Not sure if I'm a "hot" twink or anything but I am sure as hell into bigger and fatter guys, myself being slender with no fat at all. My boyfriend for example, who weighs way more than I do.
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Not sure if I'm a "hot" twink or anything but I am sure as hell into bigger and fatter guys, myself being slender with no fat at all. My boyfriend for example, who weighs way more than I do.
Pics go go. Well it's good to know some are out there just gotta find them I guess.
You and me both.
Hehe, only have this pic of me in kilt here at the moment:
But yeah, there is a lot of luck involved meeting the guy of your dreams, but I really do believe opposites attract.
Hehe, only have this pic of me in kilt here at the moment:
But yeah, there is a lot of luck involved meeting the guy of your dreams, but I really do believe opposites attract.
You are cute! I hope my luck turns better then heh.
Phonomezer
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Ubisoft seems to hire some hot pieces of ass tbh.
Thanks
I'm sure you'll find someone!
LP Pharand from Ubisoft
Wow, that guy is handsome!
Dead Prince
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fat men causes dramatic weather changes.
This is so true.
LP Pharand from Ubisoft
Niiice.
I remember I saw somewhere in GAF about the new Spider Man game with time travel and stuff, the director of that game was really sexy. I don't remember his name though. In fact I wish I had bookmarked that trailer.
GasProblem
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And my mom told one of my aunts I was gay a couple of weeks ago. I just got a card from her. It says "It must've been a difficult time for you. We don't care what you are, we just care who you are. You was, are and will still be a beautiful, nice and sweet man. Enjoy life and love. Signed my aunt and uncle"
I must admit that I did get a bit teary eyed, haha. Feels really, really good though.
And my mom told one of my aunts I was gay a couple of weeks ago. I just got a card from her. It says "It must've been a difficult time for you. We don't care what you are, we just care who you are. You was, are and will still be a beautiful, nice and sweet man. Enjoy life and love. Signed my aunt and uncle"
I must admit that I did get a bit teary eyed, haha. Feels really, really good though.
They have Congratulations on Coming Out cards now?
That is really sweet by the way.
AceBandage
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These are 100% real and from Hallmark.
And awesome news GP.
Ahahaha!
Here I thought I was being clever since the message seemed clearly written by the aunt and uncle.
(I would not want one of these... ever.)
GasProblem
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Hahaha. No, it's not one of those Hallmark cards
. It just says "Be yourself, there are already enough others" on the front.Glad I could be of service.
I'm not sure I want to reveal all in here, maybe I should take a more classy approach to posting in this new thread.
But what the hell:
I've given a guy a handy (to completion on two separate occasions) during art class in school - and got reprimanded for it a week later; gave a guy head on a train with other people on the same carriage (but they couldn't see, and I hadn't seen him in 5 weeks); I've had sex with my ex in some public bathrooms and a church; I had sex with a fuckbuddy of mine on a beach and in a rose garden (on several occasions) after he had been doing some night photography (we also used to strip in the park or go skinny dipping); and I had sex with 'hot lawyer' in his upstairs open plan kitchen/sitting room with wall to wall windows (his neighbours would have been able to see everything).
I do think I am a bit of an exhibitionist, but I wouldn't call it a fetish as those situations just happened organically - it's more fun to be easy going about sex and try new things given the chance.
Well the aforementioned fuck buddy was a friend's ex-boyfriend, so I am capable of seeing my friends partners in a sexual way. I knew him before they got together though.
The time I had a threesome with two guys was when I was hanging with the drummer in my band at the time at a house party, and this friend of his was there. The conversation moved to sexuality and I ended up kissing a load of my friends. Drummer took me outside for a proper kiss, said he felt nothing, but then went in for some more. The other guy joined us, sitting on the back door porch, drinking vodka and making out. I had one in each hand. Then... we went upstairs and I lost my butt virginity. XD
I was involved with my ex and her girlfriend a few times, but they used to have sex with me in the room all the time. I think it was a bit wasted on me, ha! But a few times I used to join in, as I knew my ex thought it was really hot. It's quite an interesting couple's activity to both be pleasing the same person at the same time.
Then... we went upstairs and I lost my butt virginity. XDI was involved with my ex and her girlfriend a few times, but they used to have sex with me in the room all the time. I think it was a bit wasted on me, ha! But a few times I used to join in, as I knew my ex thought it was really hot. It's quite an interesting couple's activity to both be pleasing the same person at the same time.
