Dash Kappei
Not actually that important
Be offended all you want, but that's the public perception.
Like I said, if you want to do it, fine, but it's not really socially acceptable when you're an adult.
Offended? Why would I, you're the one restraining yourself to be in some kind of socially acceptable circle which is only in your mind, you're presenting your gf as a close minded person.
My gf wouldn't give a fuck, same for my friends (I have no gamer friends unfortunately, and like I said in that other thread I was never able to lure a gf of mine -past and current- to game with me even on things like Mario Kart... Wik Sports a couple of times is the gaming-together I've had with my gfs) because, you see, I like to surround myself with bright people.
For starter, as per your argument, *I* would be the one to go talking to my gf, with a Nintendo DS on my hands if I had one of me at that particular moment. Not a problem, it's not like I would keep playing the damn thing and ignore a girl I like, as soon as she enterered the room i'd close that console down and be on my way to talk to her.
At most, in-between conversation, she could ask me "what's that?" and I'd just say something like "nothing, something to play videogames on, ahah you know, I was bored... Anyway, what are you doing tonight?"
What's so tragic about that? Your gf would've walked away you say? I pity her, if what you say it's true.
I'm 34, btw, play (and watch!) sports, play the drums, have lots of interests to share with my gf.
It's NOT gaming, it's the person. You're part of the problem, you're causing that to happen and by consequence you're then putting up with it... Thank god I don't give a fuck about that 'problem', as it's only yours.
You had a friend made you realize that having a small/huge game collection wasn't socially acceptable? It's ridiculous you're concerned or even thinking about such things, I wonder for what way more important decisions you let others completely rule over you and your real personality.