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ciD_Vain said:
Shitty stuff is going on...about to see my bf to have a serious talk...i'm pretty positive this won't end well...i think i'm gonna cry... :(

That sounds awful. Hopefully it's just misunderstanding.

Okay don't fuck with me guys...

The guy I was going to meet just canceled on me again (first time we were supposed to go shopping a few weeks ago) because he said he spent all his money yesterday and didn't want me to pay for him., even though I said he could just get me next time.

I used to be so shy before and now that I try to make an effort to even have friends they don't want to hang out for stupid reasons. I try to make friends and I just get shit on for it.

I'm sure all of y'all have probably already experienced this and that it is completely normal. :/
There are a lot of flakes out there. If he cancels again, don't even bother contacting him again.
 
You need to stop worrying about what others say. This is clearly a sign that you need to go fuck your coworker

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This.

Also, anyone know if this is real:

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Oh hahaha you guys are so funny, I'm falling out of my chair.

1) I'm not pursuing the coworker. I will just hang out with him because I don't really have any friends, he wants to help me with my self esteem issues, take me shopping, and just be a good friend.
So that's what they call it these days...

Don't be naive dude. He totally wants your ass.

Also that other dude is a dick. I'd have cut off all contact by now.
 
Oh hahaha you guys are so funny, I'm falling out of my chair.

1) I'm not pursuing the coworker. I will just hang out with him because I don't really have any friends, he wants to help me with my self esteem issues, take me shopping, and just be a good friend.
2) I'm going to meet a guy again that I met on New Years, I want to get to know him better to see if he is possible boyfriend material.

He wants to do this by taking your virginity and making you a man.
 
You know one of the worst things about a gaming BF when you don't own the same games? When they get so into a game you don't talk to them for days. It's annoying but It's what I get hah.
 
So that's what they call it these days...

Don't be naive dude. He totally wants your ass.

Also that other dude is a dick. I'd have cut off all contact by now.
the coworker texted me again after I told him what happened and he was like "fuck that guy he's an ass"
Yeah he asked me what I was up to and I was like "looking at porn haha" and he was like "nice" and I said "It's been a few days since I got off lol" and he said "So how is the movie lol are u horny right now" and I said "just watching random videos" and he said "because I am" and I was like "hot ;)"
See now I am confused...I await the day he starts telling me to come over :x
 
the coworker texted me again after I told him what happened and he was like "fuck that guy he's an ass"
Yeah he asked me what I was up to and I was like "looking at porn haha" and he was like "nice" and I said "It's been a few days since I got off lol" and he said "So how is the movie lol are u horny right now" and I said "just watching random videos" and he said "because I am" and I was like "hot ;)"
See now I am confused...I await the day he starts telling me to come over :x

Huh, he asking you to come over to fuck.

I think Im done with this drama, MS, sorry. But the dude is asking if your horny, he says he's horny, hes asking what your doing tonight, and your wondering when he's gonna ask you to come over?

The proper reponse should've been: You want me to come over and take care of that for you?
 
the coworker texted me again after I told him what happened and he was like "fuck that guy he's an ass"
Yeah he asked me what I was up to and I was like "looking at porn haha" and he was like "nice" and I said "It's been a few days since I got off lol" and he said "So how is the movie lol are u horny right now" and I said "just watching random videos" and he said "because I am" and I was like "hot ;)"
See now I am confused...I await the day he starts telling me to come over :x

Look. Just tell him that you really want that massage and when you do get one, get yourself a 'happy ending'. Then tell us all about it so we can fap too.
 
the coworker texted me again after I told him what happened and he was like "fuck that guy he's an ass"
Yeah he asked me what I was up to and I was like "looking at porn haha" and he was like "nice" and I said "It's been a few days since I got off lol" and he said "So how is the movie lol are u horny right now" and I said "just watching random videos" and he said "because I am" and I was like "hot ;)"
See now I am confused...I await the day he starts telling me to come over :x
That was pretty much an invitation, i think. Just go get some cock, seriously. It's frustrating all of us :P

You're totally missing all the signs. You need some advice.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wHJ3z8z0O7M
 
I think it's more wilful naiveté then anything else. I'm sure Midnight knows what the guy is asking for/implying/whatever but is just pretending not to.
 
Why are you even telling him you are watching porn and talking about jacking off? What kind of friends do you want?

I think it's more wilful naiveté then anything else. I'm sure Midnight knows what the guy is asking for/implying/whatever but is just pretending not to.
thats just being a freaking tease
 
Well he's the new employee and had to return to work to go in for more training. I think if he ever invites me over for sure I would go over there :D

Also he didn't ask me what I was doing tonight.
 
Well he's the new employee and had to return to work to go in for more training. I think if he ever invites me over for sure I would go over there :D

Also he didn't ask me what I was doing tonight.

