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Just say you're in their behind. When they look at you funny crack up completely. They'll either fall for you and get out of the kitchen quickly.
 
okno said:
Speaking of PDA, last weekend was the first time I was genuinely fearful for my safety. My boyfriend is in Alexandria, VA for work, and he refused to allow me to hold his hand or put my arm around him when we walked around town. Gay bashings are apparently common down there, or at least far more common than where we live in NYC. He wouldn't even let me put my hand on his knee in a cab!
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Yeah, my ex lived in Virginia and said there's actually a really bad side to DC. Or around DC. I can't really remember. I just took away that the nation's capital had a lot of issues despite being the nation's capital.

Though, I was under the impression that the core was safer... but more expensive.

AceBandage said:
Hmmm, is there a place to vent about a non-traditional relationship that doesn't make it seem like I'm grabbing for attention?
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This is the place for non-traditional relationships!

sphinx said:
you should probably change places with me. You being Bi, you could play the straight guy card for a while and then when everyone is with a girl at a bar, you can tell anyone of them " You know, being with such a hot girl right now makes me say weird things, "I wanna suck your cock" for example, kinda weird, huh?."
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Damn!

I've never even thought about that. You are one clever human head on a lioness' body. Think I should actually try this?

TheSeks said:
Just say you're in their behind. When they look at you funny crack up completely. They'll either fall for you and get out of the kitchen quickly.
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Seks has the moves. Should I be taking notes?
 
BeesEight said:
Yeah, my ex lived in Virginia and said there's actually a really bad side to DC. Or around DC. I can't really remember. I just took away that the nation's capital had a lot of issues despite being the nation's capital.

Though, I was under the impression that the core was safer... but more expensive.



This is the place for non-traditional relationships!
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There are places in DC that are so bad off you shouldn't really go for any reason. Fairfax and Alexandria are fairly progressive.. the rest of Virginia (outside of Richmond, parts of Norfolk) is the same as West Virginia.
 
BeesEight said:
Damn!
I've never even thought about that. You are one clever human head on a lioness' body. Think I should actually try this?
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The line was inspired by a film. If I remember correctly, 2 straight couples, the girls go somewhere, all 4 had been drinking, and the one guy says "man, I am drunk" and the other one responds "after having sex with my girl, I'd take you and french kiss you until you are drunk of it too". something out of nowehere and passionate, and the other guy jumped right in and proceeded to kiss him with passion, it was like magic, cool and hot at the same time.
 
AceBandage said:
Haha, part of the reason I asked here. It's just, complicated. I've already been yelled at once in this thread.
>_>
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Don't worry; if you get yelled at I'll shoo them away.

TheSeks said:
Dragonlife, you're coming to PS3 in two weeks right?

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In two weeks? No :( Who is that, anyway? And was it a promo video where the GIF came from? If so, link me!
 
AceBandage said:
Haha, part of the reason I asked here. It's just, complicated. I've already been yelled at once in this thread.
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Meh, I don't let that stop me from boring people with my personal details. Go for it.

sphinx said:
The line was inspired by a film. If I remember correctly, 2 straight couples, the girls go somewhere, all 4 had been drinking, and the one guy says "man, I am drunk" and the other one responds "after having sex with my girl, I'd take you and french kiss you until you are drunk of it too". something out of nowehere and passionate, and the other guy jumped right in and proceeded to kiss him with passion, it was like magic, cool and hot at the same time.
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I'd still own it. Though if it doesn't work, I'm totally blaming you.
 
(not sure if this offtopicness is allowed, just ignore if it's OffT material)

what person from the videogame industry you guys think is the hottest? if you got the chance to get some luvin from just one of those guys, either journalist or developer or anayst or anything, who would that be?

I t is rare to me to feel attracted to asians but there's is one gif with Hideki Kamiya reaching to the ground with one hand (anyone has it??) ... it impressed me.

I always thought Matt cassamassina was hot as well, way to straight to actually care but he was a cute white boy.

mmh, well there's two of'em.

oh, and Cliff with the mega weapon of massive destruction is hot as well, that can't be argued against.
 
To start things off, I turn 27 this week. Not so big a deal, really. I'm in better shape than I was 10 years ago, by far. But it does play a bit into my need to post this somewhere, and GAF is a bit more "understanding" than my friends (I love them, but it's hard to talk about a lot of things with them). I had made a goal for myself last year to find someone, and I did. However, it wasn't meant to be.

