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Gay and Bisexual relationship thread |OT|
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Sorry to hear about your break-up CiD :\
I got some chills every once in a while reading your story.
I don't have much to add (especialy not from personal experience), but I'll just resonate what other people said. I think the best thing is the way ended. Like your brother said, it opens a window for future relations with him - be it going back together, or just friends.
I wish you a quick and healthy recovery!
I got some chills every once in a while reading your story.
I don't have much to add (especialy not from personal experience), but I'll just resonate what other people said. I think the best thing is the way ended. Like your brother said, it opens a window for future relations with him - be it going back together, or just friends.
I wish you a quick and healthy recovery!
It pisses me off D: Let us ugly people have our uglyness >: (
Mystic Theurge
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UPS finally came
bought some new shirts online.
Kind of reminds me of Brent Everrett.
God...Everett does things to me.
Every time a porn name comes up in this thread, I have to Google it.
Every.
Time.
Guess that's what I get for sticking to amateur porn.
Mystic Theurge
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If only he would bottom more.
I can never find any decent amateur porn. All the one's that I find have less than attractive people.
He is such an amazing bottom to. That cute little giggle he gives,that cute short bod. Adorableeee
Haha, I like the "grittier" feel of amateur porn, and prefer the regular folks (as opposed to the glossy porn stars). But 70s porn is my fave.
Different strokes for different folks. =)
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
...so i guess i should start talking
;_; Sorry man. I never know what to say to someone in your position, other than to just stay strong. It'll get better, and I'm positive an attractive, caring, and nice person like you will find another great person to be with!
Also, I'd recommend Blue Bunny brand Bunny Tracks ice cream. It has peanut butter filled chocolate bunny rabbits in it! Screw Ben and Jerry's. ;p
I feel like this sometimes. I guess I was never conscious of it before, but your post resonated with me.
I was thinking about this the other day. I'm positive I would give it a try. I think I would also do MTF.
*waves* Hi!
Great news.
That's what makes it so hot!
"Adorable" + pr0n... sounds so... odd
lordfroakie
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I say adorable when he acutaly takes time to talk in his webcasts and show off how smart and adorable he is personality wise.
MidnightScott
Banned
No it's alright vic, I already ended my feelings for him. I just want someone to hang out with you know. However, the other dude I met last week just invited me to go hang out with him tonight but I have work tomorrow morning so I declined, then he invited me to go out after work tomorrow. I'm thinking about it...but I'm so shy in groups c.c
MidnightScott
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I've never liked twinks. I guess I like manly looking guys with hair on their chests and muscles (but not bears per se)
I would buy almost anything if an Asian twink was selling it to me.
I swear why is it so hard to meet guys....
Same sis. My bf isn't super twink though cept for the boyish face hah.
Go out more. Like that one time you went out and a guy liked you. Guys aren't going to be knocking at your door. You need to get out there.
I am sure that what I typed will be useless, though... MidnightScott style.
MidnightScott
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Oh fuck off. Unfortunately there will always be bullies like you in this world.
Speaking of twinks, I've been meaning to ask:
What do you guys consider to be a twink?
I ask because a while ago I was being hit on by an older guy when I was out, and he kept calling me a twink. I told him that I never thought of myself as a twink, and he asked me why that was. My response was I just never felt like I fit that mold.
--I'm 25
--I'm black (you rarely see black boys being referred to as twinks)
--I'm 6'3
When I was younger and in college, my friends and I always considered twinks to be the young, "pretty" boys who got shirtless and crazy at clubs all the time. "Pretty boys" in the gay community tend to be younger guys who have hairless, Grecian features. The guy seemed to disagree.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
This is what I consider the definition of Twinks to be. (I've also seen a lot of black twinks btw)
Cosmic Bus
pristine morning snow
Want to take my place? I'm being pulled to a gay club again and really don't want to go.
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Deleted member 30609
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someone drops a truth bomb that you don't want to hear = bully
Dead Prince
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SpaceBridge
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dragonlife
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If you think that's being a bully, then I have to wonder how you'll react when someone is actually being mean to you.
