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I'll see you and raise you...

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First one is definitely better! The second is just too sexy and not enough Pokemon.

Sorry if I don't post every day to keep ya'll updated on the color of my butt hair or how many guys I've done in 15 minutes last night ;(

So, what color is your butt hair right now? I wish I had changing color butt hair.

Im not exactly old..

but I find myself playing less games because I feel games these days are way too casual and shit (in general). I don't wanna play a game for 12 hours then trade it back in because there is no gameplay depth.

What type of games do you play? I would agree that casual games are becoming more prevalent in today's culture but there are still plenty of games with depth. You just have to sift out the bad to find the good.
 
Let me fix that wording, she has no issues during the heat of the moment talking about such things, but I think that at that point it's all part of foreplay. Talking about it like say away from sex itself, is a different story. I think she views my ideas of being with another man as nothing more then a "fantasy" to be used as pillow talk.

Sorry if I don't reply much more tonight but I have dinner to make and what not. Just wanted to get my first post out before I lost the nerve.
How serious and assertive have you been when you've said you wanted to be with another man? If she thinks that this is strictly a fantasy, then you haven't done a very good job explaining yourself. You did a perfectly fine job articulating what you want in your post.
 
How serious and assertive have you been when you've said you wanted to be with another man? If she thinks that this is strictly a fantasy, then you haven't done a very good job explaining yourself. You did a perfectly fine job articulating what you want in your post.

I have been as honest and upfront as I can, maybe it's not enough. I dunno, add in the fact that I want to be dressed in women's clothes when it happens and maybe to her it all sounds like nothing more then crazy talk.

And I know for sure I don't want to do anything with out her being there or at least with out her consent. I am not going to blindly cheat on her that is not at all what I want.
 
Hello Mr. LA. It's great to read your cheery happy story, where you sound very content on your love life and landed a great opportunity on your career that took you to a new state, traveling to new places can be such a joy and a learning experience. Congrats Mr.

@Lumpy Space Princess
You have really beautiful features like your eyebrows and nose so hair or no hair you are a pretty guy.

I find it great to have new people on this thread, new blood is always good at least for me.

Thanks for the kind words :)

I'm really enjoying these conversations by the way. I was classified as a "Pup". I'm cool with that.
 
What type of games do you play? I would agree that casual games are becoming more prevalent in today's culture but there are still plenty of games with depth. You just have to sift out the bad to find the good.

Almost all kinds. Primarily though shooters. I can't stand the way things have gone: killstreaks! perks! unlockables!

My fav franchises of all time have pretty much gone to shit/changed/gone casual... Resident Evil and Twisted Metal :(
 
I have been as honest and upfront as I can, maybe it's not enough. I dunno, add in the fact that I want to be dressed in women's clothes when it happens and maybe to her it all sounds like nothing more then crazy talk.

And I know for sure I don't want to do anything with out her being there or at least with out her consent. I am not going to blindly cheat on her that is not at all what I want.

Would you be open to pegging?
 
So I finally texted my friend's friend that I went to NYC with about a few hours ago and he hasn't responded back.
 
sounds harmless. but did you mention who you was. i mean he probably meta bajillion people.
Yeah I did. I mean we did exchange numbers. I sent him some photos from trip via mms a week ago and he responded right away. I'm going to assume he is busy. I was hoping to talk with him today.
 
Yeah I did. I mean we did exchange numbers. I sent him some photos from trip via mms a week ago and he responded right away. I'm going to assume he is busy. I was hoping to talk with him today.

just don't go texting him for a response or check if he got the text or not ;P
 
Almost all kinds. Primarily though shooters. I can't stand the way things have gone: killstreaks! perks! unlockables!

My fav franchises of all time have pretty much gone to shit/changed/gone casual... Resident Evil and Twisted Metal :(

Ah, then I can understand your frustration if you are mostly into shooters. I honestly don't know what shooters were like too much since I never game FPS games a chance before this generation. My favorite genres are RPG's and Action/Adventure and I can usually find games fairly well in those genres.
 
Almost all kinds. Primarily though shooters. I can't stand the way things have gone: killstreaks! perks! unlockables!

My fav franchises of all time have pretty much gone to shit/changed/gone casual... Resident Evil and Twisted Metal :(

There are still innovative and/or old-school games coming out on PC. It's truly the best/healthiest market right now. Sure, Resident Evil is never going to go back to its survival horror roots at this point. However the genre is alive and healthy on the platform that doesn't need to meet the astronomical goals of a retail brick & mortar release.

