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krypt0nian
Banned
Shit, AVclub's avatar makes me want to fap. I'm an easy mark for a great beard.
Mystic Theurge
Member
Hi guys! 
have you seen some of the mods revealing themselves in their avatars?
I know that Evillore, Opiate and Stumpokapow are using pics of people that I asume are themselves, supporting the "real pic January" thing.
so what do you think? (I hope they don't mind we talk about them!)
I think they are all quite handsome, stump has an awesome beard and beautiful blue eyes that contrast nicely with the dark tone of his hair and beard.
have you seen some of the mods revealing themselves in their avatars?
I know that Evillore, Opiate and Stumpokapow are using pics of people that I asume are themselves, supporting the "real pic January" thing.
so what do you think? (I hope they don't mind we talk about them!)
I think they are all quite handsome, stump has an awesome beard and beautiful blue eyes that contrast nicely with the dark tone of his hair and beard.
Phonomezer
Banned
Hi guys!
have you seen some of the mods revealing themselves in their avatars?
I know that Evillore, Opiate and Stumpokapow are using pics of people that I asume are themselves, supporting the "real pic January" thing.
so what do you think? (I hope they don't mind we talk about them!)
I think they are all quite handsome, stump has an awesome beard and beautiful blue eyes that contrast nicely with the dark tone of his hair and beard.
Opiate is haaaaaaaaawwwwtttt
Fantastical
Death Prophet
This is very true.
electroplankton
Banned
Hi guys!
have you seen some of the mods revealing themselves in their avatars?
I know that Evillore, Opiate and Stumpokapow are using pics of people that I asume are themselves, supporting the "real pic January" thing.
so what do you think? (I hope they don't mind we talk about them!)
I think they are all quite handsome, stump has an awesome beard and beautiful blue eyes that contrast nicely with the dark tone of his hair and beard.
opiate: hot, because blond and looks like Scandinavian.
Stumpokapow: cute, because of his eyes.
Mystic Theurge
Member
Agreed. One of the most attractive people on GAF.
Spiritreaver
Member
Nope! invite me out next time!
I go through phases, sometimes I go out every other day, sometimes once every two months.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
EviLore looks like Elvis. (not a bad thing)
Opiate is like a Swedish Vampire. <3
Opiate is like a Swedish Vampire. <3
I think Evillore is a very handsome guy as well, even if he looks like a 21 year old (is he?). His actual image is far better than what I imagined from him. (Evillore! I you are watching from the sky dont be mad!
)Stumpokapow: would?
wood =)
Too much? Not in my book. Sounds like you're having a helluva time. I need to get out more. Tend to hibernate during the winter months.
Hi guys!
have you seen some of the mods revealing themselves in their avatars?
I know that Evillore, Opiate and Stumpokapow are using pics of people that I asume are themselves, supporting the "real pic January" thing.
so what do you think? (I hope they don't mind we talk about them!)
I think they are all quite handsome, stump has an awesome beard and beautiful blue eyes that contrast nicely with the dark tone of his hair and beard.
I find them ok, normies. But I do find it weird how Evilore lives in my city, so if I ever get permabanned
OMG I'm kidding, dont ban me ;_;
MidnightScott
Banned
Hey everyone...
I'm going to meet that guy I met on New Year's again sometime this week hopefully. We've been chatting and I really get along with him and he's really sweet. I hope things can develop between us...he already knows that I like him and he's cute too. (we only met one time though)
I've practically told him everything about my experiences with guys and that I don't want to have any kind of hookups and that I want a relationship when me and whoever I end up with are both ready.
I just hope this year that I can experience love, something a few of you have already experienced. Thanks for putting up with me and my drama guys.
I'm going to meet that guy I met on New Year's again sometime this week hopefully. We've been chatting and I really get along with him and he's really sweet. I hope things can develop between us...he already knows that I like him and he's cute too. (we only met one time though)
I've practically told him everything about my experiences with guys and that I don't want to have any kind of hookups and that I want a relationship when me and whoever I end up with are both ready.
I just hope this year that I can experience love, something a few of you have already experienced. Thanks for putting up with me and my drama guys.
SpaceBridge
Member
Girl, we're all about the drama.
dragonlife
Member
Opiate is very attractive; handsome. He looks like a Prince Charming.
EviLore is cute. I like his ears
Dungeon Hero X!
EviLore is cute. I like his ears
Dungeon Hero X!
...I've been wondering what he looks like since that "I'm turning 30(?) Should I stop skateboarding/doing 'kid' things... well, I went to a nude beach" thread like years back.
*Searches sees avatar*
...Well, whatever floats your boat krypto. He does nothing for me. *shrug*
Fix'd.
Gurrrrrrl, I don't think I'm that obvious offline. At least people that know say I'm not.
