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[Bel Marduk]

Ugh, I'm starting to feel ugly yet can't have gay friends cause every gay guy I've ever tried to be friends with ended up wanting more. I don't know what to think anymore. Fuck this shit.

If you were ugly, your friends probably wouldn't want more... and most would probably just leave it at a "no" without making the friendship awkward after that. I'm not sure are you upset at lack of friends or because you think you're ugly?

 

[Prez]

If you were ugly, your friends probably wouldn't want more... and most would probably just leave it at a "no" without making the friendship awkward after that. I'm not sure are you upset at lack of friends or because you think you're ugly?

It's the lack of friends. At worst I look average.

I've had a friend who was in love with me. He left it at a no, but he still had feelings and that gets very awkward.

 

[Cosmic Bus]

Are you suggesting that if someone's not my type I should try having a relationship with him anyway?

Also I don't mind at all what the people at the meeting enjoy, but I enjoy entirely different things. I don't feel obligated to be friends with people who are entirely different than me.

Of course I'm not suggesting that. Your tone was very dismissive of entire groups of people and I was simply pointing that out. Some people enjoy playing a sport or video games, my God, HOW CAN WE BE FRIENDS?? Huh, imagine if there was more to someone than just one activity they participate in.

Of course I'm looking for a relationship, but it has to be my type. I can't go out alone and every friend I used to go out with ended up liking me, so I couldn't really go out with them anymore :/ These are just 2 people, so it's not like everyone falls in love with me

Why can't you go out alone occasionally?

Your posts were solely asking about making friends, so I'm not referring to forming [sexual] relationships at all. It seemed that befriending straight people was somehow unappealing, but it wasn't made clear why that is, so I was suggesting it shouldn't matter what their orientation is if you have things in common.

If you're legitimately concerned that making gay friends will end in them falling for you, then a) it's possible you may not be entirely clear from the start what you are or aren't looking for with these people, and b) perhaps it would be worthwhile to stop specifically pursuing people and just go out to enjoy the activities you're interested in. There will obviously be others present who share these interests (why else would they be at ___?) and from there you can strike up conversations, etc. It has always been my experience that lasting, meaningful friendships happen and are not purposefully made.

 

[Prez]

That's some really good advice, cosmic.

I have a lot of anxiety so going out alone and making friends is very hard. Sometimes I feel that the only friends I've made were due to my looks and they wouldn't have given me a chance if I looked less good. I haven't made a single friend in two years now, so I feel that people don't find me interesting and now ugly as well :/

When I look in the mirror though, I see a good looking guy. And I consider myself an interesting guy as well, so I'm very confused.

 

[BeesEight]

I've been to a meeting of a gay group two weeks ago, but it wasn't anything special. Everyone seemed to lack self confidence and was socially awkward.

I have a lot of anxiety so going out alone and making friends is very hard.

... hm...

I think you may be a little too hard on people and yourself. I like cosmic's advice of finding a group with a shared interest. That way you have something to talk about/participate in and you won't have the pressure of trying to find things to connect with.

 

[Prez]

... hm...

I think you may be a little too hard on people and yourself. I like cosmic's advice of finding a group with a shared interest. That way you have something to talk about/participate in and you won't have the pressure of trying to find things to connect with.

I'm sorry but I want to be around people who inspire me, who I can share the greatness of life with. I do not appear very low confident and anxious around people, I'm always positive and see the beauty of life. I couldn't be around people who are negative or unsure, ultimately that's not what I stand for. I enjoy the small things in life. I rather go on foot than take the bus. I sometimes enjoy being out in the rain. I enjoy walking the streets in a city without knowing where I am, so every turn I take brings me to another surprise. I try to share that with people, but I get weird looks every time. I do my best to enjoy every minute I live, but it can be a challenge when you're on your own.

 

[BeesEight]

I'm sorry but I want to be around people who inspire me, who I can share the greatness of life with. I do not appear very low confident and anxious around people, I'm always positive and see the beauty of life. I couldn't be around people who are negative or unsure, ultimately that's not what I stand for. I enjoy the small things in life. I rather go on foot than take the bus. I sometimes enjoy being out in the rain. I enjoy walking the streets in a city without knowing where I am, so every turn I take brings me to another surprise. I try to share that with people, but I get weird looks every time. I do my best to enjoy every minute I live, but it can be a challenge when you're on your own.