Of course, for all I know you are already a PC gamer. If you aren't the transition can be pretty eye-opening though.
 
Ah, then I can understand your frustration if you are mostly into shooters. I honestly don't know what shooters were like too much since I never game FPS games a chance before this generation. My favorite genres are RPG's and Action/Adventure and I can usually find games fairly well in those genres.

They were about skill back then. None of this "Congrats you killed someone! HERES YOUR SPAWN KILLING REWARD!"

Its all a bunch of hand-holding crap to make players feel like they are dominating. It seems to work cuz sales are through the roof; if everyone is great at a game (or so they think) and everyone can get a kill then the game is great!

To me its like games are now casualising to the point where everyone is "good" and the skill gap has shrunk massively as less skill is needed. I remember in Halo 1, AVP2, CS, etc a great player could do 1v3/4/5 and excell. Nowadays there are so many pieces of gameplay taken out to reduce skill gap, and stuff added into games (like perks, kill streaks, or halo reach armor mods) to even it up.

There are still innovative and/or old-school games coming out on PC. It's truly the best/healthiest market right now. Sure, Resident Evil is never going to go back to its survival horror roots at this point. However the genre is alive and healthy on the platform that doesn't need to meet the astronomical goals of a retail brick & mortar release.

Of course, for all I know you are already a PC gamer. If you aren't the transition can be pretty eye-opening though.

Eh, I dont see anything particularly deep, even on PC (for shooters). New Tribes game seems really watered down in comparison to T1 and Tribes 2 :( But in survival horror department yes ive heard of the games.
 
Many members post only in OT and don't care about games.

WTF are you doing here then? Honest question: NeoGAF is Gaming Age Forums. That's what most people sign-up for. I know the "OT" is different and you may fall out of gaming, but at that point I'd stop posting here TBH.

Sorry if I don't post every day to keep ya'll updated on the color of my butt hair or how many guys I've done in 15 minutes last night ;(

I need deetz, TBH bb.

Sometimes yes, sometimes no. For sure the undergarments are on.

Honey, let's be frank: You want to be fucked by another man and (to me) it seems you want it bad. You need to be upfront with her. Tell her this. And you need to figure out what you're cross-dressing for. It sounds like (to me) you want to be a submissive and while she's fine with that on the female side, it sounds like she isn't okay with you being a "female" on the male side.
 
WTF are you doing here then? Honest question: NeoGAF is Gaming Age Forums. That's what most people sign-up for. I know the "OT" is different and you may fall out of gaming, but at that point I'd stop posting here TBH.

Many people come for the gaming threads, but stay for the off topic threads.
 
They were about skill back then. None of this "Congrats you killed someone! HERES YOUR SPAWN KILLING REWARD!"

Its all a bunch of hand-holding crap to make players feel like they are dominating. It seems to work cuz sales are through the roof; if everyone is great at a game (or so they think) and everyone can get a kill then the game is great!

To me its like games are now casualising to the point where everyone is "good" and the skill gap has shrunk massively as less skill is needed. I remember in Halo 1, AVP2, CS, etc a great player could do 1v3/4/5 and excell. Nowadays there are so many pieces of gameplay taken out to reduce skill gap, and stuff added into games (like perks, kill streaks, or halo reach armor mods) to even it up.

I can definitely see how FPS games have been easier for the MP. I suck at MP in shooters and even I can get kill streaks. I don't play MP that often but it's mostly for the other people and not the game play. I am more of a story line person so single player portions of games call my name more.

I probably won't play another MP game until Borderlands 2 comes out and even then it's Coop.
 
They were about skill back then. None of this "Congrats you killed someone! HERES YOUR SPAWN KILLING REWARD!"

Its all a bunch of hand-holding crap to make players feel like they are dominating. It seems to work cuz sales are through the roof; if everyone is great at a game (or so they think) and everyone can get a kill then the game is great!