Seriously?
Totes serious. It's a bit of a mess.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Link?
Cosmic Bus
pristine morning snow
It's two parts. But yeah, Cosmic Bus got the main one. He was worried before that about doing "childish" things while getting older. And IIRC, that going to a nude beach and showing his wife proof was just something he wanted to do and get over that mid-life crisis.
umop_3pisdn
Member
I remember seeing him driveby troll a thread once and that was enough to make me think less of him as a poster Then again who cares about my opinion anyways as I'm probably just being a judgmental tool.
Unrelated to everything: I'm suddenly obsessed with mereological nihilism to the point that I feel compelled to bring it up in totally unrelated situations.
Then again who cares about my opinion anyways as I'm probably just being a judgmental tool.Unrelated to everything: I'm suddenly obsessed with mereological nihilism to the point that I feel compelled to bring it up in totally unrelated situations.
I remember seeing him driveby troll a thread once and that was enough to make me think less of him as a poster
Nah, he's kinda stupid. I agree. But the mystery of the nude beach photo was alluring. Seeing his face now, Nope.avi. Krypto can have him.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Danke.
I read the article and still have no idea what the fuck that is.
Cosmic Bus
pristine morning snow
umop is a rad dude, but I always feel quite stupid when he's talking about these aspects of philosophy, sciences, religion, and psychology that he's interested in.
No, at least no one at my school. And we had the 18th (?) most Greek (fraternity/sorority) school in the country. And if mine didn't, I kind of doubt any one else did.
I mean, how many times have you heard of the pizza man fucking the bored housewife? I'm sure it happens, but it's really just a porn fantasy.
D
Deleted member 30609
Unconfirmed Member
I just feel like I'm listening to someone who spends too much time by himself getting high.
umop_3pisdn
Member
Essentially the only objects that can be said to exist (in the strictest sense) is the most minute particles (in this case, quantum events). So for example there's no such object as a chair, just objects arranged chair-wise. But then that means that we don't exist either, since we would be objects arranged person-wise
The idea is just that larger scale 'objects' are labels of convenience reflecting our sensory bias. We have a tendency to create identity for things that on the most minute level are entirely devoid of unique identity within their arrangement or otherwise. It's basically a simpler alternative to essentialism.Thank you! Really though I'm not even a very critical or rigorous thinker since I mostly just look for things that fit my existing biases
I think it's fun trying to change the lens I view things through because it seems like sometimes I come closer to a more suitable lens in the process, but it's mostly based on vague intuitively-felt nonsense. And it's basically just a form of escapism Eh, you've always struck me as somewhat crass, for example I think I deserve slightly more credit than what you're giving me here. Taking a step back from myself I'm at least one step above the level of 'speculative stoner' though agreed I wouldn't claim much more than that.
The Abominable Snowman
Member
Just had sex with my BF... and I cant help but wonder what sex would be like if I was with someone that pushed my sexual limit.
Like, It seems like I pushed his limit sexually, but I've never had someone completely freak me and break me off to the point where I felt like I was challenged to keep up.
Random, I know.
Like, It seems like I pushed his limit sexually, but I've never had someone completely freak me and break me off to the point where I felt like I was challenged to keep up.
Random, I know.
Essentially the only objects that can be said to exist (in the strictest sense) is the most minute particles (in this case, quantum events). So for example there's no such object as a chair, just objects arranged chair-wise. But then that means that we don't exist either, since we would be objects arranged person-wise
The more I think about it, the more I end up thinking about existential nihilism.
Essentially the only objects that can be said to exist (in the strictest sense) is the most minute particles (in this case, quantum events). So for example there's no such object as a chair, just objects arranged chair-wise. But then that means that we don't exist either, since we would be objects arranged person-wise
Isn't that all sort of self-evident? That life is but a matter of magnification has always struck me as the most uncomfortable reality we do well to avoid. I'm unconcerned with what happens after death; I worry far more whether I'm 'alive' at all. In that sense, any unconscious moment, such as sleep, becomes essentially indistinguishable from a state of death to the conscious mind (to whatever extent it exists).
Goes to prove that even materialists like myself are dualists at heart. Nobody can function any other way, "I don't exist" won't get me far in life.
Ollie Pooch
In a perfect world, we'd all be homersexual
I just opened my end-of-work beer for the day
Beer ftw!
Now to avoid going vita-crazy....
electroplankton
Banned
Yes.
If you are attracted to female features then you aren't really homosexual. Secondly, you shouldn't think that the things you see in those porns reflect real TS-women. I really hope you know that.
Maybe you should look into our own Trans-community to get a better understanding of us and yourself. Feel free to ask any questions, there are many users who are surely willing to give answers to come into terms with yourself.