Like julls (and everybody else) said, just go ahead and ask him. After everything he's texted you, it wouldn't be presumptuous. ETA: Oh, and like SpaceBridge said, he did ask you what you were doing tonight. Your co-worker is practically begging for it. Now are you going to let him down?
 
Like julls (and everybody else) said, just go ahead and ask him. After everything he's texted you, it wouldn't be presumptuous. ETA: Oh, and like SpaceBridge said, he did ask you what you were doing tonight. Your co-worker is practically begging for it. Now are you going to let him down?

At this point if I was the co-worker I'd just give it up and move on. Not worth hanging on for a tease :/
 
Yeah there's nothing worse than someone who dicks you around , leading you on and being indecisive about what they want. That said, it's not like this has been going on for weeks/months or anything like that. But it's fairly obvious this guy wants some ass asap.

Midnight's just scared of taking it ;P
 
Yeah there's nothing worse than someone who dicks you around , leading you on and being indecisive about what they want. That said, it's not like this has been going on for weeks/months or anything like that. But it's fairly obvious this guy wants some ass asap.

Midnight's just scared of taking it ;P

I'd just be like "Why does he want me?" Then "Okay might as well."
 
HELLO

Did you not see what I posted...

He didn't ask me what I was doing tonight, he just asked "what's up?" :/

I can see how that would sound like an invitation but I'm not getting my hopes up for nothing no more.

Also, I was kind of psyched for RE6 but I just played the Revelations demo and I suck at it but it also scared me, I jumped several times.

He texted me "what's up" and I said "watching porn", not "im horny right now, what are you doing" vvvvv
 
Shouldn't be negative about yourself man.

Yeah, i'd be all over that. Well, depending on the hotness of course. THe 28yo DILF aspect is appealing :P

I always get younger hitting on me haha. Like 18 up and that's appealing but i'm a faithful man.
 
HELLO

Did you not see what I posted...

He didn't ask me what I was doing tonight, he just asked what's up? :/

His cock. In your ass :P

Like I said man, read between the lines. "I'm horny right now, what are you doing?" is as much an invitation as 'Come over and blow me'. Stop playing dumb, seriously.
 
Honestly, I know that this is new for Midnight. He's still struggling with his sexual identity, and is being very cautious and careful with his "first time". That being said, I didnt end up marrying the first dude I banged, and I doubt many gay men do. I think he needs to throw caution to the wind and let himself free. That doesnt mean you need to be doing anal for your first time, but how will you ever come to terms with your feelings if you wont resolve them.

edit: I know Im 32 and not the hippest cat on the block
I probably am though
but since when someone ask's me "whats up" I usually interpret that as being "what are you doing" or "how are you" or "lets fuck around"
I kid with that last one
 
HELLO

Did you not see what I posted...

He didn't ask me what I was doing tonight, he just asked "what's up?" :/

So. . . Did you ask him about what he was doing after his extra training yet? What did he say?

MidnightScott said:
I can see how that would sound like an invitation but I'm not getting my hopes up for nothing no more.

Right. So you've asked him already and he said "no"? Or. . . Have you asked him yet?

ETA:

MidnightScott said:
He texted me "what's up" and I said "watching porn", not "im horny right now, what are you doing" vvvvv

Which you expected him to laugh off, right? But he didn't, he continued that line of thought. He told you that he was "horny" with very little provocation on your part. Um, yeah, he was pretty clear about what he wanted. So you've asked, right?
 
Honestly, I know that this is new for Midnight. He's still struggling with his sexual identity, and is being very cautious and careful with his "first time". That being said, I didnt end up marrying the first dude I banged, and I doubt many gay men do. I think he needs to throw caution to the wind and let himself free. That doesnt mean you need to be doing anal for your first time, but how will you ever come to terms with your feelings if you wont resolve them.
True. Sorry, Midnight if I come off as mocking - im only joking around. It's pretty clear you wanna bang this guy though :P
 
the coworker texted me again after I told him what happened and he was like "fuck that guy he's an ass"
Yeah he asked me what I was up to and I was like "looking at porn haha" and he was like "nice" and I said "It's been a few days since I got off lol" and he said "So how is the movie lol are u horny right now" and I said "just watching random videos" and he said "because I am" and I was like "hot ;)"
See now I am confused...I await the day he starts telling me to come over :x

You are giving such mixed signals. Jesus fucking christ.

I am joining the "just fuck him already" crowd. I wanna see that happen. Well... I wanna read about it.
 
Ignoring the drama, someone suggest a second date please :(

After dinner does come after lunch, and you couldn't have learned everything you wanted about him on the first date. And it doesn't have to get crazy or fancy either. That cooking together idea from upthread is a masterpiece.

But did you pick the location of the first date? Let him pick what you do for the second.

RatskyWatsky said:
Guys stop ganging up on MidnightScott. He's never gonna send those undie pics to us now. :(

Aw, you're right.
But, for real though, we trying to help him get some. This was called "Positive Peer Pressure" in my 6th grade health class.
 
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