Anyway, I met this wonderful girl. We hit it off pretty well. Talked a lot, went out, yadda yadda. Normal (IE boring) stuff. This went on a couple months. I really fell for her, but there was one catch, I suppose. She was transgender (pre-op, had actually just started HRT about half a year prior). This didn't bother me, really, because she was pretty awesome. Liked a lot of what I did, and was fun to just be around. However, it all came with another problem, in that she was living with her ex still (long story, basically he was kind of a douche and was really distant to her once he found out, blah blah). Anywho, she needed a place to stay for a week (because of el douche), so I said of course. It was great. We spent basically every second I wasn't at work together. Well, week ended, we went back to how it was before. It was going ok, until... she had to move. Family problems (another long story, and I'd rather not get in to it, since it isn't as important).

We tried the long distance thing, and it was ok for a bit. Her birthday was during it, and I think that was kind of the turning point for everything. After that she seemed sadder, and more distant (even forgetting her meds). And then I get this heart wrenching voice mail about how she couldn't stand to be apart. I sadly couldn't go to her (being pretty much broke at the time) and it just tore me up inside. So, we had a long talk on the phone, and after a few hours, we decided it would be best if we broke it off. It was awful. I felt so powerless. I was a wreck for the next week. And even now it's still something I think about every day.

Anyway, I dunno. There's probably more, but I'm just not in the mood and I really don't like to do these things. I try and keep my real life out of GAF as much as possible. I don't really expect anything from this. Nothing's going to change, and I'm not looking for sympathy. I just... really needed to get it out in some, and figured what the fuck.
 
sphinx said:
(not sure if this offtopicness is allowed, just ignore if it's OffT material)

what person from the videogame industry you guys think is the hottest? if you got the chance to get some luvin from just one of those guys, either journalist or developer or anayst or anything, who would that be?
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Yoji Shinkawa, Shuyo Murata and Hideo Kojima
 
sphinx said:
what person from the videogame industry you guys think is the hottest? if you got the chance to get some luvin from just one of those guys, either journalist or developer or anayst or anything, who would that be?
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Masahiro Sakurai.
 
sphinx said:
what person from the videogame industry you guys think is the hottest? if you got the chance to get some luvin from just one of those guys, either journalist or developer or anayst or anything, who would that be?
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Gabe Newell.

But serious answer - I think the only person I've ever had a thought about was Jon Shafer. Too bad his game was kinda meh.
 
AceBandage said:
To start things off, I turn 27 this week. Not so big a deal, really. I'm in better shape than I was 10 years ago, by far. But it does play a bit into my need to post this somewhere, and GAF is a bit more "understanding" than my friends (I love them, but it's hard to talk about a lot of things with them). I had made a goal for myself last year to find someone, and I did. However, it wasn't meant to be.

Anyway, I met this wonderful girl. We hit it off pretty well. Talked a lot, went out, yadda yadda. Normal (IE boring) stuff. This went on a couple months. I really fell for her, but there was one catch, I suppose. She was transgender (pre-op, had actually just started HRT about half a year prior). This didn't bother me, really, because she was pretty awesome. Liked a lot of what I did, and was fun to just be around. However, it all came with another problem, in that she was living with her ex still (long story, basically he was kind of a douche and was really distant to her once he found out, blah blah). Anywho, she needed a place to stay for a week (because of el douche), so I said of course. It was great. We spent basically every second I wasn't at work together. Well, week ended, we went back to how it was before. It was going ok, until... she had to move. Family problems (another long story, and I'd rather not get in to it, since it isn't as important).

We tried the long distance thing, and it was ok for a bit. Her birthday was during it, and I think that was kind of the turning point for everything. After that she seemed sadder, and more distant (even forgetting her meds). And then I get this heart wrenching voice mail about how she couldn't stand to be apart. I sadly couldn't go to her (being pretty much broke at the time) and it just tore me up inside. So, we had a long talk on the phone, and after a few hours, we decided it would be best if we broke it off. It was awful. I felt so powerless. I was a wreck for the next week. And even now it's still something I think about every day.

Anyway, I dunno. There's probably more, but I'm just not in the mood and I really don't like to do these things. I try and keep my real life out of GAF as much as possible. I don't really expect anything from this. Nothing's going to change, and I'm not looking for sympathy. I just... really needed to get it out in some, and figured what the fuck.
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Damn, really sorry to hear that, AB. At least you guys ended it on good terms, right? Will you remain friends, but are taking a small break right now so you don't get emotional?
 
dragonlife said:
Damn, really sorry to hear that, AB. At least you guys ended it on good terms, right? Will you remain friends, but are taking a small break right now so you don't get emotional?
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We ended as good as you can when two hearts are broken, I suppose.
We've kept in some contact, but, it's not exactly the same by any stretch.
 