To me its like games are now casualising to the point where everyone is "good" and the skill gap has shrunk massively as less skill is needed. I remember in Halo 1, AVP2, CS, etc a great player could do 1v3/4/5 and excell. Nowadays there are so many pieces of gameplay taken out to reduce skill gap, and stuff added into games (like perks, kill streaks, or halo reach armor mods) to even it up.
This post is a great summary of the reason I don't play shooters. Because for all the people on GAF who complain about games being watered down and "casualized" I don't think games are nearly casual enough. I'm playing Max Payne 3 on the easiest difficulty and yet, after spending a half an hour trying to get past a certain section and continually failing and wishing health regenerated behind cover, I gave up. Earlier this year I played Super Mario 3D Land and after dying twice on the very first level I was reminded why I don't play 3D platformers. It seems like too many games assume that the player has a decade long history of playing games in a certain genre and honing their skills, so when games "dumb down" and hand hold and are more accessible, I'm so glad, because I look at it as developers caring about their audience and giving them the benefit of the doubt. I don't need every game to cater to me, but I don't see what's so inherently wrong with games becoming more casual. It means that more people can try a game and still have a good time with it. If you want something that's punishing, crank the difficulty to hard, go for skill-based trophies, find a good multiplayer community of like-minded people, wait for the new Counter Strike, play Far Cry 2 and Metro 2033, or be the guy that makes fun of the fact that I don't understand how to be a medic in TF2. There are still options for players who want a more challenging experience, that's just not where most games are heading.

edit: This sounds a lot more rude than I ever intended. Sorry about that.
 
Eh, I dont see anything particularly deep, even on PC (for shooters). New Tribes game seems really watered down in comparison to T1 and Tribes 2 :( But in survival horror department yes ive heard of the games.

Just off the top of my head for recent 'old school' shooters on PC:

-Hard Reset
-EYE Divine Cybermancy (think original Deus Ex)
-Metro 2033
-Serious Sam 3
-Rage (technically also on console, but the texture pop-in is a non-issue on PC)
-Killing Floor
-L4D 1/2 (I wouldn't call this old school, but it doesn't have progression systems or unlocks either)
-Stalker
-Arma 2

CS and CS:S are still some of the most played games on Steam as well. TF2 is actually the most-played game on Steam which was very much a straight-forward team-based shooter when I last played it a few years ago. I understand that things may have changed for that one given all the crazy hat and weapon stuff, but I'm not sure how much of that is tied to progression systems.

You also have projects on the horizon like the kick-started Takedown from guys behind games like Rainbow 6. There is a lot more room for innovation when you can easily self-publish your game on a small budget and don't have to make a retail game that needs $30 million + to break even. People are making niche games targeted at very specific audiences and are being financially successful while doing it.

The above list is from someone that doesn't play a lot of FPS games (me), so I'm not sure what else I missed. I will say that the most fun I had with an FPS in the last few years was Painkiller which feels like it was taken straight out of the 90s and was pure fun to play. These are all games you can get for sub-$20, or $2-10 dollars during any steam sale
 
Local co-op > online co-op >>> MP

So wrong, it hurts.

For anything that isn't a fighting game

Also it sounds like you guys need to play Battlefield to see spawn camping. Because you'reusingthatwordIdonotthinkitmeanswhatyouthinkitmeans.jpg
 
This post is a great summary of the reason I don't play shooters. Because for all the people on GAF who complain about games being watered down and "casualized" I don't think games are nearly casual enough. I'm playing Max Payne 3 on the easiest difficulty and yet, after spending a half an hour trying to get past a certain section and continually failing and wishing health regenerated behind cover, I gave up. Earlier this year I played Super Mario 3D Land and after dying twice on the very first level I was reminded why I don't play 3D platformers. It seems like too many games assume that the player has a decade long history of playing games in a certain genre and honing their skills, so when games "dumb down" and hand hold and are more accessible, I'm so glad, because I look at it as developers caring about their audience and giving them the benefit of the doubt. I don't need every game to cater to me, but I don't see what's so inherently wrong with games becoming more casual. It means that more people can try a game and still have a good time with it. If you want something that's punishing, crank the difficulty to hard, go for skill-based trophies, find a good multiplayer community of like-minded people, wait for the new Counter Strike, play Far Cry 2 and Metro 2033, or be the guy that makes fun of the fact that I don't understand how to be a medic in TF2. There are still options for players who want a more challenging experience, that's just not where most games are heading.

Because 99 times out of 100 when they dumb it down or "casualise" it usually means all the neat shit and nuances that once kept hardcore people like me hooked for years is removed completely. Casual gamers were gunna play it for 2 weeks max REGARDLESS, pandering to those people makes no sense except selling out the experience for money.

