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B-Ri said:
hey lets slow down there, I'm probably not cute enough :p
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Pshhhhh

anybody who can't handle a hot guy with some scruff doesn't deserve you in the first place.

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DR2K said:
Alright gay-gaf I've got a job interview tomorrow, and it's my biggest job yet. Wish me luck!
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Good luck! Hope it goes swimmingly well!

Replicant said:
As for life, I encountered this hot muscly hunk in a Japanese class when I was trying to find out my class' whereabouts. He winked at me but unforch I'm one class higher than him (his class is still learning Hiragana/Katana stuff). FML. I was tempted to downgrade my class just to be in the same class as him but then my conscience said out loud "How desperate/pathetic are you?" Still FML. Why can't I start Japanese in the same semester as him?
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You could offer to help him with his Japanese, seeing as to how you're a bit further ahead.
 
I think from now on when it comes to meeting someone/dating/hanging out, I'm just going to go into it with absolutely no expectations regardless of any conversations I have prior. Judging by what me and my date talked about in the past week I really had no idea what I was in for (especially regarding sex). When nothing happened
aside from me giving him an unfinished blowjob due to him having to talk to a client :/
I started my overthinking again. But this time I grew a pair and actually talked to him. With everything settled I left last night with a great kiss (his tongue......omg) and we're still talking so everything seems kosher. Hopefully i'll be back there next weekend.

The Eagle was great. All the right kinds of raunch and the overall atmosphere was friendly. It didn't help that my date was really close to the management and scene in general, so word got out that I was fresh meat real fast. Met a lot of cool guys, got groped a little and teased a LOT. Overall had a great time. I felt a bit out of place though. Amongst a sea of leather and flanel I was the only idiot in a white hoody. Made me feel like a beacon or something.

My local guy wants to have a movie night Wednesday to make up for him not coming home with me Friday. He and I have gotten a good deal closer so I'm looking forward to seeing where this goes.
 
Masamuna said:
I think from now on when it comes to meeting someone/dating/hanging out, I'm just going to go into it with absolutely no expectations regardless of any conversations I have prior.
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Talking and fantasizing is easy. However, when you're face to face a lot of other factors come into play (mood, ambience, chemistry, stamina, etc). So it's a mistake to have the expectation that anything physical will happen, regardless of how intimate or explicit your chats have been. Couldn't one get just as much emotional satisfaction out of an enjoyable meal as a roll in the bed? :P
 
SpaceBridge said:
Happy to see the thread alive with some positivity. The last few days this thread has left me feeling positively suicidal .
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Looks like the guy in your avatar is getting it hard from behind lol.
Masamuna said:
I think from now on when it comes to meeting someone/dating/hanging out, I'm just going to go into it with absolutely no expectations regardless of any conversations I have prior. Judging by what me and my date talked about in the past week I really had no idea what I was in for (especially regarding sex). When nothing happened
aside from me giving him an unfinished blowjob due to him having to talk to a client :/
I started my overthinking again. But this time I grew a pair and actually talked to him. With everything settled I left last night with a great kiss (his tongue......omg) and we're still talking so everything seems kosher. Hopefully i'll be back there next weekend.
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Seems like it went well, don't over think!!
 
Talking and fantasizing is easy. However, when you're face to face a lot of other factors come into play (mood, ambience, chemistry, stamina, etc). So it's a mistake to have the expectation that anything physical will happen, regardless of how intimate or explicit your chats have been. Couldn't one get just as much emotional satisfaction out of an enjoyable meal as a roll in the bed? :P
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The amount of cuddlage that happened was great, and in hindsight just being in each others arms was a very good experience. I just need to be more efficient at saying whats on my mind and expressing myself. It would save me a world of trouble and anxiety.
 
ivysaur12 said:
Do you go out a lot in West Hollywood? I need gay going out friends. But really. I'm on Sunset/Sweetzer.
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hahaha, I do on occasion, id like to go more often since im single and need to mingle outside of my current group of friends/coworkers.