I only mean to suggest that you may be putting unrealistic expectations in new people, especially for a first meeting. I mean, I really don't know you or the people you saw so can only pass judgment on the information present in these posts. If I had to guess, it could be that your standards for people could really be limiting the possibilities of friendships you may not consider.

It sounds like you would like people to take a chance with you, but my question is are you willing to take a chance on others? Hell, one of my best friends and I rarely see eye to eye on a lot of things but we still get along really well. And trust me, I've been equally guilty of writing people off without giving them a shot. But in the end, I'm poorer for it since I don't get to know that many people.

 

[gerg]

I only mean to suggest that you may be putting unrealistic expectations in new people, especially for a first meeting. I mean, I really don't know you or the people you saw so can only pass judgment on the information present in these posts. If I had to guess, it could be that your standards for people could really be limiting the possibilities of friendships you may not consider.

I was going to suggest this as well. Stabbie, give people a chance. You never know who you might meet.

 

[Tntnnbltn]

Well, that's shitty. Are you uncirced?

Yes for uncircumcised.

I've never had any problems for stuff like this before which is why it was so surprising.

I took a look at it last night. It's a lot more prominent than I thought it would be. When they said 'it heals fast' I mentally assumed it would heal back like it used to be, not heal with the big tear still there.

It probably sounds really stupid, but the whole thing is feaking me out a bit. It took me a loooong time to be comfortable with my body and the idea that guys might be into me. It's still something I struggle with sometimes. But now mentally I'm like 'why would they want someone with a weird, deformed penis?'

I know that it's something aesthetically minor, and that people have different penises and bodies anyway, but this whole thing is feeding into my insecurities.

 

[RatskyWatsky]

Yes for uncircumcised.

I've never had any problems for stuff like this before which is why it was so surprising.

I took a look at it last night. It's a lot more prominent than I thought it would be. When they said 'it heals fast' I mentally assumed it would heal back like it used to be, not heal with the big tear still there.

It probably sounds really stupid, but the whole thing is feaking me out a bit. It took me a loooong time to be comfortable with my body and the idea that guys might be into me. It's still something I struggle with sometimes. But now mentally I'm like 'why would they want someone with a weird, deformed penis?'

I know that it's something aesthetically minor, and that people have different penises and bodies anyway, but this whole thing is feeding into my insecurities.

As long as you have a huge cock, no one will care what it looks like!

 

[beje]

Yes for uncircumcised.

I've never had any problems for stuff like this before which is why it was so surprising.

I took a look at it last night. It's a lot more prominent than I thought it would be. When they said 'it heals fast' I mentally assumed it would heal back like it used to be, not heal with the big tear still there.

It probably sounds really stupid, but the whole thing is feaking me out a bit. It took me a loooong time to be comfortable with my body and the idea that guys might be into me. It's still something I struggle with sometimes. But now mentally I'm like 'why would they want someone with a weird, deformed penis?'

I know that it's something aesthetically minor, and that people have different penises and bodies anyway, but this whole thing is feeding into my insecurities.

I've seen cocks of every size and shape, and I've enjoyed them all (except pencil and mushroom cocks, fuck them) no matter if they were not perfect. Chances are that most people won't even notice the injury.

 

[Tntnnbltn]

Thanks for the support guys. I guess I should get back to the important issues in life, like when can I masturbate and have sex. :/

 

[Prez]

I only mean to suggest that you may be putting unrealistic expectations in new people, especially for a first meeting. I mean, I really don't know you or the people you saw so can only pass judgment on the information present in these posts. If I had to guess, it could be that your standards for people could really be limiting the possibilities of friendships you may not consider.

It sounds like you would like people to take a chance with you, but my question is are you willing to take a chance on others? Hell, one of my best friends and I rarely see eye to eye on a lot of things but we still get along really well. And trust me, I've been equally guilty of writing people off without giving them a shot. But in the end, I'm poorer for it since I don't get to know that many people.

