SpaceBridge
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Okay, got it. Yes your right.
Tonight gets a fucking 0/10. What a waste of time and money.
I think I ran the full gamut of the gay scene experience in a span of three hours.
Waiting solo outside a fucking 'club' for like an hour in the freezing cold to see two friends who I thought were going to be a good time, but weren't? Check.
Getting inside, and getting practically no attention at all from the one dude who was keen as fuck waiting for me, and then who left me with his friends when their buddy got them past the coat check line, but literally stranded me with a no to my face even though I was with their group? Dismissive, judgmental super queer alert? Yes, check.
Having bartenders ignore me to my face to attend to random hot dudes that just walk up from the side and skip the whole fucking line, over and over and over again? And once again at the fucking McDonald's near the bus stop an hour ago? Fucking Check.
Having my phone die fucking midconvo, RIGHT when the one good friend there invited me over to avoid having to trek the cold trip home, and only seeing that message now, hours later, when finally at home, one cab ride and a snowstorm later? Check.
And me, in my own full-circle douchebag way, not realizing how shitty some of these 'friends' were 3 hours ago, while the music and the drinks were flowing...enough that I ignored the advances of a genuinely cute dude who hit on me and offered to buy me a drink, just so that I could stay focused on the guys I was after instead, who turned out to be complete shits. Of course, check.
Tonight. Awful. Total first world problems, but I don't give a fuck. This month has been total trash to me, and tonight was the fucking cherry on top. I'm stupid enough to add to the problems with some seriously poor decision-making. I'm horny, frustrated, and bitter.
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I think I ran the full gamut of the gay scene experience in a span of three hours.
Waiting solo outside a fucking 'club' for like an hour in the freezing cold to see two friends who I thought were going to be a good time, but weren't? Check.
Getting inside, and getting practically no attention at all from the one dude who was keen as fuck waiting for me, and then who left me with his friends when their buddy got them past the coat check line, but literally stranded me with a no to my face even though I was with their group? Dismissive, judgmental super queer alert? Yes, check.
Having bartenders ignore me to my face to attend to random hot dudes that just walk up from the side and skip the whole fucking line, over and over and over again? And once again at the fucking McDonald's near the bus stop an hour ago? Fucking Check.
Having my phone die fucking midconvo, RIGHT when the one good friend there invited me over to avoid having to trek the cold trip home, and only seeing that message now, hours later, when finally at home, one cab ride and a snowstorm later? Check.
And me, in my own full-circle douchebag way, not realizing how shitty some of these 'friends' were 3 hours ago, while the music and the drinks were flowing...enough that I ignored the advances of a genuinely cute dude who hit on me and offered to buy me a drink, just so that I could stay focused on the guys I was after instead, who turned out to be complete shits. Of course, check.
Tonight. Awful. Total first world problems, but I don't give a fuck. This month has been total trash to me, and tonight was the fucking cherry on top. I'm stupid enough to add to the problems with some seriously poor decision-making. I'm horny, frustrated, and bitter.
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Sorry to hear you had an awful night
Shit happens, but I guess now you know which friends are worth it and which "friends" aren't.
I know you [probably] see it as a wasted night, but... at least you can cut that rude and dismissive people out your life without feeling any remorse.
And because I love this GIF, have a hug:
Shit happens, but I guess now you know which friends are worth it and which "friends" aren't.
I know you [probably] see it as a wasted night, but... at least you can cut that rude and dismissive people out your life without feeling any remorse.
And because I love this GIF, have a hug:
Ollie Pooch
In a perfect world, we'd all be homersexual
You can just go under the covers. Light AND oxygen deprivation!
Magnus : beer is the solution. People are cunts.
Ollie Pooch
In a perfect world, we'd all be homersexual
You can just go under the covers. Light AND oxygen deprivation!
Magnus : beer is the solution. People are cunts.
It's weird how those bad nights just escalate isn't it?
I had a shocking day when I first moved over to the Gold Coast here. New town, by myself in this shitty rental home 2 days after I arrived as the bf was away from work, disaster after disaster with the car, work, colleagues, computer, internet, the entire day, and when I finally thought 'fuck it!' and tried to get a beer, the bottle store was closed. Ended up finding some old dodgy cheap wine in the freezer (I have no idea why it was there) to have a drink and chill out, went to play xbox and it blew up. LOL.
