The Abominable Snowman
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Do you drink? That's a pretty big catalyst
Do your friends try to get you involved?
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Do you drink? That's a pretty big catalyst
Do your friends try to get you involved?
SpaceBridge
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I really dont get why. Even if your that guy who leans against the bar and watches the show, how come you dont get approached? Youre very attractive. It cant be a physical thing.
And then there are people like me. I never remember the names of people I've only seen once, and it's only been 4 years since I started going out. Not too many awkward situations, yet, or I'm not aware of any.
He mentioned getting drunk upthread. Right now, it sounds like mental hangups and maybe anxiety are the only things holding him back. SpaceBridge is right, you're hot Cosmic Bus, and I've seen trolls making out with college aged kids at these clubs, so it's obviously not that.
If it means anything, I slept with a guy 3 years ago (both sober) and he sent me a message on a dating site recently as if we had never met. Some people just have a bad memory. I had pics of my face on the site so it's not like it wasn't obvious who I was.
The Abominable Snowman
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He might be just trying to open a line of communication. 4 years is a long time to mature and change. Neither of you would be the same persons you were back then.
Lightening the mood, and continuing the trend from up thread, I just found a mirror pic on my phone. I think I look about a decade older in the face, but it's for the greater good.I guess I won't get those Disney jobs any time soon.
http://i.imgur.com/ZV8mg.jpg (cropped within an inch to it's life)
Maybe hes one of the guys who hangs by the bar. Nothing wrong with that. You can have just as much fun there.
Looking great!
Tell me you accomplished that with p90x and nothing else! (motivation plix)
I did
I did
Really? Well, you look amazing, and you made me think twice the hot dogs and French fries I was about to devour.
Damn, now I feel guilty about the chocolate chip cookies I had for breakfast. =(
Have you lost a lot of weight? How much?I did
Cosmic Bus
pristine morning snow
I don't drink a lot - being small, it hits me fast and hard - but y'know, 3 or 4 drinks in a night out is generally my intake. It doesn't loosen me up, though... just makes me even more aware of my self consciousness.
Most of my friends are girls (I like this) and they'll take me to clubs and bars periodically. I can't dance at all and it makes me feel ridiculous, so I'm content to hang out at a table or the bar while everyone else is dancing. Sometimes my friends, or like last night, a random girl will pull me out to dance and I'll fumble around for a bit while thinking that people are basically laughing at my awkwardness, and eventually drift back to the table. I want to be out there, it looks like so much fun! But my mind works against me, for sure.
Beats me. I'm not standing there scowling and I don't stink, heh, but in my whole life I've never once been approached, flirted with, asked out, or anything.
I wouldn't say a lot because I wasn't that big to begin with but between 15 and 20 pounds. The big difference it made for me is that I toned a lot.
I used to be super self-conscious about my boobs, now I have pecs and I don't think about it anymore (I used to be fat so I had moobs as a kid).
I haven't followed the diet (I'm a vegetarian and I eat pretty healthy anyway), nor did I do the abs workout but the results have been super impressive. In a way that's not surprising since you do workout 6 days a week for an hour.
This is the album of the progress in my first round of P90X
Oh and best part of that is that now I don't feel guilty when I have a unhealthy meal once in a while
Let me assure you that the vast majority of people don't care at all if you're awkward or not. If anything I'm rather laughing at people who are dancing like sluts, ha.
MidnightScott
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Oh my Alcoori 
Wow I bet I would look sexy if I exercised lol. Good thing my new friend is good at losing weight.
Wow I bet I would look sexy if I exercised lol. Good thing my new friend is good at losing weight.
That is a great pictorial (and testament to P90X, lol). I like your final 3/4 shot (very last pic) the best.This is the album of the progress in my first round of P90X
Oh and best part of that is that now I don't feel guilty when I have a unhealthy meal once in a while
Unhealthy meals are my weakness. Hell, eating is my weakness.
SpaceBridge
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I wouldn't say a lot because I wasn't that big to begin with but between 15 and 20 pounds. The big difference it made for me is that I toned a lot.
I used to be super self-conscious about my boobs, now I have pecs and I don't think about it anymore (I used to be fat so I had moobs as a kid).
I haven't followed the diet (I'm a vegetarian and I eat pretty healthy anyway), nor did I do the abs workout but the results have been super impressive. In a way that's not surprising since you do workout 6 days a week for an hour.
This is the album of the progress in my first round of P90X
Oh and best part of that is that now I don't feel guilty when I have a unhealthy meal once in a while
Woah. That's really unbelievable.
So wait this isnt you :
It's him. Back when I was a lurker w/ an account, I remember when he posted that full pic. (How I remember that, and not names is beyond me.)
ETA: I probably have the same relationship with food, too. Loving to eat all of it, but knowing that it's probably not a good idea.
P90X! Last year at the same time I had moved back home to my parents while waiting for grad school results and I had nothing to do except play through my backlog so I thought that I would take advantage of the free time I had on my hands to do something a little bit more productive.
The great thing with that program is that you can see the results fairly quickly and that only motivates you further.
Downside, now I tend to be a bit elitist when it comes to body types. I had this fb back in London with whom the sex was great. He came to NYC a little while ago, we hooked up and I was super disappointed. So either I had idealized the sex and had better since then or the fact that his body was a bit... squishy turned me off. Ha.
