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Gay and Bisexual thread |OT2|Bears and Twinks and Otters. Oh My!
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Debbie Downer ITT, BB. TBH I knew as soon as you hit the mod squad you'd be cracking down on this thread.
I haven't even cracked down on anything! 
Can you PM me about it?
You guys are going to take forever to find out what it is you're trying to find out at this rate.
Tell me -> I can't, but PM if want -> Can't you PM? -> You're the one that wants to know -> Yeah, but you can tell me -> Nah, you can do it -> I don't feel like it -> Meh. -> Fine. -> etc, etc, etc.
Finally, a third party will then intervene and ask both of you to PM each other, but by that time you'll forget what it was you wanted to talk about.
i was just browsing the list of discus throwers at the London Olympics and saw a pic of a guy that looked decent.. I googled and WOAH, he's one of the most beautiful men I have seen, really impressed:
Virgilijus Alekna, Lithuania, he is 6'6" with 298 lbs of rock solid muscle.
I had to share
Virgilijus Alekna, Lithuania, he is 6'6" with 298 lbs of rock solid muscle.
I had to share
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Deleted member 30609
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can someone explain that GIF to me
GAF, yay or nay?
People can look either good or bad in glasses with big, thick frames depending on the face, so it's hard to say without seeing you wearing those types of glasses first.
Mystic Theurge
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Why'd you decide to go old school?
VICTORsaurio
Member
the black ones look nice, the other ones are a big NAY for me
GAF, yay or nay?
I'm pretty much the same, which is why I don't take protein shakes but instead get it all from food, I love eating! The best thing about being so active is that it means I can eat lots and that people always offer me extra. I guess I'm lucky that I love healthy food but it's not like I don't eat crisps or chocolate. Everything in moderation is my philosophy really.
Oh and snap up that gym membership! Sounds like you've got the workout bug anyway.
This way you can tell us sexy gym stories just like Replicant, lol.I would say that you should do some cardio. Everyone should be doing cardio. Keep your hearts healthy guys. Your future self will thank you.
Honestly, I don't know either. The bf jokes that I have a tapeworm. I've haven't always been like this though - back when I started University I used to stay up til 4-6am playing TF2 without having eaten for ages. I'm much more active now though, and back then I was smoking a lot, so I guess that helps. I'm not even that big of a guy btw, I'm 5'8 and ~154lbs. Maybe I eat too much... >.>
Ah, now I understand you much better, and it's the reason I brought up goals. So you're talking about how your ideal body might just be unobtainable. (Funnily enough, I found a conversation between both of us from earlier in the thread when I was wondering the very same thing!) Perhaps it's just natural to hit a hump when you're training and your progress slows. Reading that post reminded me of how disheartened I had become at one point, but like I said you're much better off picking yourself up, setting a short term goal and aiming for it. You have a good body already Bees, you know this, but I guess it's when you have an idea in your head of what you want to be that seems so far removed from where you are now, it can get to you.
I guess my reasons for saying all this is that looking back I remember feeling the same way, and now I feel like if I work hard enough I can get to where I want to be. Back then I thought it was going to be impossible for me to put on enough weight and get a better 'manly' shape, and yet here I am. Progress definitely slows from time to time, but now I'm realising that when progress slows it means I need to change my routine up a bit, and try hard to never skip a day.
I've been aiming for bulk too as I wanted clothes to fit me better. I'm definitely much more stocky now, which pleases me. All it took was eating like a horse, lol.
Some of those prices are insane to me. I can get 10 chicken breasts for 10 at the local butcher, and a 1kg bag of brown rice for under 2. I know you've just moved so you're not going to know where all the best places are, but maybe try an asian market or something and see if you can source stuff a bit cheaper? Quinoa would probably be the best thing to eat instead of rice but I dunno if that's cheap or expensive where you are.
Hopefully you'll get some more money coming in soon and things will start looking up, then you could buy heavier weights or join a gym with the aim to make gains faster. Like you say, it's gotta feel good when you feel fitter, stronger and healthier.
I don't count calories, perhaps I should. I figured that I get enough but perhaps I'm wrong. It'd just be a pain in the arse to go through all my food and add it all up.
GAF, yay or nay?
Nay, personally.
Dead Prince
Banned
it was meh anyways.
From what I read and remember It was during a bronze medal fight, one of the contestants landed a hit but the other contestant disputed it because he felt it landed on its ass.
In fencing the suits have captors that make a light go off whenever the sword touches the suit. However not all places grant a point, and when it doesn't the light should go off grey instead of green.
So in that case The light went off green but the guy that lost thought the other one touched his ass. What you see in that gif is the guy slamming the sword in his ass to show that the light goes off green and that his suit is defective. Turned out it just went out grey so the point was granted after all. Didn't matter since he ended up winning the bronze anyway.
Hope that makes sense.
You play TF2?! Why you never on steam?!
Hah, it is possible that I've just hit a slump. I've recently begun changing my routine after about three months of the same thing so it could be that. Plus the stress of moving and everything involved with that could be adding up as well.
