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dragonlife said:
I've never been in this situation, but I'd probably suggest not saying anything until after you're done with everything. You don't want to risk the situation becoming awkward. I don't know if you're upfront with people in regards to how you feel about them, but even if you are and want to tell him...don't :P Unless you know know he's gay/is okay with gays/likes you in that way/know for a fact he won't be weirded out if you tell him, go ahead.

Actually, the closest to this situation I've been in is when I had a tiny crush on my sixth-grade teacher.
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Surely he's okay with gays. But he's also married :) which is not a declaration of heterosexuality in Italy, also because some of his behaviours are pretty revealing. Do not know.
 
RatskyWatsky said:
Oh no, Zephyr was banned. Wasn't he on permaban watch?
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He was

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JK Zephyr, good luck with everything if you are permabanned
 
The Abominable Snowman said:
Pfft, I don't care. I am quite certain they can't beat my ass :p

Dreams-Visions reminds me of an ex, PhoenixDark i think his name is is cute, i'd smang chronos4590 and im giving him the rape-eye, and theres a lot of BlackGAF that looks quite good as well.

couple guys from the tinychat too. kibblesbits, grailey, and Oh My GOD Darthwufei. He is the hottest Gaffer on here. gat dayum. period. Besides me of course.
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Yeah, that boy is not bad.
 
dragonlife said:
His actions are revealing? How so? Does he rub your leg? ;) Or grab your shoulder?
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When you know a lot of gay people, you start to recognize them better by some actions, behaviors and the like. Not science of course, but signs that may be quite revealing. Or maybe I'm just convincing myself :)

charmed699 said:
Better not to ruin your studies in case it gets awkward. Might be best to wait until you are finished and then tell him?
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Yeah, probably this. But who knows if we will continue to work together? Ahh.
 
electroplankton said:
When you know a lot of gay people, you start to recognize them better by some actions, behaviors and the like. Not science of course, but signs that may be quite revealing. Or maybe I'm just convincing myself :)

Yeah, probably this. But who knows if we will continue to work together? Ahh.
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I'm pretty sure there's a lot of wishful thinking on your part. You gotta stop for a minute and think about it: would jeopardizing your career, your relationship with him and potentially his marriage worth the cock you'd get out of it? (And you're not even sure of that even happening).
 
Alcoori said:
I'm pretty sure there's a lot of wishful thinking on your part. You gotta stop for a minute and think about it: would jeopardizing your career, your relationship with him and potentially his marriage worth the cock you'd get out of it? (And you're not even sure of that even happening).
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This is a trade-off I should think of!
 
electroplankton said:
Yeah, probably this. But who knows if we will continue to work together? Ahh.
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Good luck with your decision! Think carefully about the consequences and see if it's worth the trouble. He is married so there's a lot of complications as he might have children and so on. I feel like a talk show host.

So anyone doing anything for New Year's Eve? I'm in Montreal so only know my dude. Guess I will spend it with him instead of going out.
 
charmed699 said:
Good luck with your decision! Think carefully about the consequences and see if it's worth the trouble. He is married so there's a lot of complications as he might have children and so on. I feel like a talk show host.

So anyone doing anything for New Year's Eve? I'm in Montreal so only know my dude. Guess I will spend it with him instead of going out.
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Three actually.

This evening I'm going to have a dinner at a friend's place but NOT celebrating anything. I think I'm going to bed before midnight ;)
 
Yaceka said:
Yeah, that seems like the best thing to do. You may even have different feelings after you're finished it.
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Yep, it's like "bring me 40 pages the day after tomorrow" or "organize these data for tonight and then send me with a full report", so yeah, I might hate him in a few months :D
 
My New Years Eve shall be spent on Dark Souls and GAF.

Thinking about taking new pics and show em here :P
 
Pupi18 said:
My New Years Eve shall be spent on Dark Souls and GAF.

Thinking about taking new pics and show em here :P
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Just got Dark Souls today too! Can finally continue my 360 playthrough. I'm further on my PS3 playthrough but the save file is locked to each console so would have to start again. Thinking of getting some drinks(vodka,etc) and some snacks in a bit. Have a small house party for two. :D
 
Wait, am I misunderstanding something, or does elektroplankton think some married man with 3 children is gay?

I mean it is possible of course, but a little bizarre.
 
dragonlife said:
Did anyone pick up Bulletstorm during the sales? It's a lot of fun, but the main reason I'm bringing it up is because I liked this conversation when it came up:
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I've been playing Bulletstorm recently, and I actually just reached the area in those pics. Hilarious conversation, and I'm glad they didn't say anything offensive like dude bro games are inclined to do.

I hope that they continue with the bromance dialog.
 
charmed699 said:
Just got Dark Souls today too! Can finally continue my 360 playthrough. I'm further on my PS3 playthrough but the save file is locked to each console so would have to start again. Thinking of getting some drinks(vodka,etc) and some snacks in a bit. Have a small house party for two. :D
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Drink double for me Dark Soul Bro.

*Brofist*
 
Woah! electroplankton is gay?!

