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Hmm, I like the front, but the idea of combining trunks with a jockstrap is questionable. I feel like it needs to be one or the other.

As far as underwear goes, I've got around 30 designer pair in addition to as many basic everyday ones (mostly from H&M or AA, neither of which I like much now).

it's just easier for me to go poo in. and slip a pene in there too.
 
slip a pene in there too.

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As an aside I got a cellphone. Sadly, it's a windows phone so no grindr for me. But I'm new to this app thing. Are there any must haves?

You're now officially out of the no-cell phone club. So ill be taking back your club jacket, and revoking your club membership privileges.

I'll be joining you soon
 
All y'all need to be watching Olympic water polo. Like, for reals.

O__O
:D !!!

That was utterly fantastic - we're already looking forward to the Tuesday match. And I hope it's a high-scoring affair, so that we get lots of reaction shots from the teammates on the sidelines, complete with them jumping up out of their seats, showing-off their assets. :)
 
:D !!!

That was utterly fantastic - we're already looking forward to the Tuesday match. And I hope it's a high-scoring affair, so that we get lots of reaction shots from the teammates on the sidelines, complete with them jumping up out of their seats, showing-off their assets. :)

Hell. Yes. God I think I have a new favorite sport. The actual game is pretty fun and exciting, but the fact that every. single. guy is so damn hot makes it 10X better. And those tiny little speedos. ;__;
 
Ive spent the past 10 minutes trying to post on r/gaymersgonewild and i cant figure out how to do it............

I think there is a support group for this.

But really, I don't understand the appeal at all. It's like... Neogaf. But worse.

You're now officially out of the no-cell phone club. So ill be taking back your club jacket, and revoking your club membership privileges.

I'll be joining you soon

Noooo, I loved my exclusive clubs that made me feel hip and outdated!

Congrats but the little things are finicky.

The divers' speedos seem to routinely slip down after they hit the water. Tom Daley, for example.

Almost convinced me to watch... nice try fbi.
 
I think there is a support group for this.

But really, I don't understand the appeal at all. It's like... Neogaf. But worse.



Noooo, I loved my exclusive clubs that made me feel hip and outdated!

Congrats but the little things are finicky.



Almost convinced me to watch... nice try fbi.

what if you are mentally 16?
 
I'm pretty sure the guy has told his boyfriend what happened...

Exhibit A:
His boyfriend posting on twitter: "It's not easy living with the truth, but it's so pleasant to know it"

Exhibit B:
Guy stopped following me on twitter (THAT BITCH!!! HOW DARES HE???!!! just kidding, I unfollowed him/erased him from facebook last weekend when we agreed to stop talking. I told him when I did and he said he wouldn't do it, which he didn't until today)

Oh well. I feel pretty bad about his boyfriend knowing because he must see me now as a (failed) boyfriend stealer or something like that. I've barely talked to him ever since we met but this week he wrote to me (on twitter) asking for help because we're both graphic designers. I felt really awkward, we talked a bit and I was able to help him fix his problem that day.

I'm also curious as to what exactly his boyfriend told him. Anyway, I think I'm good. I'll try to stop cyberstalking now.
 
I'm pretty sure the guy has told his boyfriend what happened...

Exhibit A:
His boyfriend posting on twitter: "It's not easy living with the truth, but it's so pleasant to know it"

Exhibit B:
Guy stopped following me on twitter (THAT BITCH!!! HOW DARES HE???!!! just kidding, I unfollowed him/erased him from facebook last weekend when we agreed to stop talking. I told him when I did and he said he wouldn't do it, which he didn't until today)

Oh well. I feel pretty bad about his boyfriend knowing because he must see me now as a (failed) boyfriend stealer or something like that. I've barely talked to him ever since we met but this week he wrote to me (on twitter) asking for help because we're both graphic designers. I felt really awkward, we talked a bit and I was able to help him fix his problem that day.

