That looks much worse since it's so close to blood vessels. No point in risking impotence just to get a piercing.
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Gay and Bisexual thread |OT2|Bears and Twinks and Otters. Oh My!
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dragonlife
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I need a source for that GIF.
chronos4590
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A Challenger Appears
Hello gay-Gaf! Long time lurker finally making an appearance, I'll post more info later.
That Gif! Feels so appropriate for such a thread.Welcome!
Haha, well its from an Anime called Heaven's Lost Property. However I got the Gif from a video I saw on youtube and just had to make it.
Video (NSFW)
Edit: Also! A song about "Enormous penis" will come blaring out of your speakers or headset.
A Challenger Appears
Hello gay-Gaf! Long time lurker finally making an appearance, I'll post more info later.
Welcome! Good to see you here.
dragonlife
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A Challenger Appears
Hello gay-Gaf! Long time lurker finally making an appearance, I'll post more info later.
That gif is hilarious.
Welcome <3
You said NSFW, but you didn't say that "enormous penis" would come blaring out of my laptop speakers. I could not have closed that faster.
Yes! And thank you.
Is it...? 
Its very stupid...but hilarious!
Is it so wrong that I totally want to see this anime now?
I watched the video and was reminded of why I stopped watching anime. I can't believe this was made. I can't believe people want to watch it.
I like anime but don't get into all the fan service and am more interested in a good story. The video just looked so ridiculous I wanted to see what it's about.
Thank you!Is it...?
It is. New people are always awesome, and it's cool to see more HaloGAF in here ;P
I couldn't make it past ten seconds of that amv.
dragonlife
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NOPE.
But Sai, to me you are Halo-GAF.
I'm the quintessential not-straight HaloGAFfer ;P
Update 2:
So, me and this guy (let's call him George) have been going so well. It's like having sex with my best friend. We talk about everything, we get along so well, we can spend and entire day together and I want to be around him all the time.
My jealous friend (Pat, sure, why not) has been blowing me off on gchat. So I go out to a movie last night with my boss's assistant. She mentions that she thinks that Pat has been venting to someone in her office about me and there's been a bit of resentment from that person towards me (the office I want to work in -- Pat used to work at the place that I work at now, I have the job completely separate from him it was just something very coincidental). Now this pisses me off because it's starting to affect my professional life.
Pat and I are in a writing group. We meet up. He's being cold. I pull him aside. He says that he's pissed at me because he set me up with one of his friends, and then I hooked up with one of his other friends. I apologize, say that dating is never a slam dunk. He then outwardly says he's jealous of me because he's had a crush on George for a while and this hurts. He says that he's being childish, but it'll take a while for him to get over it because he's angry.
At this point, the only reason I'm mad is because this might start to affect my professional life. If I hear anything else about that, I'm going to say something. But me and George are going so well. I've never been this happy, NeoGAF. So yeah, sorry Pat. And I told him that I can be his friend whenever he wants to be mine and I look forward to us hanging out -- I do miss that, he's a great guy. Just not about this.
AND THAT FELT SO GOOD TO WRITE OUT I FEEL SO MUCH BETTER
So, me and this guy (let's call him George) have been going so well. It's like having sex with my best friend. We talk about everything, we get along so well, we can spend and entire day together and I want to be around him all the time.
My jealous friend (Pat, sure, why not) has been blowing me off on gchat. So I go out to a movie last night with my boss's assistant. She mentions that she thinks that Pat has been venting to someone in her office about me and there's been a bit of resentment from that person towards me (the office I want to work in -- Pat used to work at the place that I work at now, I have the job completely separate from him it was just something very coincidental). Now this pisses me off because it's starting to affect my professional life.
Pat and I are in a writing group. We meet up. He's being cold. I pull him aside. He says that he's pissed at me because he set me up with one of his friends, and then I hooked up with one of his other friends. I apologize, say that dating is never a slam dunk. He then outwardly says he's jealous of me because he's had a crush on George for a while and this hurts. He says that he's being childish, but it'll take a while for him to get over it because he's angry.
At this point, the only reason I'm mad is because this might start to affect my professional life. If I hear anything else about that, I'm going to say something. But me and George are going so well. I've never been this happy, NeoGAF. So yeah, sorry Pat. And I told him that I can be his friend whenever he wants to be mine and I look forward to us hanging out -- I do miss that, he's a great guy. Just not about this.
AND THAT FELT SO GOOD TO WRITE OUT I FEEL SO MUCH BETTER
I have nothing of value to say, but I genuinely enjoy reading about this. It's so juicy.
Do you know the person who Pat talked to?
