The funny thing is that PMs gives that outlet for us to comment on pictures, leaving the thread alone for proper conversations. I certainly don't see it wrong to PM somebody and saying he or she's cute or hot or whatever. It's knowing when to stop. I agree that this thread is most enjoyable when everyone is civil. However, I'm sure I'm not the only one waiting for the imminent meltdown. Really all it takes is one gaffer to ruin the fun. My popcorn will be ready for that moment.Yes, I am glad we've managed to keep creepygaf mostly in check in this thread -- although a few times the sexual tension has been a little too thick. I know for a fact that at least a few female GAF members have gotten inappropriate PMs, just for starters.
I think this thread works best when it is simply a way to turn our community in to a group of real, living people, instead of abstract concepts. Sony fanboy and Nintendo fanboy find out that they're both just two guys who happen to like different types of games, which isn't such a big deal after all.
I think this thread works least well when it's just about how hot GAF member X is, or how I wish GAFette Y would be my Waifu. That's not a threat from a moderator, by the way (if it were, I'd just ban people or lock the thread), but just someone looking for interesting discussion.
Speaking of The Bachelor, that one show was hilariously similar... Beauty & The Geek. It was awesome at perpetuating two stereotypes at once, but I'll be damned if it wasn't a good guilty pleasure for the few episodes I managed to catch.
I've had no creepy PMs at all. Chalk +1 up to Gentleman Gaf
There's a little-c creepyGAF and a big-C CreepyGAF. Little-c creepyGAF will probably be banned for inappropriate PMs. Big-C CreepyGAF will end up in jail for kidnapping, rape and murder.
If you're doing that you're not that alienated from gaf after all.
Big-C CreepyGAF will end up in jail for kidnapping, rape and murder.
Yes, I am glad we've managed to keep creepygaf mostly in check in this thread -- although a few times the sexual tension has been a little too thick. I know for a fact that at least a few female GAF members have gotten inappropriate PMs, just for starters.
I think this thread works best when it is simply a way to turn our community in to a group of real, living people, instead of abstract concepts. Sony fanboy and Nintendo fanboy find out that they're both just two guys who happen to like different types of games, which isn't such a big deal after all.
I think this thread works least well when it's just about how hot GAF member X is, or how I wish GAFette Y would be my Waifu. That's not a threat from a moderator, by the way (if it were, I'd just ban people or lock the thread), but just someone looking for interesting discussion.
So can we members of girl gaf have some kind of special rings or something?
Girlgaf powers activate. Form of... Bucket of ice water.
CHEEZMO;33942776 said:Still be able to post on GAF though?
The funny thing is that PMs gives that outlet for us to comment on pictures, leaving the thread alone for proper conversations. I certainly don't see it wrong to PM somebody and saying he or she's cute or hot or whatever. It's knowing when to stop. I agree that this thread is most enjoyable when everyone is civil. However, I'm sure I'm not the only one waiting for the imminent meltdown. Really all it takes is one gaffer to ruin the fun. My popcorn will be ready for that moment.
That was the show me and my friends watched religiously. We even joked during the first episode that the girls were "drafting" (a Magic the Gathering term for those going "huh?") all the geeks.
Of course, like most reality shows, it got worse during the second season.
No one will listen to your facts.They are all at least 18.
and most in the thread are around the age of them too
CHEEZMO;33942776 said:Still be able to post on GAF though?
Only certain GAF members have special rings.
Must have forgotten to click submit post.
But seriously I have a hard time imagine creepers actually seriously sending PM's like that, something has to be seriously wrong with you if you think you can pick up chicks on GAF when just seeing her profile pic.
However, I'm sure I'm not the only one waiting for the imminent meltdown.
No one will listen to your facts.
She said she hasn't gotten any "creepy" PMs. GuyGAF must have studied up on their game.
So can we members of girl gaf have some kind of special rings or something?
Girlgaf powers activate. Form of... Bucket of ice water.
Keep being awesome Devo. I'm definitely going to try and actually post more when that type of thing comes up. Sisters gotta back each other up!I hoped for a long time being as vocal as I was would get more women out of the woodwork. If anything this post makes me feel awesome not creeped out.
Yeah, it's been a lot better than I thought it'd be! I actually feel more comfortable posting here than in most threads oddly enough. And the PMs aren't so much creepy as... awkward and kind of like: why do you feel the need to send this? Then again I never understood catcalling either so...Yes, I am glad we've managed to keep creepygaf mostly in check in this thread -- although a few times the sexual tension has been a little too thick. I know for a fact that at least a few female GAF members have gotten inappropriate PMs, just for starters.
I think this thread works best when it is simply a way to turn our community in to a group of real, living people, instead of abstract concepts. Sony fanboy and Nintendo fanboy find out that they're both just two guys who happen to like different types of games, which isn't such a big deal after all.
I think this thread works least well when it's just about how hot GAF member X is, or how I wish GAFette Y would be my Waifu. That's not a threat from a moderator, by the way (if it were, I'd just ban people or lock the thread), but just someone looking for interesting discussion.
I don't think I've ever watched The Bachelor since it first came on all those years ago... damn.Good God. The Bachelor.
The only reality show I have to watch...
Can no other gaffer relate? Not even GirlGaf?
I am so down with this. And/Or becoming superheroes.Do we become magical girls too? :3
The second season was bad, but the third season was so awful that it was cancelled altogether. They included a female geek and a male beauty, and that's all I remember of it.I didn't even knowthe concept warrantedit got a second season!
