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You still haven't stated it.

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Incest is not appealing to either of us, so never. Love y'all.
 
Hey yall.

I met up with the guy from Grindr today. We went and ate at some little greek cafe place. He's really cute but since I'm not comfortable with myself I didn't tell him in public but when we were alone in the vehicle riding to go see the movie New Year's Eve together.

We decided to hang out again soon so now I have another friend and possibly more in the future.

Maybe I'll see him again on Thursday, might go shopping together. He told me his honest opinion that I need to dress better (my pants are really baggy) and I totally agree. But I hate shopping cuz I don't know what's in style or what I look good in.

He also told me that he's gonna try and help break me out of my shell which was sweet of him. I'm glad I found someone who kinda gets me. :)
 
Can't. Too fat unattractive and cannot dance. Meeting a friend here. She says she needs my help or something

alcohol go go go!

Also i've seen pics of you you're very doable.


p.s. Take my compliment. Those that know me know they are a rare occurrence.
 
God help me I'm in a gay club right now. So uncomfortable

It can be overwhelming. Be careful with accepting drinks. Only went to 1 once. Too many shirts going missing. Prefer clubs that accept anyone.

Sorry to bother but does anyone have experience with being in a new town? Only know my dude here and kinda bored of only being able to talk to him.
 
Don't feel too bad, jubei; I'm the same way in clubs and bars. They're just not the sort of places I'll ever be comfortable in.
 
Don't feel too bad, jubei; I'm the same way in clubs and bars. They're just not the sort of places I'll ever be comfortable in.

I doubt anyone is truly and completely comfortable. Gay people in general are one of the most self conscious groups. But if all this guy is gonna do is sulk in the shadows-- he should probably go home and stop torturing himself. Otherwise- he should take his lesbian friend to the middle of the dance floor and start spazzing out.
 
The first time i went clubbing was a couple months ago...i felt REALLY awkward at first because i don't dance and tend to avoid crowds. After a few drinks, all of my worries went away. It's still not something I necessarily love to do, it's just fun to go with some friends and to enjoy the energy every now and then.

I hate when random people grab my crotch though, fuck that.
 
The first time i went clubbing was a couple months ago...i felt REALLY awkward at first because i don't dance and tend to avoid crowds. After a few drinks, all of my worries went away. It's still not something I necessarily love to do, it's just fun to go with some friends and to enjoy the energy every now and then.

I hate when random people grab my crotch though, fuck that.

You look like a kid in that picture. Also now I won't confuse you for this guy: http://www.neogaf.com/forum/member.php?u=11809
 
Can't. Too fat unattractive and cannot dance. Meeting a friend here. She says she needs my help or something

I'm saying this as a person that has dealt with (and still does deal with) crippling self-esteem issues: invest in cognitive therapy.

That kind of thinking is toxic. Even worse is that it is very possible that people can pick up on your lack of confidence, and avoid you as a result. Then you think nobody likes you for X reason(s), which people pick up on, which causes them to avoid you, which makes you think even more negative things about yourself.

There's no shame in therapy.
 
The first time i went clubbing was a couple months ago...i felt REALLY awkward at first because i don't dance and tend to avoid crowds. After a few drinks, all of my worries went away. It's still not something I necessarily love to do, it's just fun to go with some friends and to enjoy the energy every now and then.

I hate when random people grab my crotch though, fuck that.

You are lucky you are cute. I on the other hand am not.
 
So today I was working with this cute coworker (he's literally perfect looking with a great body, face, and hair) and he asked me if I'd ever have sex with a guy. I told him "probably not", because he's friends with my douchebag neighbor and I thought he was just trying to get something to talk about with him. Then he tells me he was curious if I was or not. Later in the day I find out he's bi but has never actually done anything with a guy before. Was he curious because he wanted my dick, or did he just want me as a gay friend or something. He's taking a month off work after today's shift so I probably won't work with him again until late February.

This is going to bug the shit out of me.
 
So today I was working with this cute coworker (he's literally perfect looking with a great body, face, and hair) and he asked me if I'd ever have sex with a guy. I told him "probably not", because he's friends with my douchebag neighbor and I thought he was just trying to get something to talk about with him. Then he tells me he was curious if I was or not. Later in the day I find out he's bi but has never actually done anything with a guy before. Was he curious because he wanted my dick, or did he just want me as a gay friend or something. He's taking a month off work after today's shift so I probably won't work with him again until late February.

This is going to bug the shit out of me.

Even if he just wants a gay friend, nothing wrong with that. It is pretty hard for bi guys to mingle some times.
 
So today I was working with this cute coworker (he's literally perfect looking with a great body, face, and hair) and he asked me if I'd ever have sex with a guy. I told him "probably not", because he's friends with my douchebag neighbor and I thought he was just trying to get something to talk about with him. Then he tells me he was curious if I was or not. Later in the day I find out he's bi but has never actually done anything with a guy before. Was he curious because he wanted my dick, or did he just want me as a gay friend or something. He's taking a month off work after today's shift so I probably won't work with him again until late February.

This is going to bug the shit out of me.

Probably wanted the dick.
 
So today I was working with this cute coworker (he's literally perfect looking with a great body, face, and hair) and he asked me if I'd ever have sex with a guy. I told him "probably not", because he's friends with my douchebag neighbor and I thought he was just trying to get something to talk about with him. Then he tells me he was curious if I was or not. Later in the day I find out he's bi but has never actually done anything with a guy before. Was he curious because he wanted my dick, or did he just want me as a gay friend or something. He's taking a month off work after today's shift so I probably won't work with him again until late February.

This is going to bug the shit out of me.
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Even if he just wants a gay friend, nothing wrong with that. It is pretty hard for bi guys to mingle some times.

The problem for me is that I'm worried he just might laugh at me or insult me for being gay or something. There's this guy who used to work with us who was gay and he would always call him a bunch of derogatory terms whenever he passed by. Plus, he's friends with people who openly hate gay people (I'm surprised he's friends with them to be honest). I want to tell him just to know what he meant, but I don't want to bring on a bunch of "dudebro" coworkers making fun of me every time I work. Work is the one place I don't get treated like complete shit (at least since all the people that hated me quit).
 
The problem for me is that I'm worried he just might laugh at me or insult me for being gay or something. There's this guy who used to work with us who was gay and he would always call him a bunch of derogatory terms whenever he passed by. Plus, he's friends with people who openly hate gay people (I'm surprised he's friends with them to be honest). I want to tell him just to know what he meant, but I don't want to bring on a bunch of "dudebro" coworkers making fun of me every time I work. Work is the one place I don't get treated like complete shit (at least since all the people that hated me quit).
In all seriousness, it's a tricky situation since this at work. You won't have to deal with it for a month now, so no use worrying about it until then, I guess. But if he approached you alone and asked you that sort of question without his buddies around...
 
The problem for me is that I'm worried he just might laugh at me or insult me for being gay or something. There's this guy who used to work with us who was gay and he would always call him a bunch of derogatory terms whenever he passed by. Plus, he's friends with people who openly hate gay people (I'm surprised he's friends with them to be honest). I want to tell him just to know what he meant, but I don't want to bring on a bunch of "dudebro" coworkers making fun of me every time I work. Work is the one place I don't get treated like complete shit (at least since all the people that hated me quit).

Why would he ever bring up would you ever fuck a guy? Was it in a joking matter?
 
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