I don't think Pat is going to stop talking shit about you so easily.
I know. That's my fear.
Yes. Our writer's PA. Basically Pat used to have the job that I used to have and became friends with our writer's PA (who was just an office PA with Pat at the time). Pat quit his job halfway through last season, so there's a lot of bad blood there towards him, but our writer's PA and Pat are still tight. So he's the one I think he's been talking shit to, which is bullshit since that crosses a huge boundary. But if I keep hearing about it, I'll call him out about him. He admitted to me he was being childish today. He must (he MUST) know he's in the wrong. At the bottom of his heart.
The best part was when he told me that he can't be around me because he can't "handle the drama." Fuck you, Pat.
I think I'm going to start seeing my therapist again.
Took me a few minutes to realize PA stands for personal assistant. It's time to sleep.
Pat sounds like a child, what with gossiping to completely outside third parties and then shifting the blame. It doesn't sound like there's much you can do without completely confronting the guy or the people he's talking to, but it doesn't seem like it's worth digging this thing even deeper.
And are you allowed to say what show you're working on?
Sons of Anarchy. PA is production assistant. All of the major departments on a scripted show (Production, Art, Writers, Props) get a PA. Production usually gets 3. Sometimes 2 or 4. Pat works on a USA show, George works on a Showtime show.
I'm just hoping this blows over in a few weeks, ya know? I think that's a good plan. I'd rather not get even more involved with drama and confront people. I dislike confrontation.
lordfroakie
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Hi and welcome to Gotham CityA Challenger Appears
Hello gay-Gaf! Long time lurker finally making an appearance, I'll post more info later.
My random guess was New Girl, but looks like I was wrong on two fronts!
It sounds petty, so as long as you don't feed the flame, I imagine it will. Good luck.
VICTORsaurio
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Yesterday my "crush" (let's call him "Guy") talked to me about my ex talking shit about him to a common friend (who also is friends with his boyfriend). None of us are really sure if it's actually true, but my ex and this guy were kind of close before so I can imagine it is, also it seems kind of obvious looking at some tweets from both of them.
He told me that he was going to talk to his boyfriend before someone else did and obviously that we should stay away from each other. So we pretty much said goodbye (all this via text). I cried for a while. My ex found me crying and asked me what was going on so I told him the truth (that it was because Guy told me we couldn't be friends anymore). Which I assume kind of pissed him off though he didn't really say anything.
Guy also wrote my ex a long message telling him he was sorry about all this, that he didn't want anyone to get hurt and that nothing actually happened between us.
I'm kind of pissed off at my ex because he's been going on on twitter about people stealing boyfriends and stuff like that and I just don't like what's supposed to be my private life out there in the public, even if he's not directly talking about me, I feel this is a very delicate situation and I'd appreciate if he kept some of his thoughts to himself.
I don't really know what else he has told to his friends, but they probably have a really bad image of me and Guy by now, I'm sure some of them assume we were cheating on our boyfriends for a while.
I do believe I have a right to be pissed because I have been honest about everything, maybe I should have kept some stuff to myself but I just wanted him to know the whole truth, not just parts of it. Also he's still living in my house so I find it pretty disrespectful for him to be kind of badmouthing me. Again, I know he usually seems to be talking about Guy and not about me but everything he says obviously affects me as well.
I haven't told him that it bothers me, I just muted him on twitter so I wouldn't have to read his sharp words but I may have to if he keeps on doing it. Do you think I have a right to be pissed off at him?
He told me that he was going to talk to his boyfriend before someone else did and obviously that we should stay away from each other. So we pretty much said goodbye (all this via text). I cried for a while. My ex found me crying and asked me what was going on so I told him the truth (that it was because Guy told me we couldn't be friends anymore). Which I assume kind of pissed him off though he didn't really say anything.
Guy also wrote my ex a long message telling him he was sorry about all this, that he didn't want anyone to get hurt and that nothing actually happened between us.
I'm kind of pissed off at my ex because he's been going on on twitter about people stealing boyfriends and stuff like that and I just don't like what's supposed to be my private life out there in the public, even if he's not directly talking about me, I feel this is a very delicate situation and I'd appreciate if he kept some of his thoughts to himself.
I don't really know what else he has told to his friends, but they probably have a really bad image of me and Guy by now, I'm sure some of them assume we were cheating on our boyfriends for a while.
I do believe I have a right to be pissed because I have been honest about everything, maybe I should have kept some stuff to myself but I just wanted him to know the whole truth, not just parts of it. Also he's still living in my house so I find it pretty disrespectful for him to be kind of badmouthing me. Again, I know he usually seems to be talking about Guy and not about me but everything he says obviously affects me as well.