Oh we'd been talking with a friend about porn and fetishes the other day so I think that's where this came from. We're both very open when it comes to talking about sex so such subjects have a tendency to come up IRL.
michaeltraps
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My friends bought me one when I came out to them. I was actually very surprised and completely touched.
Mystic Theurge
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How do you guys deal with loneliness?
Those are some lovely stories, GothPunk
*Fans self*
Those are some lovely stories, GothPunk
*Fans self*
game, read,
smoke weed
Yeah great stories, Gothpunk. Your boyfriend must enjoy love making from all that "experience" you bring to the table
IRC mostly.
Sorry to hear that. How would you describe the men you typically agree to go on a date with? Maybe you need to give guys that you'd normally not give a 2nd glance a try for a change
Mystic Theurge
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I do most of those things--
except the weed
Seeing happy couples can really hit home sometimes. I don't even feel like I should be dating until I can start passing as a woman so it just kills me.
Exercise is my favourite way. I live near the sea so I used to go for long walks down to the seafront to just appreciate the outdoors and get some fresh air.
I think a lot of the conventional ways to deal with loneliness are usually about distracting yourself, when I think it would be better for ourselves if we can enjoy being alone, enjoy having that time to spend on ourselves. However, I guess this only works if you have a balance between alone time and time spent with friends.
I would say to try and meet new people, join a group centred around a shared interest or something like that. You're only going to get out of life what you put into it.
Well I didn't include any of the dodgy stories.
Like the time I was giving head to a guy I had been seeing and he had neglected to mention his ability to come many times in a row. It was hot (I love giving head), but after five times in a row I just had to have a rest, my jaw was so tired. He also refused to kiss me afterwards, after all the work I had done! What a bastard.
What can I say, I'm always trying to be the best lover I can be. Honestly though, sometimes I think my sex drive is a bit too much for him. I mean, I want him pretty much all the time.
WINK WINK NUDGE NUDGE
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And how! Someone lives quite the adventurous life. I've been looking for someone to live vicariously through!
You don't get to comment, you've got a boyfriend.
That does sound a bit dodgy. And a lot of work! You must have been at that for quite awhile. I don't know if I would have been able to do that since I'm not a huge fan of the... erm... consumption portion of the work.
That must be hard. How ever does he cope?
Mystic Theurge
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This. I don't need to be with someone all the time, but I feel like I spend a disproportionate amount of the time alone. Like it's in the norm for me to go a day without talking to people in real life. It's been this way for a while, and I'm getting tired of it.
I am trying to meet new people, but apparently people don't want to meet me.
I hope you got *something* for all that dedication
You had sex right after this didn't you? >_>
CHEEZMO
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Well, gonna go see the Avengers today.
Still not seen it.
This. I don't need to be with someone all the time, but I feel like I spend a disproportionate amount of the time alone. Like it's in the norm for me to go a day without talking to people in real life. It's been this way for a while, and I'm getting tired of it.
I am trying to meet new people, but apparently people don't want to meet me.
If you're trying to just meet friends things are a lot easier. Are you in school because it's really easy to meet people there.
CHEEZMO™;38098023 said:
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Coppertracks
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I've actually had an ex complain about my sex drive. Apparently wanting it on a least once a day basis was too much (and we didn't see each other everyday).
Of course I usually wanted it 2 or 3 times
Guys, girls, I need some advice.
So I went out this weekend, met this guy and his friends and ended up spending the night with him, sleeping, I mean literally sleeping, we didn't do anything, at his friend's house. I tell him I like things slow, trying to tell him that it was a night one thing (I was also very drunk that night, open bar), the guy however acts like he wants us to get married, maybe I'm exaggerating, but he gave me that vibe all the time. I don't know what is it with Brazilian men (and women for that matter), they either make out with you randomly on a bar or want to marry you the next day, is like there's no in between for them. Certainly the language barrier has been a problem, the thing is that he keeps calling me and calling me, I don't want to be rude, but also don't want to go on a date with him, for now. I don't know if just not answering is the best thing to do in these situations. this is so weird, and uncomfortable.