Thanks, you're actually right about that. I have to change, otherwise I'll be alone forever.

This week I'm gonna tell a gay classmate I'm gay, then I'll see what happens. He's not out, but it's pretty obvious

Thanks for the support guys. I guess I should get back to the important issues in life, like when can I masturbate and have sex. :/

Are you really sure it doesn't grow back to normal? Have you asked your doctor about that? Maybe something can be done, just make sure it's not too late and ask as soon as possible.

Btw in search of an answer of Google I saw some pics of penises with a removed frenulum. It's not that bad, I don't think I would care and I'm very picky when it comes to dicks. Also from what I've read it should grow back to normal! So definitely ask your doctor about that.

 

[Pyrokai]

Guys, how can I overcome my fear of dancing at clubs? I'm so terrified to dance in public. I do it occasionally, but I just have the hardest times with it. I've had fun with it in the past but I'm never going to be able to meet someone if I can't even dance with someone

 

[AceBandage]

Guys, how can I overcome my fear of dancing at clubs? I'm so terrified to dance in public. I do it occasionally, but I just have the hardest times with it. I've had fun with it in the past but I'm never going to be able to meet someone if I can't even dance with someone

Everyone looks stupid when they dance.
Just have some confidence and you'll do fine.

 

[BeesEight]

Thanks, you're actually right about that. I have to change, otherwise I'll be alone forever.

This week I'm gonna tell a gay classmate I'm gay, then I'll see what happens. He's not out, but it's pretty obvious

Hey, good luck. I hate coming out, personally. It's one of the things I need to work on. Let us know how it goes.

Guys, how can I overcome my fear of dancing at clubs? I'm so terrified to dance in public. I do it occasionally, but I just have the hardest times with it. I've had fun with it in the past but I'm never going to be able to meet someone if I can't even dance with someone

Alcohol.

 

[Prez]

Guys, how can I overcome my fear of dancing at clubs? I'm so terrified to dance in public. I do it occasionally, but I just have the hardest times with it. I've had fun with it in the past but I'm never going to be able to meet someone if I can't even dance with someone

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KsyYuFv5ltc

True answer: you need a very good sense of rhythm to dance, otherwise you'll never learn. I got better at dancing because my rhythm improved by listening to lots and lots of rhythmic music.

To eliminate your fear, you need to become one with the music. That's why I can only dance to music I love. I'm too scared to dance to music I don't like.

Alcohol.

Alcohol doesn't make you a better dancer, but it does make you less ashamed to dance horribly.

 

[BeesEight]

Alcohol doesn't make you a better dancer, but it does make you less ashamed to dance horribly.

To be fair, he did only ask how to get over the fear of it.

But Stabbie has the gist of it. If you want to get good at dancing, you have to learn to dance. Either learn to find the rhythm or get someone who can point it out and teach you to identify it and some moves. Or, do what I do and avoid clubs like the plague and if you get dragged to one just get smashed.

 

[Pyrokai]

Hey thanks guys. I can identify the rhythm of the music fine enough, so maybe I'm better than I think. But sometimes I just become paralyzed with fear of dancing even when drunk and it drives me crazy. Other times I'm okay. I can't meet guys without being able to dance, even though it's not exactly my scene. I want to learn to enjoy it, you know?

Thanks for the support guys. I guess I should get back to the important issues in life, like when can I masturbate and have sex. :/

Hey man, I'm right there with you--sorta. Apparently I have epididymitis (an inflamation and infection of the epididymis on the testicles) for over 6 weeks now. My balls hurt just to sit and stand, and I'm supposed to be training for a marathon.

It's actually really starting to make me worry. I'm actually afraid it might be something far worse even though it was my diagnosis. They gave me a shot and some antibiotics and it seemed to help....but that was 2 weeks ago and the symptoms are back in full force and everything is hurting. It's like I needed more medicine or something. I'm seeing the doctor tomorrow, so I'm really hoping for some promising news and that all I really need is more meds. I'm worried it's going to become something chronic because I've had it for so long.