Shallow queen coming through!
electroplankton
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Yeah, Orioto is as awesome as his works. Too much Sony-ish lately, but I can deal with that.
I think I prefer a body-type somewhat halfway between Alcoori's first and second pictures. What's so beautiful about the body (both male and female) is seeing how bone hides, and is revealed from under, both muscle and fat - the boney structure of the rib cage interacts with the column of muscle and fat and flesh that is the lower torso, which itself rests on (and is supported by) the bone of the pelvis. Being too thin, fat, or even muscular removes that beauty, in my opinion.
In any case, you obviously worked hard on your regime, Alcoori, and achieved the results that you wanted, so congratulations on that.
In any case, you obviously worked hard on your regime, Alcoori, and achieved the results that you wanted, so congratulations on that.
electroplankton
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What, me sony-ish ?? You must confuse me with someone else
I bet you said something really Sony-ish in a thread in gaming discussion (sales thread?) but maybe I'm wrong. I've always admired your work, so it's weird to talk with you (even though it's a forum).
SpaceBridge
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I tend to prefer beefy body types myself. Dont mind guys with a bit of belly, actually prefer it, but Im sucker for broad shoulders and thick arms. Not a huge fan of over cut and super defined muscles. I guess as Ive gotten older, Ive come to appreciate a more natural look.
Something like this:
Something like this:
Yeaaa, this was my preference even growing up. I get along best with guys who, oddly enough, are hearty, adventurous eaters. It's miserable getting stuck with a boyfriend who only drinks water and sucks on Jolly Ranchers (and then spits everything out moments later) or lives on dried turkey or whatever other weird thing he needs to do for a sport or maintaining some OCD self-image.
Besides, skinnier guys always seem to have really big yingyongs. Too much for me. =\
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officially followed and now trying to decide which to get, (i coincidentally have walls that needs things hung on them)
I tend to prefer beefy body types myself. Dont mind guys with a bit of belly, actually prefer it, but Im sucker for broad shoulders and thick arms. Not a huge fan of over cut and super defined muscles. I guess as Ive gotten older, Ive come to appreciate a more natural look.
Something like this:
Who's this guy, he's hot.
Absolutely. And Alcoori looked great from picture group 1 through 4, to me. I think it's the hair.
Yum.I tend to prefer beefy body types myself[. . .]
Something like this:
And agreed. Diets and calorie counting are fine, normal, and are usually healthy. The manorexics that take it to the extreme are no good, though. Like, you just want to push a few buttered dinner rolls in front of their faces, just so they don't pass out.
But I don't go for a specific body type. I figure we can only control our bodies so much depending on our lives and our genetics, and it's not something that plays a huge factor in my "enjoyment." Personally, sometimes I wish I wasn't so hairless, but it's not like I can put Miracle Gro on my chest.
Adding myself to the gushing chorus of Orioto fans!
Electivirus
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Get rid of that nipple piercing, and we have a deal.
Same. I don't like piercings but this guy is HOT.
About piercings, I never really understood the appeal of PA piercings. It's a really turn-off for me. Same for tattoos that are on or close to ones private parts.
Haha. I know a person that got a PA after they turned 18. Of course, this dude is a furry that thought they were a dragon and apparently was getting mad sex every day on the day. So what the hell do I know about tacky.
SpaceBridge
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Electivirus
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Augh, PA piercings make me cringe. Why would you do that to your penis? ;-;
Some people really love it and I just don't get it. I was talking to a friend of mine who has one and he says it really benefits the sex. I don't know how since it was an awkward conversation to begin with haha, but some guys seem to be really benefitting of having a PA. I just think it's unattractive, especially in ones private parts.
SpaceBridge
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I dunno about PA if youre a top. I mean, how comfortable is it to stick your dick and a piece of metal into a bottom. Maybe for a top its great, but for a bottom...i dunno.
I'm a bottom and to me, it seems like a horror... then again. most piercings don't really have sharp parts. But still, the idea alone makes me shiver...
Don't want to offend anyone with a PA or anything btw, to each their own
It's not bad with a condom.
SpaceBridge
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This probably sounds stupid, but are there special condoms that have like a special protective layer to keep the condom from being ripped apart by the piercing or something?
With a condom and lube, a fairly small ring shaped piercing didn't add or subtract to anything (I don't have, and would never get, a PA piercing BTW).
I just used a standard latex, but I wouldn't know all that much. I wouldn't guess so, condoms are designed to take a lot abuse.
SpaceBridge
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Maybe they take the PA out before sex and the climaxing out of two holes is an appealing thing for them?
I guess I should ask the person I know but I haven't spoken to them in six years. hah.
Yes, my mind warped writing that
I guess I should ask the person I know but I haven't spoken to them in six years. hah.
Haha! It wouldn't surprise me if there are people who actually go for stuff like this
Will definitely ask my friend who has a PA about this.
SpaceBridge
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Haha! It wouldn't surprise me if there are people who actually go for stuff like this
There are people who go for anything. You mustve missed the bug chaser thread.
MidnightScott
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That's just fucking sick, can't believe people do that stuff.
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