YAAAS! SPILL dat tea, bitch!
Wrong tense, though? He has and shall FOREVER have dat HPV.
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YAAAS! SPILL dat tea, bitch!
Do you need 300 posts to become a full member?
What the hell is going on in that picture?
300 and some length of time. Six months, I think?
umop_3pisdn
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A bum.
Haha maybe
Some people can still get stuff done and lead functional lives but I don't really understand how, because I know that I never could.Cool, post-wise I am almost there. I am not sure how long ago my account was approved though. If they go from your registration date than I would be past six months.
Yeah, I believe it's by registration date. It could be three months though.
i have no idea ignore me
300 posts and 3 months since approval date.
Fantastical
Death Prophet
That doesn't go away. I stopped going to the skype chat(s) this reason. I don't want to know that the bitch has warts. TMI.
I fucking LOVE the nurse on the right side of the pic.
Alcoori = Brock CONFIRMED.
Good thing I'm requesting a ban soon then.
Also every time I've had a boyfriend I barely posted on neogaf anymore. I don't post on neogaf because it's one of my priorities, but because I'm lonely.
runlikehell
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YAAAS! SPILL dat tea, bitch!
Wrong tense, though? He has and shall FOREVER have dat HPV.
The body becomes immune eventually.
I don't see how this is relevant to what I posted?
Too cool Sai. Just stop posting now! ^_^
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I just found out today that Stephen Fry is dating someone in their 20s. There's something kind of depressing about that.
I thought you were trying to say that gaffers who wouldn't date gamers are being hypocrite. Gamers and gaffers are not comparable though.
Bel Marduk
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Not Tinychat, please.
runlikehell
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WAT.
Okay I get it now. Neogaf is a gaming forum bla bla. You've been living under a rock if you don't know a lot of gaffers aren't gamers.
I thought you meant by posting on neogaf nothing more than posting on a forum.
Many members post only in OT and don't care about games.
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it's hard to articulate. It says more about me than it does them. I don't know either party, obviously, but I don't like what it represents, symbolically. Which is super selfish and kind of unfair.
SpaceBridge
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I'm finding that I'm playing less games as im getting old. Other than portables I suppose.
Hecatonchires Custom
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Sorry if I don't post every day to keep ya'll updated on the color of my butt hair or how many guys I've done in 15 minutes last night ;(
I'll see you and raise you...
Wow!! where is this i need to go there.
Wow. And I cannot even get a date at 30
SpaceBridge
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Lmao.....that's not what I meant. But touché nonetheless.
Btw, gonna be in Montreal from tomorow until Saturday. You gonna be in the city during that time?
There isn't a dedicated thread. You might want to try the Transgaf thread, as I recall somebody talking about crossdressing in there. Hopefully nobody takes offense to it.
rukland
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Ok I will try over there, just don't want to piss anyone off and end up banned.
MyAbsolution
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Im not exactly old..
but I find myself playing less games because I feel games these days are way too casual and shit (in general). I don't wanna play a game for 12 hours then trade it back in because there is no gameplay depth.
As long as you're polite about it and admit that you're not sure where to direct your post, I don't think you'll offend anybody.
I don't see why you wouldn't be able to talk about it in this thread or why you would get banned for doing so.
Mystic Theurge
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I don't believe anybody in this thread has talked about cross dressing before, whereas if you do a search for the phrase the Transgaf thread is the first to appear.
You're free to post your questions here though rukland. I just don't know how much first-hand advice you're going to receive.
Sigh i wish i lived in LA, but i would probably be worse off than i am now.
Hecatonchires Custom
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Prolly not, sry. I have to help my dad at his job all week and I got an exam to prepare for Monday :/
dragonlife
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I'm pretty sure Mumei isn't the only gay mod.
Bel Marduk
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There's a Transgender thread, but I don't think there's one for crossdressers.
Yeah, I believe White Man is as well.
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rukland
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Well I am going to give here a shot first. So I am going to start putting my thoughts into words. The big thing is that my wife has no idea that I have acted on some of the Bi feelings I have had.