What's even more scary? It's usually caused by chlamydia or gonorrhea....which I don't have. I've shown no symptoms for either of those and haven't had sexual contact with anyone since January. So I don't know what the fuck is going on. Wish me luck tomorrow, GAF

 

[Prez]

Hey, good luck. I hate coming out, personally. It's one of the things I need to work on. Let us know how it goes.

Have you ever come out? I've done it a hundred times already, but I'm in an entirely new class this year so I got back in the closet. I haven't really been hiding it, if someone asked I would have given an honest answer. It's one of those questions that no one ever asks though, so I'm gonna have to tell

What's even more scary? It's usually caused by chlamydia or gonorrhea....which I don't have. I've shown no symptoms for either of those and haven't had sexual contact with anyone since January. So I don't know what the fuck is going on. Wish me luck tomorrow, GAF

Don't panick, you'll probably be fine. No symptoms of any STDs and there are other bacteria and microbe that could have caused it.

 

[Alcoori]

Hey thanks guys. I can identify the rhythm of the music fine enough, so maybe I'm better than I think. But sometimes I just become paralyzed with fear of dancing even when drunk and it drives me crazy. Other times I'm okay. I can't meet guys without being able to dance, even though it's not exactly my scene. I want to learn to enjoy it, you know?



Hey man, I'm right there with you--sorta. Apparently I have epididymitis (an inflamation and infection of the epididymis on the testicles) for over 6 weeks now. My balls hurt just to sit and stand, and I'm supposed to be training for a marathon.

It's actually really starting to make me worry. I'm actually afraid it might be something far worse even though it was my diagnosis. They gave me a shot and some antibiotics and it seemed to help....but that was 2 weeks ago and the symptoms are back in full force and everything is hurting. It's like I needed more medicine or something. I'm seeing the doctor tomorrow, so I'm really hoping for some promising news and that all I really need is more meds. I'm worried it's going to become something chronic because I've had it for so long.

What's even more scary? It's usually caused by chlamydia or gonorrhea....which I don't have. I've shown no symptoms for either of those and haven't had sexual contact with anyone since January. So I don't know what the fuck is going on. Wish me luck tomorrow, GAF

I hope everything will be OK but you do know that you can have both chlamydia and gonorrhea and not show any symptoms, right?
Did you get tested since January? If not you should just to make sure.

 

[Pyrokai]

I haven't been formally tested by they treated me as if I had both.....and it hasn't helped. Really upsetting . Can they test in a normal doctor's office?

Edit: I'm sorry, I actually was treated as if I had chlamydia, which is the more common cause, I guess. Still though....four months and no symptoms? I feel like I should have felt something. Really strange. I just want my health back

 

[Bel Marduk]

Hey thanks guys. I can identify the rhythm of the music fine enough, so maybe I'm better than I think. But sometimes I just become paralyzed with fear of dancing even when drunk and it drives me crazy. Other times I'm okay. I can't meet guys without being able to dance, even though it's not exactly my scene. I want to learn to enjoy it, you know?



Hey man, I'm right there with you--sorta. Apparently I have epididymitis (an inflamation and infection of the epididymis on the testicles) for over 6 weeks now. My balls hurt just to sit and stand, and I'm supposed to be training for a marathon.

It's actually really starting to make me worry. I'm actually afraid it might be something far worse even though it was my diagnosis. They gave me a shot and some antibiotics and it seemed to help....but that was 2 weeks ago and the symptoms are back in full force and everything is hurting. It's like I needed more medicine or something. I'm seeing the doctor tomorrow, so I'm really hoping for some promising news and that all I really need is more meds. I'm worried it's going to become something chronic because I've had it for so long.

What's even more scary? It's usually caused by chlamydia or gonorrhea....which I don't have. I've shown no symptoms for either of those and haven't had sexual contact with anyone since January. So I don't know what the fuck is going on. Wish me luck tomorrow, GAF

Holy shit... Yeah you should definitely see a doctor tomorrow. Hope everything is ok with you.. no wonder you're self conscious about your dancing.. I'd not want to do it at all.. that is the worst place for pain.. when I was 16 I had a testicular torsion.. and.. I'm surprised you don't go to the emergency room today.

