gay gaming community, and I just sort of confirmed it to him. It was stupid though, I was actually afraid I'd lose a friend, because he's from Venezuela, and when I told him, he started typing something... then nothing. Turns out it was some stupid Facebook glitch and he did send me a message and he's totally fine with it, and I felt stupid for stereotyping his attitude towards gay people based on his country of birth.
Then the typical question period came... do I find women attractive, when did I realize it, was I born gay, etc etc...
Then the typical question period came... do I find women attractive, when did I realize it, was I born gay, etc etc...
I know sexuality is a bog part of being gay but to me it's first and foremost that I only want to date guys. When someone asks you if you have a girlfriend/boyfriend, i'm pretty sure they don't think about you fucking them. Sure that's part of dating someone but there's so much more than that involved.
That might just be me though. I'm very much out to basically everyone in my life so it's not really a big deal to me.
That might just be me though. I'm very much out to basically everyone in my life so it's not really a big deal to me.
I met someone, also works in entertainment, has his masters, is hilarious, can quote the simpsons as well as I can, has perfect teeth, and abs.
I've known him for a week, and it just so happened to be my birthday weekend, came over on my birthday and we drank and talked movies for 2 hours before we went to my friends house before the party, I was worried he was going to be a wallflower, but he was soooo comfortable and talkative around my friends, and at the party I didn't have to take care of him or feel like I had to babysit him, sooo refreshing after being with my ex of 3 years that would always be awkward in these kinds of social situations.
I was drunk, I couldnt help it, i inched closer and closer, till finally "I like you" came out of my mouth... thankfully, the response was "I like you too..." BAM, birthday kiss.
I got really drunk and crashed at his apartment, NOTHING HAPPENED, but I woke up in nothing but my underwear and i said to myself "great, of course I am wearing this pair of underwear"
I was wearing my pink american apparel briefs, way to wear the gayest pair of underwear imaginable.
We have a shit ton in common, he likes me, I like him, I cant wait to see where this goes
Update, hike up to griffith park, to go to the observatory, he loves Rebel without a cause, lunch at the cafe, walking through the observatory, then went back to his place and cuddled and watch tv. I like him...
STORY TIME!
Somewhat I guess...though there have been close calls with pants down and such. I think I left my door unlocked one night where I was in my bed with my BF sleeping and I think my mom left my laundry that I left in the dryer the day before neatly folded in my computer chair next to me...
dragonlife
Member
If I speak with anyone, they'll probably find out I'm gay after we get to know each other. I don't hide it at all, and I have no issue confirming it. I have the good fortune of only speaking to awesome (in their own ways) people. I've only had one or two that were a bit uncomfortable, but they eventually warmed up and, what do you know, one started "being" gay with me and the other asked/pointed at guys and asked if I found them attractive and so on (and then came the "Do you find me attractive?" question, haha). Good times.
I only talk to people that "feel" interesting to me. If they don't (which is almost always), I never talk. I'm one of those quiet ones, but it's not because I'm awkward; I just genuinely don't find people interesting at all on a personal level. That's why I consider myself fortunate in that, when I do talk with people--and eventually tell them I'm gay--they're generally the accepting ones.
"But why do people need to know you're gay?" Sometimes it just happens. Other times I tell them just to tell them. My favorite one was in high school when a guy I met in Chemistry class and I became friends. I think he was confused about what I was, orientation-wise, because I make a lot of comments that make no sense, and I kept sending weird signals, apparently. It's probably because I liked rubbing my face in my big-chested friend's tits and always grabbed 'em. Also, I think vaginas are interesting in an anatomical kind of way.
Anyway, we were both gamers, so we bonded over that. We became co-op buddies, both online and off. One time he asked if he could stay the night (I wasn't used to sleepovers in high school, haha), so I said, "Uh...sure." We slept in my room (him on the floor, of course), and as we were getting into our blankets, I told him, "Oh, by the way, you know I'm gay, right?" I didn't even let him reply and added, "It's okay, though, I like 'em White. Sleep well! Good niiiiight."
His reaction was priceless. He was laughing as he said "What? Why would you tell me that as we're about to go to sleep!?" My parents were never home on weekends, so it was just him and me. We had a good laugh about it, though, and we continued playing games the day after. He's fun.