So I went out this weekend, met this guy and his friends and ended up spending the night with him, sleeping, I mean literally sleeping, we didn't do anything, at his friend's house. I tell him I like things slow, trying to tell him that it was a night one thing (I was also very drunk that night, open bar), the guy however acts like he wants us to get married, maybe I'm exaggerating, but he gave me that vibe all the time. I don't know what is it with Brazilian men (and women for that matter), they either make out with you randomly on a bar or want to marry you the next day, is like there's no in between for them. Certainly the language barrier has been a problem, the thing is that he keeps calling me and calling me, I don't want to be rude, but also don't want to go on a date with him, for now. I don't know if just not answering is the best thing to do in these situations. this is so weird, and uncomfortable.
Mystic Theurge
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Friendship isn't my first priority.
And I am in school, but I don't think it's a good environment to meet gay guys.
Mystic Theurge
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Communication is key. Tell him (can you speak the language?) how you feel.
It is weird but really, what Mystic Theurge says, talk and communication is key here. It almost always is. Just try to explain how you feel.
Yeah I agree, but is always easier said than done. I'm a native spanish speaker, and I've been living in Rio de Janeiro for almost a year, so portuguese should be no problem, however it is, I speak it, and I understand it, but I always feel I'm not communicating the ideas I want to communicate. This has made me realize that languages aren't really about words, they are about culture, and the culture is different. Everyone I know from here has already married and divorced before they are 28, is crazy how they handle relationships, for them is all or nothing. I'll try to talk to him though, thanks for hearing me out!
dragonlife
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Nice. Report back!Well, gonna go see the Avengers today.
Bel Marduk
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If you're in high school, then maybe. If you're in college, you're absolutely wrong. Nearly every university has a gay group in it and they almost always have weekly meetings. These groups are usually political in nature but you'll find that most people are there to meet and socialize with other gay people.
Mystic Theurge
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It's a college in the Bronx. Not a good environment.
Bel Marduk
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Uhm.. If you're in NYC, it shouldn't be so difficult to meet people. Are you just incredibly shy?
Mystic Theurge
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I'm more introverted, yes, so it is hard.
Bars, the typical place, aren't really my scene.
Have you tried English?
Wait... you're in NYC and are complaining that you can't find anybody?!
*twitch*
this is way I don't recommend to anyone to go without sex through their lives as singles.
My ex wasn't very experienced and his idea of sex was kissing and masturbating side by side.... I mean...like unexperienced teenagers! the hell? we were men in their early 30's, you can't provide a long term partner with enough plaeasure just by that, can you?
and a gay man in that age bracket claiming " I am actually a bottom, through and through, but have never done that because I am afraid and I don't know if it hurts" should be ashamed of himself. There are dildos, there are boyfriends, there are sex dates, there are carrots and it's your responsability to bring something to the table.
Use a dating website? Find some interest groups? The larger the city the greater the ability to find something that at least interests you. I'm sure there are plenty of gay gaming groups out there that will have members in NYC.
For comparison - the closest thing my town has to a "gay scene" is one bar on Tuesday night has a gay geared evening that I only heard about because a couple of straight people my friend knows go there.
So... you taught him right?
I'm not sure I would be telling every gay guy that they need to get into the hook-up culture so they can get some experience. I'm certainly not greatly experienced in that department. I would think an open mind and willingness is more important than a resume.
Yeah, I know
There are alternatives. I was just responding to people who thought it may be strange not meeting people when you live in NYC
I mean, it can be hard when you are not the typical gaybar kind of guy or something and so not meeting people in person. And let's be honest here, there is still this kind of weird stigma around dating sites. While these sites can provide you with the means of meeting people. I should know. I met my boyfriend through a website and we've been together for almost 10 years now
Yeah, I know
There are alternatives. I was just responding to people who thought it may be strange not meeting people when you live in NYC
I mean, it can be hard when you are not the typical gaybar kind of guy or something and so not meeting people in person. And let's be honest here, there is still this kind of weird stigma around dating sites. While these sites can provide you with the means of meeting people. I should know. I met my boyfriend through a website and we've been together for almost 10 years now
Fair enough, I've just got a little frustration from being stuck in my crappy town for too long.
I have noticed the lingering stigma for meeting people through websites. It's how I met my ex. I think that stigma is dying but given how many people are using it I'm surprised by its longevity.
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