Paranoid, eh? 8-|
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He saw bears and otters and got excited
CHEEZMO
Obsidian fan
Research for a piece of slash fiction I'm writing about some of you.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aUhvUqUwQ60
I go anywhere my otter signal takes me.
Look who's talking about being paranoid?
No paranoia here. It's just something you have to realize and deal with it in your daily internet use.
There is only some much you can do before you start restricting yourself to avoid being tracked.
Stop using Chrome, have multiple mail addresses, always log out, change IP
P), that duck search engine, limit cookies, etc, etc, etc.Most of the time, it isn't worth the trouble when you see, as an unique individual, how unimportant you are, how little they care and how insignificant are the chances of that info to be used against you on a personal level.
I am not saying it's right to track you and sell you, I am totally against it, but one have to stop being paranoid, have fun, live and worry about important things like world peace, E3 and if the Wii U can run UE4 with its 3X performance over the PS360
CHEEZMO
Obsidian fan
I ain't leaking the cast this early.
Tritroid
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Sooo random question boys. I'm seeing a new guy now, and he seems really into us (even though he's young). I'm open to more but he seems to just want fun for now, with hints of something else as we continue, so I'm just going with the flow at the moment.
The problem is he's super tan...like california golden boy tan, with short sandy hair in key places. I, on the other hand, am kinda pale with thick black hair all over. He doesn't seem to have a problem with it, but I feel the need to get tan asap.
I've never been to a tanning bed but that seems like the quickest solution...but also the deadliest? I've heard nothing but bad things regarding these beds, UVA and UBV both, so I'm kind of afraid to try this. How do some of you guys get around this? Fake tans, sun tans, don't care?
The problem is he's super tan...like california golden boy tan, with short sandy hair in key places. I, on the other hand, am kinda pale with thick black hair all over. He doesn't seem to have a problem with it, but I feel the need to get tan asap.
I've never been to a tanning bed but that seems like the quickest solution...but also the deadliest? I've heard nothing but bad things regarding these beds, UVA and UBV both, so I'm kind of afraid to try this. How do some of you guys get around this? Fake tans, sun tans, don't care?
Don't care and I don't want to get skin cancer.
avoid, at all times. It has been confirmed they cause cancer. Don't do something stupid.
I haven't seen you, but I am sure you look better with your white pale skin and black hair than like a rotten orange.
Tritroid
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I agree that white skin can be pretty attractive, on a lot of guys. I'm actually less attracted to guys that are too tan.
The added problem is that I recently went to Arizona and did a lot of hiking, so now I have farmers' tans on various limbs. That coupled with the fact that it's true that unfortunately, tanned skin is seen as more attractive since it's considered a 'healthier' look.
Maybe I should just plan to try and lay out in the sun for a few times for a few days? With sunscreen obviously.
The added problem is that I recently went to Arizona and did a lot of hiking, so now I have farmers' tans on various limbs. That coupled with the fact that it's true that unfortunately, tanned skin is seen as more attractive since it's considered a 'healthier' look.
Maybe I should just plan to try and lay out in the sun for a few times for a few days? With sunscreen obviously.
Mystic Theurge
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Only to some people.
Is there some deeper issue at work here? Do you not feel that you're attractive? Do you think he's going to leave or something?
Tritroid
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No, no real deeper issue. I feel attractive, it's just when I see my skin next to his...I'm REALLY white. It just kinda bugs me is all, and I do kinda think that aspect of me is less attractive. /shrug
AceBandage
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I like creamy white skin.
And tan skin.
Hell, as long as it's smooth, it's good.
And tan skin.
Hell, as long as it's smooth, it's good.
I like creamy white skin.
And tan skin.
Hell, as long as it's smooth, it's good.
This. Although caramel skin that's really smooth is so hot.
Well the dude doesn't mind your pale skin right? So why bother ruining your skin and your health in a tanning booth? Heck maybe he finds you attractive as you are and doesn't want you to change.
CHEEZMO
Obsidian fan
Same.
Mystic Theurge
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Pictures, gentlemen?
Fantastical
Death Prophet
Pale skin can be really hot, especially on guys with jet black hair. I like the contrast.
I like creamy white skin.
And tan skin.
Hell, as long as it's smooth, it's good.
Good...because I have terrible skin!
Requested it.
You should have seen the Dominican guys i saw on the train today. Too bad i could not take pics of them.
VICTORsaurio
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Had awesome sex with the boyfriend today, I think we haven't been this good for a while, though I've been pretty busy in the last few weeks so I think that helped. I lasted a lot (penetration-wise) which is rare but enjoyed every single minute.
He didn't cum though
He didn't cum though
which kind of pisses me off... it takes him ages most of the time, even with my help 
it makes me feel bad sometimes
it makes me feel bad sometimesfind a guy online and ask him to take you out.
Had awesome sex with the boyfriend today, I think we haven't been this good for a while, though I've been pretty busy in the last few weeks so I think that helped. I lasted a lot (penetration-wise) which is rare but enjoyed every single minute.