MidnightScott
Banned
Okay I'm just going to ignore all of the negative comments you people make about me or make fun of me. Sorry but I don't attack y'all, I generally try to help people.
Wow...my friend is just now on the way to San Antonio
He said "Next time would you come with me"...
FFFFF!!! Dammit I would've went with him this weekend if I knew that.... *slams head on keyboard*
Wow...my friend is just now on the way to San Antonio
He said "Next time would you come with me"...
FFFFF!!! Dammit I would've went with him this weekend if I knew that.... *slams head on keyboard*
The Broken Ska Record
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NOOOOO SAN ANTONIO IS EEEEVIEL.
".SpaceBridge
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Get in a car right now and get your virgin self to evil San Antonio, pronto.
MidnightScott
Banned
I have to work tomorrow (as in open the store), if I would've known this before hand I would've told my boss I was going out of town for the weekend.
Also, he asked me if I would come with him next time. And I said "yes!" I'm really hoping that he has feelings for me now, seriously...*prays to god*
Thank you guys so so so much. Its been painful and I've been crying nonstop but its good. What's starting to hurt me is people are trying to put thoughts into my head that he's been doing stuff to me behind my back and that is the real reason for the breakup. I know its not true but the last thing I need right now is bullshit like im hearing. It hurts, it fuckin hurts...
I know its not true but the last thing I need right now is bullshit like im hearing. It hurts, it fuckin hurts...MidnightScott
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Thank you guys so so so much. Its been painful and I've been crying nonstop but its good. What's starting to hurt me is people are trying to put thoughts into my head that he's been doing stuff to me behind my back and that is the real reason for the breakup.
Block those people or ignore them for a while. They weren't in the relationship, you two were. They can't possibly know anything and you should tell them to shut the hell up and stay out of your business. I mean I know you probably talked to them, but I can't believe they have the nerve to talk shit like that to you.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Thank you guys so so so much. Its been painful and I've been crying nonstop but its good. What's starting to hurt me is people are trying to put thoughts into my head that he's been doing stuff to me behind my back and that is the real reason for the breakup.
Maybe they're telling you those things because they figure it'll be better if you're mad at him instead of just sad? Like, somehow that'll make it better for you. I don't know, but just try to block them out.
SpaceBridge
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Thank you guys so so so much. Its been painful and I've been crying nonstop but its good. What's starting to hurt me is people are trying to put thoughts into my head that he's been doing stuff to me behind my back and that is the real reason for the breakup.
Want my advice? Take the next few days and stay in and dont socialize with anyone. Think about the relationship, remember the good and forget the bad. Take what lessons you can from this so that you can grow and be a better boyfriend in the future. Also, try to examine those negative characteristics and signals that your ex possessed so that in the future you can avoid a similar situation. There are no bad relationships unless you dont learn anything from them. And fuck the haters. Dont let others pollute your good memories. Those people did not have those connections with your ex, they didnt feel the bond, the love between the two.
edit: your"ll go through some stages of mourning. so let yourself cry, be angry, denial, and regret. But for god sakes DO NOT TRY to contact your ex. It will be the worst thing you can do. And stay away from any potential rebound guys. You will regret it even more.
SpaceBridge
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He needs to move the camera a bit more to his left though.
I'd agree with you, but I mostly disregard and avoid labels. Everyone's interpretations of the terms are so different, and there are so many different names for different types of people that it's too much trouble to try keeping up. [*whips out cane and sits in my rocking chair, shooing the kids off my lawn*]
SpaceBridge
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You mean like this?
(Im gonna regret this) Its the most chest Ill show you guys:
http://i828.photobucket.com/albums/zz209/TransformersHater/IMG00014-20111108-1932-1.jpg
And yes, this pic is my attempt at trying to be sexy. Its a few months old, from the summer I think.
MidnightScott
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*swoon* What do you consider yourself anyway? You are hot ;3
lordfroakie
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Oh - I agree with you. I also tend to avoid labels, which is why I asked. Until this guy made me think about it, I'd never really considered why I never thought of myself as a twink. Even back when I fit the description of what I consider a twink to be (except for the black part).
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