 

[RatskyWatsky]

I'm actually afraid it might be something far worse even though it was my diagnosis. They gave me a shot and some antibiotics and it seemed to help....but that was 2 weeks ago and the symptoms are back in full force and everything is hurting. It's like I needed more medicine or something. I'm seeing the doctor tomorrow, so I'm really hoping for some promising news and that all I really need is more meds. I'm worried it's going to become something chronic because I've had it for so long.

What's even more scary? It's usually caused by chlamydia or gonorrhea....which I don't have. I've shown no symptoms for either of those and haven't had sexual contact with anyone since January. So I don't know what the fuck is going on. Wish me luck tomorrow, GAF

No offense, but you seem really paranoid about these things. You were the guy who was terrified a while back because you thought you had HIV, right? Even though all of your tests came back negative? If the doctors say you have epididymitis, then that's most likely what you have. It's good that you're going back to your doctor to get things checked out further, (maybe you could even get an STD test if you're that worried about it) but if the doctor says that you still have epididymitis, then I think you should trust his/her judgement and leave it at that. No need to worry yourself to death. It'll be okay.

 

[Prez]

I haven't been formally tested by they treated me as if I had both.....and it hasn't helped. Really upsetting . Can they test in a normal doctor's office?

How have they treated you as such? It seems pretty obvious you can't have sex with an infection. Any bacteria can infect other people, STD or not.

Even if you do have an STD, be glad it's not syphilis/hepatitis/HIV, those are far worse.

 

[Bel Marduk]

No offense, but you seem really paranoid about these things. You were the guy who was terrified a while back because you thought you had HIV, right? Even though all of your tests came back negative? If the doctors say you have epididymitis, then that's most likely what you have. It's good that you're going back to your doctor to get things checked out further, (maybe you could even get an STD test if you're that worried about it) but if the doctor says that you still have epididymitis, then I think you should trust his/her judgement and leave it at that. No need to worry yourself to death. It'll be okay.

Yeah.. I don't get it.. Yeah, unprotected sex does feel better but it really just isn't worth having to deal with all of this.

 

[RatskyWatsky]

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[Pyrokai]

Yes, I am the guy who was worried about HIV. Still am to some extent. I just feel like ever since this sexual encounter in January, my life has a been a living hell. Contracted oral herpes/cold sores, scared of HIV, and now this. No, it wasn't worth it and has single handedly turned my life upside down. And it was only the second person I've ever had sex with and it was oral sex (yes without a condom.....but I trusted him like an idiot).

This whole thing has made me a bit of a hypochondriac, to be honest. I seriously feel some years were shaved off my life. It's been a horrible year for me so far

Side note: does anyone else her get cold sores? I'm trying to figure out how to live with my new condition. I seriously feel like I can never even kiss someone ever again since they can be passed even without visible sores.....which is how I got it I believe, but this isn't common. The ONLY saving grace for me with this is that about 50-80% of all people have this virus, but many (most?) are asymptomatic.

Edit: I, of course, will tell anyone I ever have an interest in that I get cold sores. Will probably keep everyone away, unfortunately. Also, thank you for the constructive criticism. I need it. I'm not able to talk about this with anyone and sometimes I let my mind get the better of me, so I really appreciate he wake-up calls.

 

[BeesEight]

Have you ever come out? I've done it a hundred times already, but I'm in an entirely new class this year so I got back in the closet. I haven't really been hiding it, if someone asked I would have given an honest answer. It's one of those questions that no one ever asks though, so I'm gonna have to tell

Yeah, but not to everyone I know and not very often.

 

[Meicyn]

The female condom is a step closer towards the bareback experience minus the AIDS. Just remember to remove the inner ring before use.

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00014UIO8/?tag=neogaf0e-20

 

[Prez]

Or you could try to enjoy other things about sex. The kissing and the passion in general do so much more to me than the feeling in my dick.

 

[Meicyn]

Or you could have all of those things. I don't know why you've gone ahead and created a false choice.

 

[Prez]

Or you could have all of those things. I don't know why you've gone ahead and created a false choice.

I didn't.