If only it were available in a special edition steelbook BluRay boxset!
Do special rings come with GAF Gold?
CHEEZMO™;33942820 said:I think Yixian is still banned.
Sorry.
IIRC, Yixian was the dude who dated Electric and got banned when he had the biggest fucking meltdown of all time, correct?CHEEZMO;33942820 said:I think Yixian is still banned.
Sorry.
Years of lurking before getting approved taught me to completely avoid threads like that. Reading the OP was enough in that case.
Shogmaster's breast augmentation threads were also particularly embarrassing from the get-go.
The unfortunate thing is that, sometimes, there are legitimate discussion to be had, but some people really just take a giant dump on things and steer the ship straight into creepsville.
I wish but no, there is a lot of misconceptions, assumptions and general dumbfuckery I have to plow through when it comes to talking about my gender's issues. It doesn't help that there is a lot of patronizing, willfully ignorant, refusal to look at shit from our perspective nonsense that goes on. It's been getting better I'll admit but that rape thread just brought up a lot of ugliness, and getting cross harassed in TC was no fun either. I've gotten threats in TC (months back) and on the non-gaf forums that follow GAF I've seen unflattering mocking cartoons and other various demeaning bullshit towards me. If I was smarter or meek I would have stopped posting a long time ago but then those fucks would win in silencing yet another vocal female. So fuck that.
VocalutionDevo is vocal alright.
Only certain GAF members have special rings.
IIRC, Yixian was the dude who dated Electric and got banned when he had the biggest fucking meltdown of all time, correct?
The guy also harped on Uncharted's incorrect use of Spanish architecture references, right? (SALT WATER PARTICLES!)
I try to avoid them but most of the time I can't help but stick my nose in it. I do believe the only thing that has saved me is that the posters I mock are just a bit worse at posting than me. So I fly under the bad post radar.
I can't last long like this. Time to join Pony-GAF I think, I'll be safe there talking about how much my son likes it.
I just want to say that professor beef and I need waifus for our no-PM leper island.
also beef you need to be at Evo next so we can IRL creep lol.
I've had no creepy PMs at all. Chalk +1 up to Gentleman Gaf
Your posts added a nice bit of levity to the discussion. 3-layers of clothing is the answer, right? ;P
The prettiest girls never get hit on because every guy automatically assumes that he has no chance in hell.
(this only applies in real life, therefore I don't know ;P )
Those fuckwads are at it again? :\ It's bad enough they attacked Trans-GAF a while back, well it was more like almost two years ago. I haven't stepped in the rape thread yet.I wish but no, there is a lot of misconceptions, assumptions and general dumbfuckery I have to plow through when it comes to talking about my gender's issues. It doesn't help that there is a lot of patronizing, willfully ignorant, refusal to look at shit from our perspective nonsense that goes on. It's been getting better I'll admit but that rape thread just brought up a lot of ugliness, and getting cross harassed in TC was no fun either. I've gotten threats in TC (months back) and on the non-gaf forums that follow GAF I've seen unflattering mocking cartoons and other various demeaning bullshit towards me. If I was smarter or meek I would have stopped posting a long time ago but then those fucks would win in silencing yet another vocal female. So fuck that.
Yeah, it's been a lot better than I thought it'd be! I actually feel more comfortable posting here than in most threads oddly enough. And the PMs aren't so much creepy as... awkward and kind of like: why do you feel the need to send this? Then again I never understood catcalling either so...
Devolution said:I wish but no, there is a lot of misconceptions, assumptions and general dumbfuckery I have to plow through when it comes to talking about my gender's issues. It doesn't help that there is a lot of patronizing, willfully ignorant, refusal to look at shit from our perspective nonsense that goes on. It's been getting better I'll admit but that rape thread just brought up a lot of ugliness, and getting cross harassed in TC was no fun either. I've gotten threats in TC (months back) and on the non-gaf forums that follow GAF I've seen unflattering mocking cartoons and other various demeaning bullshit towards me. If I was smarter or meek I would have stopped posting a long time ago but then those fucks would win in silencing yet another vocal female. So fuck that.
I tried, but it ended up looking like I was either saluting myself, poking my own eyes out or picking my nose through a portal. Gah!Needs more arm coming out of the other portal
I honestly think it's more of the fear of mods. I know we're definitely making them work overtime with this thread.The prettiest girls never get hit on because every guy automatically assumes that he has no chance in hell.
(this only applies in real life, therefore I don't know ;P )
I thought he got banned because he posted pics of Electrikluv's butt all over the forum.
Or was that when she broke up with him?
I honestly think it's more of the fear of the mods. I know we're definitely making them work overtime with this thread.
IIRC, Yixian was the dude who dated Electric and got banned when he had the biggest fucking meltdown of all time, correct?
You know it.ikr. just be creeps in public.
I feel that a large portion if the problem is that men are so vastly in the majority; I don't feel that's a male-specific problem, either. The tyranny of the majority is a real phenomenon and needs specific regulations to keep in check. If women comprised half of GAF (not likely any time soon, I admit), some of the things many members say in a male dominated forum would go unsaid in an equally shared one.
my wife will be with me!Go home and be a family man.
I wonder if catcalling has ever worked in the history of mankind.
Son: "Mommy, how did you and Daddy meet?"
Mommy: "Well, son, I was just walking down the street when you're Dad saw me and yelled the most disgusting things at me..."