AceBandage said:
We tried the long distance thing, and it was ok for a bit. Her birthday was during it, and I think that was kind of the turning point for everything. After that she seemed sadder, and more distant (even forgetting her meds). And then I get this heart wrenching voice mail about how she couldn't stand to be apart. I sadly couldn't go to her (being pretty much broke at the time) and it just tore me up inside. So, we had a long talk on the phone, and after a few hours, we decided it would be best if we broke it off. It was awful. I felt so powerless. I was a wreck for the next week. And even now it's still something I think about every day.
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Exactly this happened to my 4 year long relationship, 3 months ago: Distance, which in many cases is hard to overcome. But think of it this way, if the love was so strong, then why didn't it survived the long distance phase? it really gives you something to think. I had another relationship in which we were in long distance for 2 years, seeing each other for a couple of weeks every 3 months.. it really puzzles me, why did that relationship lasted up to 6 years after 2 long distance years? and this other relationship couldn't survive more than 3 months once distance became a reality??

answer to yourself: why didn't it survive? and according to that answer, you can either think of how it could be brought back to life or leave it behind for good.


neojubei said:
Yoji Shinkawa, Shuyo Murata and Hideo Kojima
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kinda hot, personality and charm are present (and the guy is 40 and looks 30, woah)

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no.

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hell no

Nlroh said:
Masahiro Sakurai.
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this guy is SOOOOOOOO cute, I really don't like him sexually but damn, is like a litte asian puppy to feed and give love and cuddling XD so yes and no

BeesEight said:
Gabe Newell.
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well, he has a strong body and actually no belly (or proportional to his shoulders and arms, which is a big plus in my book), just like a strong tree, he does have a weird face though. You like big men and won't admit it ;) it's o.k, I'd do him to. lol
 
AceBandage said:
We ended as good as you can when two hearts are broken, I suppose.
We've kept in some contact, but, it's not exactly the same by any stretch.
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It sounds pretty rough, especially if she's already begun to move on. You can make "just friends" work, but I would probably suggest taking a little break from her if you want to go that route anyway. Sometimes you just need a little time for things to get better.
 
sphinx said:
what person from the videogame industry you guys think is the hottest? if you got the chance to get some luvin from just one of those guys, either journalist or developer or anayst or anything, who would that be?
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Kevin Pereira. I decided to look him up on google images and there are some hot sumowrestling pics of him out there.
 
sphinx said:
Exactly this happened to my 4 year long relationship, 3 months ago: Distance, which in many cases is hard to overcome. But think of it this way, if the love was so strong, then why didn't it survived the long distance phase? it really gives you something to think. I had another relationship in which we were in long distance for 2 years, seeing each other for a couple of weeks every 3 months.. it really puzzles me, why did that relationship lasted up to 6 years after 2 long distance years? and this other relationship couldn't survive more than 3 months once distance became a reality??

answer to yourself: why didn't it survive? and according to that answer, you can either think of how it could be brought back to life or leave it behind for good.
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Oh, I know exactly why. She needed me, and I couldn't be there, and it wasn't fair to make her wait. It's not so simple as "well, we can hold out" there's a lot more to it, that I'd rather not go in to because it's a lot more personal.
BeesEight said:
It sounds pretty rough, especially if she's already begun to move on. You can make "just friends" work, but I would probably suggest taking a little break from her if you want to go that route anyway. Sometimes you just need a little time for things to get better.
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That's what I'm hoping for, but, we'll see.
 
sphinx said:
what person from the videogame industry you guys think is the hottest? if you got the chance to get some luvin from just one of those guys, either journalist or developer or anayst or anything, who would that be?
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Ken Levine from Irrational:

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Man, is that guy handsome!

Edit: more awesome pics of him:

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Weird thing is, a lot of images are from Gaygamer.net so I'm not the only one I think :)
 
Stabbie said:
Kevin Pereira. I decided to look him up on google images and there are some hot sumowrestling pics of him out there.
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I'l like to know, is there some sort of agreement with the mods not to post pics here? any, at all?