I only talk to people that "feel" interesting to me. If they don't (which is almost always), I never talk. I'm one of those quiet ones, but it's not because I'm awkward; I just genuinely don't find people interesting at all on a personal level. That's why I consider myself fortunate in that, when I do talk with people--and eventually tell them I'm gay--they're generally the accepting ones.
"But why do people need to know you're gay?" Sometimes it just happens. Other times I tell them just to tell them. My favorite one was in high school when a guy I met in Chemistry class and I became friends. I think he was confused about what I was, orientation-wise, because I make a lot of comments that make no sense, and I kept sending weird signals, apparently. It's probably because I liked rubbing my face in my big-chested friend's tits and always grabbed 'em. Also, I think vaginas are interesting in an anatomical kind of way.
Anyway, we were both gamers, so we bonded over that. We became co-op buddies, both online and off. One time he asked if he could stay the night (I wasn't used to sleepovers in high school, haha), so I said, "Uh...sure." We slept in my room (him on the floor, of course), and as we were getting into our blankets, I told him, "Oh, by the way, you know I'm gay, right?" I didn't even let him reply and added, "It's okay, though, I like 'em White. Sleep well! Good niiiiight."
His reaction was priceless. He was laughing as he said "What? Why would you tell me that as we're about to go to sleep!?" My parents were never home on weekends, so it was just him and me. We had a good laugh about it, though, and we continued playing games the day after. He's fun.
How old are you both? That's an interesting excuse.
Or maybe you only talk to them for such a small amount of time, that they never have the time to tell you how much it's wrong or how much you suck. ಠ_ಠ
dragonlife
Member
That's the face they get when I break the ice by sucking their dick.
So... I finally meet this guy I've been talking to. We hit it off having good convo over coffee. Suddenly he says he has to go eat since he hasn't had dinner and he's really hungry. So I suggest we both go eat somewhere but that gets shot down. He leans over kisses my cheek and that's that.
I txted after saying it was nice to finally meet him but didn't get a response.....
I txted after saying it was nice to finally meet him but didn't get a response.....
videogamer
Banned
Yeah, assuming that people are attracted to one or the other can be annoying. People can be too busy with work, have had bad experiences with women, not find life interesting in general, or don't want to deal with the aversive consequences of intimacy.
The more people know (benign) gay people in real life, the less negative homosexuality will be. No girl is going to date you if you have a reputation of being gay. You become toxic--they would rather chat about their relationships and their clothes than go out with you.
Cute story. It's like real life trolling.
dragonlife
Member
Yeah, he did. I got him to start using "gurl" when we text and stuff. He's actually coming over this Saturday.Cute story. It's like real life trolling.Did he treat you the same afterwards?
OMG you got him talking like a stan I can't :"""""")
5":
Nope.jpg. I do like guys on the smaller side >.> But 5" is too big to fulfill that fetish, and too small to be interesting XD Then again, if I actually like the guy, size doesn't matter at all.
5.5"
6"
6.5"
All average range, and totally fine and expected. Like 90% of the dicks you see are going to be somewhere in here.
7"
Probably ideal!
7.5"
8"
WILL NOT FIT. Enjoy being the sub forever.
I met someone on Grindr who claimed he was 5"... ended up being closer to like 2.5". Haha. Eh, he was ok. It was... kinda hard(/easy) to suck. There wasn't much.
Amibguous Cad
Member
I took my first nine incher a few days ago. It was... nice. I'm concerned about becoming a size queen.
We have another date for tonight, of course.
Viz. size, I thought 5 inches was roughly average? Maybe I'm just trying to make myself feel better, heh. I'm lucky I'm a bottom and have a body type suited to small ones.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
What body type would that be? :3
I actually find it really annoying when people call me "gurl". Is that weird?
I feel like because I'm smaller, my cock looks bigger than it is lol. Maybe it's just wishful thinking, but my bf keeps telling me my cock is huge even though i think it's pretty average.
Amibguous Cad
Member
I'm pretty twinkish. 5'6" 125 pds. A smaller cock doesn't look as odd on me as it might on someone who was taller and beefier.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
CHEEZMO;33329240 said:
I think he's talking about his height. ;P
Amibguous Cad
Member
CHEEZMO;33329240 said:
Yeah, I'm pretty short. It's nice, though, 'cause I love being shorter than my boyfriends. Being able to fit into the crick of his neck when cuddling or standing up against him is really nice ~
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