Mind you it was pre-marriage but I am not sure I can stay away from being with a man again. We do have pillow talk where she seems totally cool with telling me stories about another man coming into our bed. But when I talk about it away from there she kinda clams up.
I love her to death but I can't shake the desire to be with a man again.
She knows about my collection of women's clothes but I am not sure she fully understands why I have them. And to be honest either do I sometimes. They can make for a great role playing aid with her, but at other times I wear them and think about what it would be like to be the sub role to another man.
How do I go about telling her that I really do want to act out some of these things? No matter what I want her with me if it happens, but I am sure that is going to be an issue. Ugh just such a confusing place to be at.
We have been with each other for 15+ years, and this year marks 11 years of marriage. Am I reaching back to old experiences because I am bored (I would like to think not) or is there more there. These are all things I keep asking myself.
And thanks GAF for having this awesome thread I have lurked forever but just now gotten the courage to post here. Everything I read is so nice to see that people are not quick to judge but rather to help.
Mind you it was pre-marriage but I am not sure I can stay away from being with a man again. We do have pillow talk where she seems totally cool with telling me stories about another man coming into our bed. But when I talk about it away from there she kinda clams up.
I love her to death but I can't shake the desire to be with a man again.
She knows about my collection of women's clothes but I am not sure she fully understands why I have them. And to be honest either do I sometimes. They can make for a great role playing aid with her, but at other times I wear them and think about what it would be like to be the sub role to another man.
How do I go about telling her that I really do want to act out some of these things? No matter what I want her with me if it happens, but I am sure that is going to be an issue. Ugh just such a confusing place to be at.
We have been with each other for 15+ years, and this year marks 11 years of marriage. Am I reaching back to old experiences because I am bored (I would like to think not) or is there more there. These are all things I keep asking myself.
And thanks GAF for having this awesome thread I have lurked forever but just now gotten the courage to post here. Everything I read is so nice to see that people are not quick to judge but rather to help.
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I can't offer anything resembling advice that actually comes from a place of experience, but I'm the sort of person who thinks its better to confront these things head-on. What's the alternative to not facing it right now? If the answer is anything other than "I will be completely satisfied with myself as a person if I never confront this side of myself again" then the only thing you're achieving by not confronting it right now is either delaying the inevitable and thus wasting more time, or growing old with major regrets.
Let's say you confront the issue now. What's the worst case scenario. Your marriage falls apart, now. You then have the rest of your life to pick up the pieces.
Let's say you confront the issue ten years from now. The worst case scenario involves your marriage falling apart, except now you have ten years fewer to pick up the pieces.
That's the worst case scenario, mind you. I'm just using it to illustrate that there are no real pros to putting it off. Unless, of course, you're comfortable never confronting your sexuality. Or, you do confront it, but never tell your wife, which I think is despicable and not a real option.
Let's say you confront the issue now. What's the worst case scenario. Your marriage falls apart, now. You then have the rest of your life to pick up the pieces.
Let's say you confront the issue ten years from now. The worst case scenario involves your marriage falling apart, except now you have ten years fewer to pick up the pieces.
That's the worst case scenario, mind you. I'm just using it to illustrate that there are no real pros to putting it off. Unless, of course, you're comfortable never confronting your sexuality. Or, you do confront it, but never tell your wife, which I think is despicable and not a real option.
dragonlife
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I feel like this is an important sentence, but I'm not exactly sure if I'm correctly assuming what you meant. So, your wife has talked about possibly bringing another man into bed with you guys; but if you talk about being submissive along with her, she clams up?
rukland
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Let me fix that wording, she has no issues during the heat of the moment talking about such things, but I think that at that point it's all part of foreplay. Talking about it like say away from sex itself, is a different story. I think she views my ideas of being with another man as nothing more then a "fantasy" to be used as pillow talk.
Sorry if I don't reply much more tonight but I have dinner to make and what not. Just wanted to get my first post out before I lost the nerve.
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