I'm also curious as to what exactly his boyfriend told him. Anyway, I think I'm good. I'll try to stop cyberstalking now.


Yep. Looks like things are winding down.

And side note - how can people actually stand using twitter? I can tolerate FB, but twitter is just too much.
 
Yep. Looks like things are winding down.

And side note - how can people actually stand using twitter? I can tolerate FB, but twitter is just too much.
I kind of hate facebook, only really use it as an online photo album and recently started playing SongPop. I hate that it's usually filled with useless stuff like random pictures, jokes and stuff about people playing games in there.

I enjoy twitter because usually you're getting actual updates directly from the people you follow, even if sometimes it's not useful stuff, most of the times it's entertaining.
 
I kind of hate facebook, only really use it as an online photo album and recently started playing SongPop. I hate that it's usually filled with useless stuff like random pictures, jokes and stuff about people playing games in there.

I enjoy twitter because usually you're getting actual updates directly from the people you follow, even if sometimes it's not useful stuff, most of the times it's entertaining.

Thats true. So many people are posting updates about "how they made a great chicken salad" or "went to the gym". Its why I unsubscribe to many friends on my list.

I only use facebook to keep in touch with my friends back west.

For twitter I just assume people dont want to know how im feeling at every moment of the day. I follow tons of game developers and the mundane shit they post makes them seem rather vain. Not that im saying you are :)
 
So I went out last night and ended up hooking up. I don't know why I keep doing this! Well its not like I didn't like it but I really don't like having these one night stands. The whole night was made worse by my crush being there at the club with another guy, surprisingly didn't affect my as much as I thought, I even stopped by and said hi and everything, however I couldn't stop thinking about him the whole night and even when I was with the other guy.
 
I'm pretty sure the guy has told his boyfriend what happened...

Exhibit A:
His boyfriend posting on twitter: "It's not easy living with the truth, but it's so pleasant to know it"

Exhibit B:
Guy stopped following me on twitter (THAT BITCH!!! HOW DARES HE???!!! just kidding, I unfollowed him/erased him from facebook last weekend when we agreed to stop talking. I told him when I did and he said he wouldn't do it, which he didn't until today)

Oh well. I feel pretty bad about his boyfriend knowing because he must see me now as a (failed) boyfriend stealer or something like that. I've barely talked to him ever since we met but this week he wrote to me (on twitter) asking for help because we're both graphic designers. I felt really awkward, we talked a bit and I was able to help him fix his problem that day.

I'm also curious as to what exactly his boyfriend told him. Anyway, I think I'm good. I'll try to stop cyberstalking now.

Dude, youre a total hottie. Its time for you to move on. Maybe not into a another relationship, but definitely doing the fun things in life.
 
As an aside I got a cellphone. Sadly, it's a windows phone so no grindr for me. But I'm new to this app thing. Are there any must haves?

There's probably an equivalent app though. Windows phone interface looks so nice and streamlined, if Windows 8 is anything like it, I'll want to switch from Mountain Lion.
 
There's probably an equivalent app though. Windows phone interface looks so nice and streamlined, if Windows 8 is anything like it, I'll want to switch from Mountain Lion.
Whoa, whoa. Considering how great the trackpad gestures are, Mountain Lion is the perfect laptop OS as far as I'm concerned.
 
Yep. Looks like things are winding down.

And side note - how can people actually stand using twitter? I can tolerate FB, but twitter is just too much.

I created an account on there a few years ago and have never used it since. Nearly everyone who uses it seems to be a giant attention whore.
 
So I went out last night and ended up hooking up. I don't know why I keep doing this! Well its not like I didn't like it but I really don't like having these one night stands. The whole night was made worse by my crush being there at the club with another guy, surprisingly didn't affect my as much as I thought, I even stopped by and said hi and everything, however I couldn't stop thinking about him the whole night and even when I was with the other guy.

Can I have some of your luck?
 