Coppertracks
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A guy I dated very briefly near insisted I be blindfolded when we first got it on. I thought it a bit odd but that he was been kinky and so went along with it. Then when my hand went wandering down to his crotch I figured out WHY he wanted me blindfolded.
It was like a pencil. A short pencil. I was afraid I'd snap it.
SpaceBridge
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Haha, I've been there. I don't mind small penises but pencils are where I draw the line.
BlazingDarkness
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Ah, the old pencil dick.. :lol
Dead Prince
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BlazingDarkness
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In this case
;D
;D
krypt0nian
Banned
Could put an eye out!
SpaceBridge
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Since we're having cock talk, what are your preferences when it comes to uncut guys?
runlikehell
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I'm uncut and have a loose foreskin, the guy I like has a tight foreskin and it hurts him when it's pulled all the way back. It's taken some getting used to.
I personally don't care for it. I've only ever been with my boyfriend, and he's cut and I love
sucking
cock
Dead Prince
Banned
Guys...
Cock talk, without pictures?...come on!
you first freeloader.
Speaking of that, I can't share but during his Christmas visit, my boyfriend and I took naughty pics. Boy, wasn't that sexy! We had never done it but it was a blast, and now they're what I resort to when in need of relief!Guys...
Cock talk, without pictures?...come on!
Definitely recommend it if you trust your partner.
Coppertracks
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In this case
;D
Girth people, it's all about girth!
I'm not fussed when it comes to cut or un-cut. I've been with both and both have their cons and pros. When people have way too much foreskin and it goes all wrinkly at the end, that's a bit ew though.
runlikehell
Banned
First official date with this dude, nervous as fuck.
You found that out before your first official date?
I like your style.
HappyPuppy
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In my mouth
Yay things are moving forward with my friend, he said some really sweet and surprising words 15 mins ago. Hooray for this man and hooray for me. Hi guys, enjoy the weekend.
Are you saying he had a plan to banned people and I felt for it? Or he wanted me banned?
Some shady business going on here
*sigh..
I was looking through some of my Friend's albums in Facebook and some of them have so nice families, children and all that. I sometimes wished I'd have to chance to go through that.
Sometimes, just about 1 day in a year, I think of giving up gay life and try to be a "team" with another girl and have a kid and raise it. No lies, no bullshit, no misleading actions, just find a girl, make her my best friend, have the common idea of raising a child and do it. I really don't need to fuck around every night, once in a while with a fuckbuddy will do the trick.
anyone else going to miss not having children? :/
I was looking through some of my Friend's albums in Facebook and some of them have so nice families, children and all that. I sometimes wished I'd have to chance to go through that.
Sometimes, just about 1 day in a year, I think of giving up gay life and try to be a "team" with another girl and have a kid and raise it. No lies, no bullshit, no misleading actions, just find a girl, make her my best friend, have the common idea of raising a child and do it. I really don't need to fuck around every night, once in a while with a fuckbuddy will do the trick.
anyone else going to miss not having children? :/
Quadaess Suikun
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^This.
Although it was a bit awkward at the beginning, now we have a growing collection of naughty pictures and videos lol. Sometimes when I feeld in a bad mood, just looking at them makes me feel Supah!
I'd like to have children of my own, but I just have to accept it won't happen. Maybe someday we could adopt one... but my bf doesn't even like children. It is a bit of a drama if you're a gay man and want to be a father ;_; . Lucky lesbians...
Are you not able to adopt or have a surrogate mother in Germany?
Coppertracks
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Meh, I love kids and I adore playing Uncle to my nephew but I'm happy I'm able to hand him back to his mother after a while. Kids are not for me.
Nah, guess is just joking.
Since that thread wasn't an actual thread to begin with, but a reply he posted in the game-reveal-thread.; but that Nirolak separated from there; to avoid the reveal thread been taken too off-topic.
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On the topic of children, I'd love one...or two. Wonder if I don't ever end in a relationship, to at least have enough money and been able to adopt one or through a surrogate.