 

[RatskyWatsky]

Yes, I am the guy who was worried about HIV. Still am to some extent. I just feel like ever since this sexual encounter in January, my life has a been a living hell. Contracted oral herpes/cold sores, scared of HIV, and now this. No, it wasn't worth it and has single handedly turned my life upside down. And it was only the second person I've ever had sex with and it was oral sex (yes without a condom.....but I trusted him like an idiot).

This whole thing has made me a bit of a hypochondriac, to be honest. I seriously feel some years were shaved off my life. It's been a horrible year for me so far

Also, thank you for the constructive criticism. I need it. I'm not able to talk about this with anyone and sometimes I let my mind get the better of me, so I really appreciate he wake-up calls.

Sure thing. And don't hesitate to share your feelings with your doctor. Tell him/her how freaked out you are, and that you think it might be chlamydia or gonorrhea or whatever. It might be a little embarrassing, but it's their job to help you not only get better, but to also calm your fears for things like this.

Again, I'm sure everything will be fine. Don't let one mistake ruin your year/life. Just try to use all of this as a learning experience. You don't need to be afraid of sex or whatever, you just need to be a little more careful next time. (which I'm sure you will be, if you ever decide to have sex again. XD)

 

[Nlroh]

Side note: does anyone else her get cold sores? I'm trying to figure out how to live with my new condition. I seriously feel like I can never even kiss someone ever again since they can be passed even without visible sores.....which is how I got it I believe, but this isn't common. The ONLY saving grace for me with this is that about 50-80% of all people have this virus, but many (most?) are asymptomatic.

I've got cold sores since I was like 2 or 3 years old. A lot of people get them, it's pretty common; the thing is most of them have only a few outbreaks when they're young and then they never get them again. I still get one like once a year or something...
To be honest, there is nothing you can do about it, take acyclovir when you feel like you're about to get one.

 

[DR2K]

So shifting away from the hook up life and into dating world feels wierd. The good kind. Just wish the datable ones would work out a little more, lol.

 

[Tntnnbltn]

Are you really sure it doesn't grow back to normal? Have you asked your doctor about that? Maybe something can be done, just make sure it's not too late and ask as soon as possible.

Btw in search of an answer of Google I saw some pics of penises with a removed frenulum. It's not that bad, I don't think I would care and I'm very picky when it comes to dicks. Also from what I've read it should grow back to normal! So definitely ask your doctor about that.

The doctor didn't really have a lot of information to give me. :-/ just basically keep it clean, it should heal itself, if it swells or gets infected go to doctor or emergency.

With the foreskin partially retracted theres a triangle wedge gap in the frenulum where it tore, and the inside of the tear is red at the moment, but I assume that will end up skin colored once it fully heals up. On the optimistic side, I haven't had the guts to fully retract the foreskin yet, but it might not be noticeable when it's all the way retracted.

 

[Fantastical]

So... biohazard symbol tattooed on a guy means he's HIV+, correct?

I ask because I just saw a video of a guy blowing a guy with that tattoo. Made me feel even grosser than I already do while watching porn.

 

[Sofo]

So... biohazard symbol tattooed on a guy means he's HIV+, correct?

I ask because I just saw a video of a guy blowing a guy with that tattoo. Made me feel even grosser than I already do while watching porn.

Yeah, that's pretty disgusting (not the fact that he's positive, but the fact that they would risk their lives). Apparently there's a subculture of people "wanting" to get infected, too. I read it on the bara imageboard once. I knew there were fetishes for everything, but that takes the cock cake!

 

[Bel Marduk]

Yeah, that's pretty disgusting (not the fact that he's positive, but the fact that they would risk their lives). Apparently there's a subculture of people "wanting" to get infected, too. I read it on the bara imageboard once. I knew there were fetishes for everything, but that takes the cock cake!

I've read magazine articles about this, too... very strange but I don't know of anybody in person who is like this.. so it might just be sensationalism.. please just be sensationalism..

 

[Fantastical]

I've read magazine articles about this, too... very strange but I don't know of anybody in person who is like this.. so it might just be sensationalism.. please just be sensationalism..

Yeah I was thinking it was largely sensationalism but it wouldn't surprise me if there is a VERY small subculture of people like this.

In other news... I just saw Perez Hilton lost a bunch of weight. He honestly looks pretty good now. Still hate him.