I know NSFW pics are not allowed here, I have watched past threads crash and burn but I though industry guys in regular pics would be harmless, they appear all the time on the gaming side. who knows..
 
sphinx said:
I'l like to know, is there some sort of agreement with the mods not to post pics here? any, at all?
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I'm pretty sure the rules are that they have to be safe enough for a google search. Just keep it clean and you'll be fine.

Edit - but I'm too lazy to link to my picks.
 
sphinx said:
I'l like to know, is there some sort of agreement with the mods not to post pics here? any, at all?

I know NSFW pics are not allowed here, I have watched past threads crash and burn but I though industry guys in regular pics would be harmless, they appear all the time on the gaming side. who knows..
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Bare ass pics are not allowed on GAF and those sumo wrestling pics show his bare ass.
 
7threst said:
Ken Levine from Irrational
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it is amazing, he looks awful in the first pic. the other two you added are very hot though, like 2 different worlds.

AceBandage said:
Oh, I know exactly why. She needed me, and I couldn't be there, and it wasn't fair to make her wait. It's not so simple as "well, we can hold out" there's a lot more to it, that I'd rather not go in to because it's a lot more personal.
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I don't want to sound insensitive to your situation.... and forgive me if I am talking withoug having a look at the whole picture but since you seem to want some sort of reply from us, I'll say it: she "needing you" and crying and moaning about it doesn't sound like real, love and understanding on her part. I missed and cried for my partners whenever distance was turning into something too hard to keep up with but I stood there cause I loved them and believed in us. and why is your YOUR fault, that you couldn't go to her? her doesn't having money or time to visit you is as much to blame.

I don't know man, and sorry again if this is not the way it actually is but that's what I can say from the infos you are giving us.
 
sphinx said:
it is amazing, he looks awful in the first pic. the other two you added are like HOT! like 2 different worlds.
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Haha, I agree! I didn't realize at first that the first pic isn't all that great so that's why I edited and put two more pics in :)

But yeah, I'm more into bearish kind of guys and he fits the profile perfectly. That said, I think Warren Spector has something cute too.
 
AceBandage said:
To start things off, I turn 27 this week. Not so big a deal, really. I'm in better shape than I was 10 years ago, by far. But it does play a bit into my need to post this somewhere, and GAF is a bit more "understanding" than my friends (I love them, but it's hard to talk about a lot of things with them). I had made a goal for myself last year to find someone, and I did. However, it wasn't meant to be.

Anyway, I met this wonderful girl. We hit it off pretty well. Talked a lot, went out, yadda yadda. Normal (IE boring) stuff. This went on a couple months. I really fell for her, but there was one catch, I suppose. She was transgender (pre-op, had actually just started HRT about half a year prior). This didn't bother me, really, because she was pretty awesome. Liked a lot of what I did, and was fun to just be around. However, it all came with another problem, in that she was living with her ex still (long story, basically he was kind of a douche and was really distant to her once he found out, blah blah). Anywho, she needed a place to stay for a week (because of el douche), so I said of course. It was great. We spent basically every second I wasn't at work together. Well, week ended, we went back to how it was before. It was going ok, until... she had to move. Family problems (another long story, and I'd rather not get in to it, since it isn't as important).

We tried the long distance thing, and it was ok for a bit. Her birthday was during it, and I think that was kind of the turning point for everything. After that she seemed sadder, and more distant (even forgetting her meds). And then I get this heart wrenching voice mail about how she couldn't stand to be apart. I sadly couldn't go to her (being pretty much broke at the time) and it just tore me up inside. So, we had a long talk on the phone, and after a few hours, we decided it would be best if we broke it off. It was awful. I felt so powerless. I was a wreck for the next week. And even now it's still something I think about every day.

Anyway, I dunno. There's probably more, but I'm just not in the mood and I really don't like to do these things. I try and keep my real life out of GAF as much as possible. I don't really expect anything from this. Nothing's going to change, and I'm not looking for sympathy. I just... really needed to get it out in some, and figured what the fuck.
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Sorry to hear that, those situations are pretty much always lose-lose. I had two relationships in high school that ended because of distance. :\
 
I'm pretty much one bad date away from going back to women. (the advantage to being bisexual) They're much easier to get along with, but the type of women I end up with are usualy too crazy or too stupid. Same with men really.
 
DR2K said:
I'm pretty much one bad date away from going back to women. (the advantage to being bisexual) They're much easier to get along with, but the type of women I end up with are usualy too crazy or too stupid. Same with men really.
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Oh ho ho...
 
Finally. Tired of the relationship thread. Hearing constant lovey dovey success stories, while my ass is still single. Depressing.
 
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