I haven't told him that it bothers me, I just muted him on twitter so I wouldn't have to read his sharp words but I may have to if he keeps on doing it. Do you think I have a right to be pissed off at him?
Princess Viola
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Sigh.
Do you guys think I am allowed to be disappointed at my mom and step-dad.
I specifically asked them to wake me up for dinner when I laid down for a nap around 4:00 pm today.
They didn't.
And now, I'm crying and worrying because I only have about a week to ask if I can move in with my mom and Viktor just went to bed...
Plus, I had been planning doing an RP with him since yesterday, but that's just a disappointment, not to the point of me crying.
Do you guys think I am allowed to be disappointed at my mom and step-dad.
I specifically asked them to wake me up for dinner when I laid down for a nap around 4:00 pm today.
They didn't.
And now, I'm crying and worrying because I only have about a week to ask if I can move in with my mom and Viktor just went to bed...
Plus, I had been planning doing an RP with him since yesterday, but that's just a disappointment, not to the point of me crying.
Princess Viola
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Well, yeah, that is true.
It's just I'm having another depression attack and I really needed him. :\
Bel Marduk
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Pat sounds like he's being extremely childish. I mean, really. There's no reason for adults to act this way.
What the hell. I'll never understand some Japanese humour.
You're the one that dumped him right?
While it would be nice for him to keep things private, it does seem reasonable that your ex is going to be upset and will talk to people about it. I, personally, would give some time before you guys start really communicating again. You have to let some things heal. Trying to maintain some sort of relationship with your ex shortly after ripping their heart out is never really a good idea.
He's going to be mad. He's going to say things he'll probably regret. It's best you just stay away while he does so. Unfollowing his tweets is a good step.
VICTORsaurio
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You're right.
I think the reason it bothers me is because:
a) He's talking about someone that I like
b) This could end up hurting Guy's relationship, if his boyfriend hears from someone about this situation (and maybe with some lies attached to it).
I guess it won't be a problem if Guy talks to him like he told me he would but I'm not 100% sure he will do it. He was very upset when we started talking but then at the end he felt much better which makes me believe maybe he just said it in the heat of the moment and might not follow through.
Anyway, I guess it's not really my business. Maybe I should be "happy" if they break up over this but it's just not the way I want things to be
excelforward
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You're right.
I think the reason it bothers me is because:
a) He's talking about someone that I like
b) This could end up hurting Guy's relationship, if his boyfriend hears from someone about this situation (and maybe with some lies attached to it).
I guess it won't be a problem if Guy talks to him like he told me he would but I'm not 100% sure he will do it. He was very upset when we started talking but then at the end he felt much better which makes me believe maybe he just said it in the heat of the moment and might not follow through.
Anyway, I guess it's not really my business. Maybe I should be "happy" if they break up over this but it's just not the way I want things to be
Unless I mistake you, I doubt you'd be happy if they broke up over something like this. If anything, I'm willing to bet this would saddle you with a huge host of guilt about the situation.
My advice (take it or leave it), is simply that things are not going to work out with you and Guy based on the information you've given us. I hate to be blunt, but it's probably best if you try and move on to other venues. For both your health and the health of the relationships around you, I think you should try and let this one go. Yes, it's going to be painful, but all break-ups are whether they are the real kind (like you're going through with your ex) or the friend-altering kind (like how things are with Guy right now). Pushing the envelope here will only damage your relationship further.
As to your ex's tweets, unsubscribing is the best step here. Continue to let him know that you didn't cheat on him with Guy, and that anything else is false. Stay honest with this, 100% honest, because half-truths will only make things worse here in the long run.
Like I said, that's my advice. I hope you'll heed some of the info in there if not all of it, and I truly hope I'm able to help.
Just accept the European-Canadian takeover
NEVER.
Just accept the European-Canadian takeover
Best kind of takeover.
Dead Prince
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Just accept the European-Canadian takeover
already have minus canadians. gross.
Yeah, that's what I thought. I still miss him as a friend, but I guess this is how it's gonna be. Kind of sucks.
I scrolled down quickly and thought you posted a picture of Bush. Looking at him now, there's no resemblance, but it bothered me enough that I'm going to have to go with a no.
This pic reminded me a bit of a grey bearded version of Indiana Jones:
but I don't really see the Bush resemblance except for the eyes.
Edit: damn you are kinda right... cannot unsee it now...
VICTORsaurio
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that guy looks like an older version of Dominic Monaghan (Charlie from LOST)
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