I didn't know you had broken up with your boyfriend. Maybe I'm thinking of somebody else.
I sometimes think that I have learned so much being in this life and this world, that I'd like to share with someone that is "new" to this world, and have a try at guiding, I think I'd be good at that, I help a lot of people as it is, just listening and giving advice, giving advice in life to my son/daughter would be a highlight in my life, I like to think at least.
it is not about what a particulr country allows. If I did it, I wouldn't tell anyone as it is none of the business of anyone other than me.
I'm always thinking about having a surrogate mother but the cost is probably ridiculous. I really want to pass down my genes
You should film it. You'll become a youtube sensation!
I'm always thinking about having a surrogate mother but the cost is probably ridiculous. I really want to pass down my genes
Why is it so important to you? That's very interesting.
Awwww yeah!
I sometimes get that feeling as well. I think I still have too much to learn at this point of my life, but I think in the future that might be something I'd like to try.
I guess it's just the thought of having a child that genetically came from me, my blood. Isn't that natural? I have always wanted a son and I would LOVE to adopt a son, don't get me wrong and i definitely will in the future ^_^ but I would also like to have a son directly related to my bloodline.
I feel the same, I am capable of loving to full strength any human being but somehow the thought of having a biological child, someone that has your bloodline is a special feeling, not sure why exactly. I suppose it's because it is YOUR creation, not taking the work that someone else passed on to you... I am not sure here don't kill me if I just said something stupid.
I just want my kid to have hair as awesome as I do.
Haha, yes it was a bit awkward at first, but then we started getting into it... and then we stopped because we were getting carried away :3 and where we were going there was no use for the phone~
I like kids but sometimes I get tired of them. My boyfriend loves kids and we even have a name for our "future" one, but it's still a long way and I'd rather be just the two of us. If I was to choose, I'd adopt. Would rather save one kid from being unadopted than bringing just another one to the world, not to mention surrogate mothers are illegal in most european countries. At least in Spain and Norway it is.
Cosmic Bus
pristine morning snow
Srsly, those are genes that need to be carried on.
Even as one of the resident Negative Nancys, I'm pretty certain I'll have kids one day. Two girls: Lola and Nieves. They don't need to be biologically mine; my sister has her daughters that can carry on the family bloodlines, and I've got unappealing traits that don't need to be passed down to anyone.
The financial aspect of raising kids is terrifying, especially since I'm barely able to support myself at this point, but it will be possible eventually.
Buddies. =/
MidnightScott
Banned
Well I haven't heard from my guy since last night with his brief text convo with me. Who knows maybe he just needs his space?
Anyway my friend just invited me to go see a movie with him so I'm gonna go do so.
Anyway my friend just invited me to go see a movie with him so I'm gonna go do so.
It hasn't even been 24 hours. Don't over think it. Also what movie are you watching?
MidnightScott
Banned
the new Underworld - I think I may have saw the first one years ago but I don't remember lol.
You're one of the casualties? What did you say to piss off the mods? They don't usually just ban people for the sake of it.
Ha! If I have such power, I'd have banned some more of you in that thread. I'm not power crazy but some of you really were out of line and didn't take the thread at hand seriously or were just being plain ignorant in general.
Having said that, I didn't actually know that some bans were handed over until a day later. By then the thread was a mass grave. I was mostly glad that neteio or whatever his name was finally got his just dessert. He was the worst of them all.
At any rate, you can be angry at me if you want but I had nothing to do with the banning. The only thing that got you or other people in that thread banned was your or their own words. Choose them carefully next time.
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I think I would prefer two boys, or one boy and one girl. I would totally be the pushover dad, so girls would just have to give me doe eyes and I'd say yes to anything
I don't think I could handle more than one girl. Also I really liked the name Kai for a boy, but I ended up naming my kitty that :lol Sooo I guess I'll have to think of something else.And I totally agree. Raising kids seems fine by me, but the money part of it is just...ugh.
Mystic Theurge
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I hate kids.
Don't want my own, and I don't want to be around anyone else's
Don't want my own, and I don't want to be around anyone else's
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