No, you gave them the money so they could fucking run the site. There was no clause about remaining indie forever more, they just didn't want to be at the mercy of ad companies.
Why are people so instantly hostile towards business, even good business? Does anyone stop and think about things? Ugh. If you seriously watched that video and can still spout this nonsense... you need to get your head checked.
Which is why he's not asking for a refund. Do you think he is obligated to keep supporting them indefinitely even if they make decisions contrary to his desires?