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=388670&highlight=transgaf
I would consider you queer, and probably gender fluid. Homosexual to me is a pretty narrow category, you don't have to fit in to any particular one anyway.
MidnightScott
Banned
Congrats on the sex! But yeah maybe you should tell him that, you aren't weird for wanting to feel amazing after a good fuck.
The Abominable Snowman
Member
LOL thanks I suppose. Maybe I should just go to a distant city and have a random mind blowing tryst one of these weekends.
I dont think anyone would like to hear "Hey, your sex aint that good"
I don't post here really, but lurking every now and then, and like a lot of you - felt like sharing.
I got back from a 1 year trip around 2 months ago, and before that, I didn't really felt the pressure of meeting someone. Now it's a different story though.
I came to realize that the best, and maybe only, way to meet someone is by signing up to a dating website.
I think I decided not to do it for 2 reasons:
1. I don't like the idea of meeting people like that.
2. I guess deep down I'm a bit afraid to start going on dates and make this whole thing "real".
I just did it today, after I decided that's the best way to go.
I figured I'll just take it slowly since I'm still warry about it. So for now I just signed up, and let things roll from there and see how it goes.
I actually tried doing it a few days ago, but it was hard in the sense of writing personal stuff about myself such as likes, looks etc.
Heh, quite a few "I" in every sentence
I got back from a 1 year trip around 2 months ago, and before that, I didn't really felt the pressure of meeting someone. Now it's a different story though.
I came to realize that the best, and maybe only, way to meet someone is by signing up to a dating website.
I think I decided not to do it for 2 reasons:
1. I don't like the idea of meeting people like that.
2. I guess deep down I'm a bit afraid to start going on dates and make this whole thing "real".
I just did it today, after I decided that's the best way to go.
I figured I'll just take it slowly since I'm still warry about it. So for now I just signed up, and let things roll from there and see how it goes.
I actually tried doing it a few days ago, but it was hard in the sense of writing personal stuff about myself such as likes, looks etc.
Heh, quite a few "I" in every sentence
Heh, quite a few "I" in every sentence
But no pressure, in the end just have a good time.
I posted some "pointers" a few days ago, when it comes to "online sites"; just in case:
In my case I started going sot sites at around 20 years old, had sex for the first time at 23 (got tired of failing at meeting people offline and online, so was like "what the hell").Don't go to:
-Adam4Adam
-Manhunt
-Gay.com
Not as a starting point, at least.
Though, in the end list depends on where you live; since OkCupid around here is full of the same guys from Manhunt, Gay.com and Adam...then again, so are the local bars and support groups. :/
If anything, make a list (even if it's just a mental one) about not only stuff you want and like, but you want and would like in others and use that as a starting point (online at least).
Conversation and topics are vital of course, but don't try to talk about everything the first time, since then in day two you'll barely have nothing to talk about; and you'll probably end with the whole "Do I say something? If I talk to too much would he hate me? If I don't talk much would he hate me?"..and so on.
And online, yeah pictures are important, so if you're comfortable enough post a few of your face on the sites you choose (Manhunt, Adam are more sex-related, Gay.com can go either way; so keep in mind the focus of the site before posting a picture); and wearing clothes. If you're not looking for sex, shirtless pictures or pictures just of your chest give the wrong impression to many.
If you're not interested in sex (at the moment) then put said info on the profiles (just in case) and related to that, don't mention your size, sexual positions, preferences, likes, etc..in that aspect.
If you'd like to go out to bars/clubs/etc., yeah...make sure to at least try to don't go alone; since you'll probably hate it, get bored, etc. At the same time, you could try to go alone if you feel comfortable enough, just to see how are things in there, listen some music, some drinks, food; just to get to know the place; just don't go expecting to make friends and meet the love of your life.
In the end, just have fun...and take care.
Alternated offline, online, groups, clubs, bars, etc. to try to meet someone "finally" and well, lets just say I'll be 30 in a few months and things are the same. But you know what? I no longer care.
Cosmic Bus
pristine morning snow
So rather than having a conversation about this, you believe it's a better idea to just go and cheat on him? Oookay... unless this is an open relationship, in which case I'm going to bow out of the topic entirely.
You don't need to be rude and blunt about it; talk to him about your interest in having a more intense physical relationship, in broadening the horizons, trying new things, etc. One can safely assume this would be a hell of a lot more productive than just saying, "Hey, I'm not cumming hard enough. See ya, loser."
[edit] Honestly, this is (a small) part of why I don't even bother putting myself out there for dating or hook-ups: as a completely inexperienced mid-30s guy, physical interaction with me is guaranteed to be a tremendous disappointment to pretty much any other guy (since these days, it seems like 90% of people are sexually active since their teens). I can't deal with the humiliation and embarrassment, so I don't even try.
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