Its why most games are bargain binned within a week this gen. There really isn't anything IN GAMES anymore, gameplay wise, that takes more than 3-4 days to discover or master.

I consider myself a hardcore gamer (maybe not so much these past 2 years). But last generation I had well over 10 games I played for 2+ years straight (some even more than 5+, one game i still play to this day almost a decade later online). This generation? I've played maybe 3-4 games longer than a year. AND this generation alone I have purchased well over 120 games.

There are easy modes for a reason, and always have been, I hate how hard mode is now "normal or below", why did they have to change that? Honestly games these days I play on "hard" are not hard at all. Its night and day difference and im sure most hardcore gamers who play everything would agree that hard mode isnt what it used to be. So I can't get the same experience I always wanted.

But DIFFICULTY isnt exactly my problem, its depth. Gameplay mechanics are going bye bye. Examples: how many games these days have AMPED up the auto-aim (shooters in general)? Added regenerating health (many games)? Lots of sequels to older franchises this gen it seems have streamlined their combat systems by removing what was deep and strategic in past (new TM im looking at you).

Basically my brain doesnt get off on doing well when there is zero challenge. My brain only gets all tweaked out when I know I pulled off some insane stunt that required some level of skill.

Don't take that as me ranting at you in specific. Just explaining what I like and feel is missing. Im OK with casual or easy modes so long as they don't retard the entire gameplay experience for EVERYONE, like removing gameplay features that had depth.

And just to clarify: my fav franchises of all times were not shooters: Resident evil and Twisted metal. Both, but especially TM have been dumbed down gameplay depth wise to the enth degree. So its not like im talking exclusively about shooters in any of my posts.

EDIT @ Rokal: On that list I have played Metro, and played L4D1+2. L4D1 and 2 I played for 3 years each. LOOOOOVED them. Gameplay depth level +1000. Good shit. One of the few games made this gen I played for more than a year. (played both competitively on a team)
 
Hey guys, straight guy here hoping you can all answer a question for me...



A little background first...


Years ago at an old job I met a guy who became a good friend of mine. He's older than me by a bit, but we stayed good friends for awhile.

Whelp, I figured him gay pretty early on. Never came up in conversation or anything, I just kinda figured.

Flash forward to recently, and we're hanging out. I'm telling him about some shit I'm going through with an Ex girlfriend of mine and whatnot, and he starts talking about his lack of a love life. He rarely ever mentioned any kind of a love life, but he's the type that would likely keep it secret anyway.

He takes a pause, looks me dead in the eye...and says "...I'm gay."

"Yeah, I know."


So after a little banter about how it was all good and it was a relief for him to not try and hide it anymore, he got to talking about how he hasn't been with anybody in awhile, and frankly doesn't know where to look. I bring up the internet, and that's where you lovely folks come in!




My question...what's a good gay dating site that might skew towards an older crowd? He's looking to get laid, and hopefully get more out of it over time.

Now, don't get me wrong, Google presents a plethora of options, I can easily find a bunch of them...I'm just wondering if anyone here has tried any particular site, any positive feedback, etc?



I'd like to help him out, so any input is appreciated. I may have to move far away soon, helping him find someone would be a nice parting gift, I think. New Jersey/Philadelphia area is where he lives and works, if that helps any.


Thanks in advance!
 
he wants to suck your dick. just flop it out and let him go to town.
 
My question...what's a good gay dating site that might skew towards an older crowd? He's looking to get laid, and hopefully get more out of it over time.

If you let us know what he looks like, or what type of guys he'd like to meet, we could probably give some good recommendations.
 
My question...what's a good gay dating site that might skew towards an older crowd? He's looking to get laid, and hopefully get more out of it over time.

If he's looking to get laid, he'd be better off with apps like Grindr. Does he have smart phones? iPhone? iPod Touch? Tell him to get one.
 
Aw I'm sorry guys, yes I am a foolish fool. I told him never again will we do that and especially not in the same room people are sleeping in...

Suppose to go see him soon, he's at the movies with his sister right now.
 
Aw I'm sorry guys, yes I am a foolish fool. I told him never again will we do that and especially not in the same room people are sleeping in...

Suppose to go see him soon, he's at the movies with his sister right now.
No point in feeling sorry. Retroactive guilt isn't going to protect against STDs.
 
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