Well...
not as "gay" as the DS "game".. :p
;)

Wellcum, and of course..post more pictures!!!! (Loved your picture with Leo)
 
Necromanti said:
Which boss would that be?
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Using spoiler tag in case that someone hasn't come across the boss yet. :)

Quelaag! Had a tough time on the PS3 and my dude was much stronger on it. I was able to kindle the bonfire nearby too. My 360 save is worse as I was still learning. Might start from the beginning. Shame as I'm already fighting the two bosses in Anor Londo on PS3 but couldn't bring save over to Montreal.
 
charmed699 said:
Using spoiler tag in case that someone hasn't come across the boss yet. :)

Quelaag! Had a tough time on the PS3 and my dude was much stronger on it. I was able to kindle the bonfire nearby too. My 360 save is worse as I was still learning. Might start from the beginning. Shame as I'm already fighting the two bosses in Anor Londo on PS3 but couldn't bring save over to Montreal.
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Oh god.
She was one of the worst bosses for me. :( Especially since I became overdependent on the sexy Pyromancer Glove that I found. I freaking hated her explosion move that would one-hit KO me.

I haven't run into any difficult bosses since, though. (I'm at Sen's Fortress now.)
 
Will be spending NYE drinking beer with family (including FoneBone) in the giant strip mall that is the San Diego suburbs. Well, at least I had a lot of fun in Hillcrest earlier this week.
 
Sai-kun said:
On first thought, I would say he's bored and wants someone to talk to. The way you speak to a significant other can be pretty different from how you speak to other friends, so maybe he's missing that?

I know I am, still, kinda :/
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I know I definitely am! Yeah it does kinda feel like he's bored in one sense, but there also seems a little more to it as well. The random bringing up our hols was confusing.

ciD_Vain said:
To me it seems he himself is confused about the situation. i say you take it slow, and go with the flow for now. if he keeps hitting you up and texting you, i think it's pretty obvious he wants something to happen between you two again.
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I'd love you to be right, but I don't want to get any of my hopes up... yet. You're right, I should take it slow and steady and see what happens. I'm just unsure how he wants things to progress now as before, friends certainly wasn't on the agenda and now he's wanting to talk.

I just got a happy new year txt off him there, ending in "lots of love xx". I guess that's just a generic txt maybe to all his mates? But sending that to me doesn't feel right. Oh lord, I'm thinking way too much in to it all. I just want to know where we stand and how to act with him now.

Oh and I might as well join the ranks and add my ugly mug :P This is going to be weird.

Happy new year everyone!
 
Electroplankton, is homosexuality really that controversial in Italy? I'm asking because our prime minister is Italian and openly gay and no one in my country gives a fuck.
 
charmed699 said:
Using spoiler tag in case that someone hasn't come across the boss yet. :)

Quelaag! Had a tough time on the PS3 and my dude was much stronger on it. I was able to kindle the bonfire nearby too. My 360 save is worse as I was still learning. Might start from the beginning. Shame as I'm already fighting the two bosses in Anor Londo on PS3 but couldn't bring save over to Montreal.
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Use Soul Arrow or Wait till it goes to puke lava to get some cheap easy hits and might as well summon minerva who is near the door as bait.
 
Necromanti said:
Oh god.
She was one of the worst bosses for me. :( Especially since I became overdependent on the sexy Pyromancer Glove that I found. I freaking hated her explosion move that would one-hit KO me.

I haven't run into any difficult bosses since, though. (I'm at Sen's Fortress now.)
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I thought Queefhag was quite easy, I had far more trouble with the Capra Demon (whom I almost stopped playing the game because of).

Sen's Fortress is fun, the boss can be fairly frustrating though, there are some nice goodies hidden around.

Also lightning spear. Fuck yeah.
 
Phonomezer said:
I thought Queefhag was quite easy, I had far more trouble with the Capra Demon (whom I almost stopped playing the game because of).

Sen's Fortress is fun, the boss can be fairly frustrating though, there are some nice goodies hidden around.

Also lightning spear. Fuck yeah.
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LOL, Queefhag.

Interesting that you would say that, since
the Capra Demon was the easiest boss I've faced so far...
Must be a class thing.

As much as I yearn for the spear, I fear the frights in the fortress will be the end of me. :(
I don't think there's even been a game that I just ache to go back to like Dark Souls, though. Can't wait to get back to the States and play it.
 
Pupi18 said:
Use Soul Arrow or Wait till it goes to puke lava to get some cheap easy hits and might as well summon minerva who is near the door as bait.
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Thanks! It's funny but I haven't used Soul Arrows since I played it on a preview build way back. Not even sure how to obtain it! Think I will try to stick close to it and only move away when it stomps like on my PS3 save.

Necromanti said:
Oh god.
She was one of the worst bosses for me. :( Especially since I became overdependent on the sexy Pyromancer Glove that I found. I freaking hated her explosion move that would one-hit KO me.

I haven't run into any difficult bosses since, though. (I'm at Sen's Fortress now.)
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I cursed so much during Sen's Fortress with all those traps. I ran for the hills whenever one of those creepy serpent man started hissing.

Found vodka in Montreal. It was like like an epic adventure. Party time soon.
 
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