He didn't cum thoughwhich kind of pisses me off... it takes him ages most of the time, even with my help
How long have y'all been together? Beyond something extreme like Delayed Ejaculation it could be anything from minor intimacy issues to GAF's favorite malady porn desensitization. If its the former it gets better with time.
Reason I bring it up is because it usually take me a lot longer to cum as well. At first I had to finish myself off with my BF, but over time I was able to get more comfortable with him and now he can take care of me just fine
Don't let it get to you, I can guarantee your making him feel amazing lol
Hah, it's true.
That said, abstaining from masturbating for a few days should be able to overcome most those issues unless it is something really serious. You can speak to him about it and, if it's bothering him too, just gently suggest he hold off from helping himself a couple of days before you guys do the deed.
No sadly. Ugh I'd kill for a good date right now.
The gay life sucks for guys like us
IKR? I can make a nice guy laugh alright but actually date me? Nope. Sigh those the breaks.
He didn't cum thoughwhich kind of pisses me off... it takes him ages most of the time, even with my help
some guys don't have much sensitivity in their penises. While medium/large sized penises don't have a problem getting an ejaculation rather quickly, smaller or extra large penises will often find it harder to cum in a reasonable time frame.
The person must try an reach an orgasm through their imagination because the hand (or mouth, ass, vagina, whatever) isn't really doing much and takes some time...
This was my ex exactly. took forever and eventually it hurt the relationship because there was never a chance for a quicky, it was always the 2 hour long session and coming late at night, I wasn't always in the mood to work up a guy for that long. He would still be seeking the orgasm while I couln't even touch my own penis, as I would cum right away, so it was like 40 minutes of me bringing him there, as much as I could, but most of they time, they can't be helped...
Box of Bunnies
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I do tend to prefer the female form (though dudes are nice too) but I actually don't care much for either set of genitals. Vaginas are kinda freaky like some gaping maw and dicks are okay I guess but I've never really thought about it much 'cause it's like "hey, it's a dick, not like I don't see that every day".
Some of them can be nice though I guess.
I know that feeling bro. Sympathetic fist bump.
jeremy70583
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So me and a coworker are becoming close friends really fast. The problem is that I have a crush on him. I recently told him that I was bi, and he's handled it really well, no awkwardness or anything. I'm used to being sexually attracted to some of my friends...but something is different here. I always want to be around him, think of him at night, when I wake up...it's freaking excessive and I can't make it stop. I know we will never be more than friends, but I can't help what I feel. I've considered distancing myself from him to try to get over it. We are coworkers btw, so no matter what I will have to interact with him on a daily basis. I think this is the first time I have felt like this, and don't know what to do.
Feels nice to vent, thanks for reading gaf
Feels nice to vent, thanks for reading gaf
@Sphinx, I don't think the size of the penis has anything to do with how long it takes to acheive orgasm. I'm texbook average and after resolving my intimacy issues as well as confidence problems I can get off no problem with my guy. Anecdotally the guys I've been with who were of modest to small size had no problem getting off either.
Its subjective, but it has more to do with psychological and behavioral habits than anything. If a guy jacks off everyday and uses fantasy more than enjoying the feel then chances are sex is just not going to compare. Getting head just feels wet, and you don't appreciate all the awesome things your guy is doing with his mouth. Topping isn't as fulfilling as it should be and a lot of times you have to finish yourself off. Usually what fixes this is a few days/weeks without masturbation and usually a complete cutoff to porn.
A few months ago I really had to fantasize about something in order to get off, or throw in some assplay to put me on the right track. Now I'm completely on feel and my guy and me usually strive to cum at the same time unless we're going back and forth. YMMV though
Its subjective, but it has more to do with psychological and behavioral habits than anything. If a guy jacks off everyday and uses fantasy more than enjoying the feel then chances are sex is just not going to compare. Getting head just feels wet, and you don't appreciate all the awesome things your guy is doing with his mouth. Topping isn't as fulfilling as it should be and a lot of times you have to finish yourself off. Usually what fixes this is a few days/weeks without masturbation and usually a complete cutoff to porn.
A few months ago I really had to fantasize about something in order to get off, or throw in some assplay to put me on the right track. Now I'm completely on feel and my guy and me usually strive to cum at the same time unless we're going back and forth. YMMV though
Mystic Theurge
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To you guys using online dating: Have you ever been messaging with someone, then all of a sudden they stop replying?
It's happened to me a couple of times recently, and it's way past annoying. >_>
It's happened to me a couple of times recently, and it's way past annoying. >_>
I've done this when they start to get creepy or the conversation becomes forced. But I also only seem to get in conversations with people I'll never be seeing.
I've been saying this since I was about fifteen.
Well, now it's finally true!
I take it as the guy lost interest. Just my opinion.
shanshan310
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So I figured out I'm probably bi, not that it matters too much though since I'm in a stable relationship with a great man. Still feel weird saying it, even though its true. Anyway, um... hi >< I hope its okay if I join in.
Mediterranean/ Asian tan is best tan.
Mediterranean/ Asian tan is best tan.
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