 

[Mr_Zombie]

So... biohazard symbol tattooed on a guy means he's HIV+, correct?

That's true? Good to know, because I remember that back when I was nuts about Resident Evil series I always wanted a biohazard symbol tattoo (fortunately, that was just a childish wish that was never fulfilled).

 

[Alrus]

So... biohazard symbol tattooed on a guy means he's HIV+, correct?

I've never heard of this. It's a pretty common tattoo (amongst people who don't have much ideas for original ones that is) too so I don't think it means anything.

The doctor didn't really have a lot of information to give me. :-/ just basically keep it clean, it should heal itself, if it swells or gets infected go to doctor or emergency.

With the foreskin partially retracted theres a triangle wedge gap in the frenulum where it tore, and the inside of the tear is red at the moment, but I assume that will end up skin colored once it fully heals up. On the optimistic side, I haven't had the guts to fully retract the foreskin yet, but it might not be noticeable when it's all the way retracted.

I wouldn't worry too much, it shouldn't be too noticeable when it's healed up. A friend of mine broke his and and as far as I recall his girlfriend never complained about his penis looking weird afterward.

 

[Lucario]

So, um, since gaygaf is full of attractive young gay dudes, I was wondering if anyone else....

Spoiler

Cam4 is proving to be more fun than working at dunkin donuts to get through college.

 

[Tntnnbltn]

I wouldn't worry too much, it shouldn't be too noticeable when it's healed up. A friend of mine broke his and and as far as I recall his girlfriend never complained about his penis looking weird afterward.

That's good to know.

I tried retracting the foreskin today to give things a well-needed clean, but doing so re-opened the tear a little bit and it started bleeding a little bit. And that was after 48 hours heal time. I can clean the wound itself fine, but it's going to be difficult cleaning underneath the glans without re-opening the frenulum tear each time.

 

[lenovox1]

So, um, since gaygaf is full of attractive young gay dudes, I was wondering if anyone else....

Spoiler

Cam4 is proving to be more fun than working at dunkin donuts to get through college.

I did a few things there before they had a way you could tip people. That would have been 3 or 4 years ago? You'll get no objections from me about a little dittling for extra cash if you were already going to do it without cameras for free.

 

[AceBandage]

So, um, since gaygaf is full of attractive young gay dudes, I was wondering if anyone else....

Spoiler

Cam4 is proving to be more fun than working at dunkin donuts to get through college.

Wait, you can get money for it?
Craziness.

 

[Tntnnbltn]

Hey, you know all that worry stuff about the frenulum? You can ignore that. Seriously.

Spoiler

Had another go at retracting the foreskin and it went fine this time. I then spent 90 minutes in the shower giving it a test run. Turns out my new penis isn't 'damaged penis', it's 'new and improved penis'. Frenulum is less tight, and that means the foreskin can be pulled lower than it used to, particularly when erect. Also, the tissue where the tear was isn't sore at all. In fact it is unbelievably sensitive (in a good way). Felt like discovering masturbation again.

Speaking of which, it's healed up enough to masturbate again. Twice. In five minutes. (I'm not good at the whole abstaining thing)

 

[moniker]

So... biohazard symbol tattooed on a guy means he's HIV+, correct?

I ask because I just saw a video of a guy blowing a guy with that tattoo. Made me feel even grosser than I already do while watching porn.

Most likely, yes. You see it pop up in sleazy bareback porn from time to time.

 

[Bel Marduk]

Hey, you know all that worry stuff about the frenulum? You can ignore that. Seriously.

Spoiler

Had another go at retracting the foreskin and it went fine this time. I then spent 90 minutes in the shower giving it a test run. Turns out my new penis isn't 'damaged penis', it's 'new and improved penis'. Frenulum is less tight, and that means the foreskin can be pulled lower than it used to, particularly when erect. Also, the tissue where the tear was isn't sore at all. In fact it is unbelievably sensitive (in a good way). Felt like discovering masturbation again.

Speaking of which, it's healed up enough to masturbate again. Twice. In five minutes. (I'm not good at the whole abstaining thing)

Wow... that's really the best possible outcome!! Congrats on a new day!