Whoa, whoa. Considering how great the trackpad gestures are, Mountain Lion is the perfect laptop OS as far as I'm concerned.

Hmm.. I don't think they're really that great.. In fact I prefer the pgdn,pgup,home and end keys. The only thing I really like about my macbook air is the form factor and hardware. The OS I guess I'm still getting used to because I've only used a mac for 4 months versus the rest of my life for PC.
 
Dude, youre a total hottie. Its time for you to move on. Maybe not into a another relationship, but definitely doing the fun things in life.
thanks! I almost forgot how I used to fall so hard for the wrong people (that's probably not just me). I feel like I'm a teenager again, not in the good sense though, even if this still means getting to try new things.

I know I should just snap out of it but it's just going to be a slow painful process. It's been over a month now since I let my feelings come out. I know I'm a little better everyday. There's no way I'm getting into another relationship anytime soon, I'm emotionally drained.
 
thanks! I almost forgot how I used to fall so hard for the wrong people (that's probably not just me). I feel like I'm a teenager again, not in the good sense though, even if this still means getting to try new things.

I know I should just snap out of it but it's just going to be a slow painful process. It's been over a month now since I let my feelings come out. I know I'm a little better everyday. There's no way I'm getting into another relationship anytime soon, I'm emotionally drained.

How old are you btw?
 
turned 26 just a few weeks ago

You're still a young pup. Curious though: now that you're single, and assuming that you'll overcome the recent issues with you're unrequited feelings, do you feel the need to catch up in the gay scene? I mean, seeing as you were in a relationship for 5(?) years, are there experiences that you think you might've missed out on?
 
God, I'd love to be 26 again. That was a damn good year. Jake was a young pup. We were really, really poor and deep in debt. I was on the verge of taking my first board exam. House parties at friends' houses every other week - but no personal drama! A good year, indeed..

We were watching a syndicated episode of Seinfeld at my sister-in-law's house a few weeks ago, and the episode ends with Kramer on live TV in a low-speed chase with the cops, driving his friend down the freeway in a white bronco. The older folks on the room either laughed or groaned or made "hey - I remember that!" comments. On the other hand, my niece and her stunningly hot boyfriend, age 22, didn't catch the reference.

It was one of those, "geez, I'm getting older!" moments.
 
On the other hand, my niece and her stunningly hot boyfriend, age 22, didn't catch the reference.

Kid must've not paid attention in History Class or Pop-Culture. OJ trial was damn popular...
and I'm not even that much older than her. Jesus she makes me feel old now.
 
You're still a young pup. Curious though: now that you're single, and assuming that you'll overcome the recent issues with you're unrequited feelings, do you feel the need to catch up in the gay scene? I mean, seeing as you were in a relationship for 5(?) years, are there experiences that you think you might've missed out on?
I'm not sure. When I was younger I was never really into sexual stuff. I mean I just wanted to be loved and find "the one" never really went out looking for sex. My first sexual encounters were with a friend from college (who was supposedly straight, so you can imagine how that ended up).

After another failed attempt at starting a relationship I met my ex, we hooked up pretty fast but we had sex for the first time after a little more than a month of dating (being together all the time, everyday).

I think I might have gotten slightly more into sex as I'm getting older and yes I often fantasize about stuff I see in porn, like threesomes or just different types of guys. I guess if there's a time to act on them it would be now (well not right now, but while I'm single). I'm just not sure if they're worth pursuing.

I guess I'd rather try and end up disappointed (since we've all heard horror stories about threesomes and the like) than regret never actually doing them. Again, I'm not sure if I'm able to effectively separate sex from love, even though I obviously sometimes just want to fuck the crap out of a random stranger.

I've never really been really outgoing, I don't drink and even though I love going out and dancing my ass off, it's something I've rarely done and I think it has something to do with not really fitting into whatever "the scene" is. I guess I could give it another try, though.
 
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