Youre not too far actually, youre pretty close to my work.

PM me
 
Speaking of starbucks my date took me there after dinner last night. For some reason I didn't understand why he kept calling it bearbucks, but I soon learned lol

The bad part? The hottest guy was a barista who specifically had a sticker on his apron that said "yes, i'm straight." le sigh...
 
In my mother's continuing quest to make me not gay, she actually told me that maybe it's because I wasn't circumcised, and that I should get that operation done. An alternative theory of hers was that God was punishing her by turning me gay for her not going to church lately.

There's a huge part of me that wishes she had disowned me, just so I wouldn't have to deal with these daily phone calls filled with stupid.
 
Threaten your mother with the silent treatment until she accepts you and apologies. If you keep playing along she'll just get worst. Don't get angry, don't pretend you understand, just don't respond. Deny her you.
 
Rez said:
Threaten your mother with the silent treatment until she accepts you and apologies. If you keep playing along she'll just get worst. Don't get angry, don't pretend you understand, just don't respond. Deny her you.
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Sound advice that I plan on utilizing. My patience has worn thin at this point.
 
Some months ago I posted here about a crush I had on a gay friend. I've never been with guys so I decided it was better not to tell him. Everything was normal for some weeks and I suppose he somehow noticed it, because he suddenly told me that I was funny and nice but he would probably never had a relationship with me. That he was not into skinny guys. I felt like dying. I really hadn't feel that bad for years. I tried to keep acting like if nothing happened. Even though I can't blame him for not being attracted to me, it hurt so bad just thinking that we've been very close for 5 years and for him I'm just that "skinny friend".

Everything was fine for some weeks, but one day he started to act like if he was tired of hanging out with me. He was distant and it was like if he was trying to find a reason to "fight" me. He got mad at me for some stupid shit that even wasn't my fault. I tried to talk to him, he didn't answered my calls and blocked me on IM. Around those days another very close friend stopped talking to me for some work related problem. I got really depressed, I stopped eating and lost a lot of weight.

Since I was a kid everyone told me that I was too cold, that I had to get out of my shell and stop having this fucking wall around me all the time. Somehow I changed last year. I got along with people I never knew I could. I started to care about others and trust them. But then all that shit happened and even though it was months ago I'm still so hurt. Right now I'm my old self, I feel horrible and it's just as if I can't trust anyone even if I'm trying to.

I'm also having some kind of family issues and I know it sounds like I'm overreacting but I've been thinking about suicide. I know that I would never ever do that. It's just that it is said that if one tries to suicide or has this thoughts is asking for attention, asking for help. I'm trying to understand myself, I suppose I really need help but I don't know from whom or what to do.

All these years when I heard "I need a hug" I was like "why could anyone NEED a hug? a hug doesn't solve anything". Well, I think that I finally understand it because right now I feel like I really need one. :(
 
Really sorry to hear that, especially that you had a falling out with him for something trivial. Honestly, it sounds like you have a lot to work out right now though.. sometimes it's better not to be involved with someone so you have time to think and figure everything out on your own. When you're ready, built up your confidence, and are generally happy with yourself, some great guy will come out of nowhere.

You're just going through a dark period right now.. happens to all of us. Try not to dwell on it.. you'll feel better soon. Maybe your friend will come around, but let him do it on his own. If he really cares about you, he'll come back :)
 
Yeah, I know what you mean Nlroh (been there and kinda there...still).

At the same time, I could tell you that things will get better, that don't think too much, forget about them, that you're hot, that send me your naked pictures to my private message folder...and well, you might chuckle, smile; but won't do much. :p


Soo.. *hugs*
*gropes too* >:)
:p
 
I just have to get this out there. Been catching up on Shameless season 2. Holy crap is Cameron Monogham hot, but so is his boyfriend on the show. Masculine. I need to get laid.

And I'm disappointed I haven't seen more Ron Gronkowski pics here during Super Bowl week. Whew.
 
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