Pics?
Yeah, food's a bit expensive here. I'm pretty sure I'm shopping at the cheaper location nearby as well since my roommate goes there and he lives on the cheap side.
Going to be checking out some apartments today which is a bit nerve-wracking. There's not a lot that I can find in my price range and I really don't want to get something that's over $800.
Phonomezer
Banned
Met someone at a bar about 3 weeks ago and we had been hanging out every day since, until today.
He is okay, but really FULL ON about having a "proper relationship" - I don't do relationships. So now he thinks I'm too "cold and stoic". I told him to fuck off.
He is considerably older than me (41), has a nice place, nice job, etc, but I don't have time for grown up children. Not to mention forcing poppers up my nose at every given opportunity.
Was fun while it lasted, tho
He is okay, but really FULL ON about having a "proper relationship" - I don't do relationships. So now he thinks I'm too "cold and stoic". I told him to fuck off.
He is considerably older than me (41), has a nice place, nice job, etc, but I don't have time for grown up children. Not to mention forcing poppers up my nose at every given opportunity.
Was fun while it lasted, tho
Met someone at a bar about 3 weeks ago and we had been hanging out every day since, until today.
He is okay, but really FULL ON about having a "proper relationship" - I don't do relationships. So now he thinks I'm too "cold and stoic". I told him to fuck off.
He is considerably older than me (41), has a nice place, nice job, etc, but I don't have time for grown up children. Not to mention forcing poppers up my nose at every given opportunity.
Was fun while it lasted, tho
may I ask why?
and fuck poppers and men that are pissed off when you don't want to take it. Thank god I've only met two men in my life like that.
If you're talking about the same photos I'm thinking of, that looked like that was his warm down shower and he wouldn't have been naked. If so, the whole stadium would have seen a piece. He would have been in his Speedo.
Phonomezer
Banned
Eh, just not interested in that kind of emotional dependency, from either party.
This. It's like downing half a bottle of vodka in 2 minutes, yet it only lasts for 10 seconds.
Mega Man's Electric Sheep
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So I'm pretty freaked out. I was hanging out with a guy a few times, we got along well. He is married but in an open relationship. Not my thing, but eh. Anyway, so we talked for hours about personal things, and ended up fooling around last night, making out, grinding naked etc. Don't know if you've ever heard of it, but he has penile pearly papules, those little dot things? Well he told me about it, so I wanted to see what they looked like and took a closer look. He seemed upset I was looking, and I told him that I was paranoid about STDs and I was just looking so I would feel more comfortable knowing what they look like. So a minute later, he gets up and says "I'm leaving" and rushes around getting his stuff. He says to me in a really angry voice "I don't know what's worse, the fact that you think I would give you an STD without telling you I had one after I opened up to you, or the fact you're looking at my penis like it's diseased. Is that what you do, get people to open up to you and then find a way to hurt them?" I tried to apologize but he wouldn't even make eye contact and left. He has disappeared off my facebook too.
So what do you think, did I really hurt his feelings, or was he just looking for an excuse to get out of there?
So what do you think, did I really hurt his feelings, or was he just looking for an excuse to get out of there?
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
So yeah, your hair looks amazing. What is the cut called?
Why did he want you to take poppers? Was it necessary? *wink*
Mega Man's Electric Sheep
Member
I know it's not an STD, that's why I wanted to look because my mind freaks out about the thought of catching something, even just being naked with a guy like that.......I just wanted to see that it was just that. I guess I screwed up and made him feel bad.
MyAbsolution
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I think he overreacted when you weren't trying to be insensitive... did you make sure to talk in as calm a voice as possible when you explained you were paranoid about STDs? But I can understand his anger, someone else on Gaf mentioned they had it so I googled the image and it wasn't pretty. Sucks too he wouldn't listen to your apology at all. Yeah he overreacted :/
Dead Prince
Banned
CHEEZMO;40555381 said:
cosign.
He is probably embarrassed by it. I know I would be.
SpaceBridge
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Oh poppers. How old school. I remember spilling a bottle in the centre of a dance floor once. Man was that a show.
Maybe you should have taken stoic and cold as a compliment.
I love Simon Amstell SO MUCH
Mega Man's Electric Sheep
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Yes, the thrust (lol) of his anger was that he had told me he was sensitive about it and that I had made him feel self conscious and didn't think of his feelings when I spoke. I have OCD, and I tried to explain to him that it is hard for me to be sexual with guys without worrying about diseases, but he said that was no excuse. And the sad thing is, now I AM worried that he gave me something by grinding naked against me. Maybe he didn't want me to look closely at his penis because he has herpes. OCD makes me think things like that
MyAbsolution
Member
Your "mop head" looks fine but ya maybe its time for a change if its been that long.
Definitely, me too. I would get them lasered off or something.
Yes, the thrust (lol) of his anger was that he had told me he was sensitive about it and that I had made him feel self conscious and didn't think of his feelings when I spoke. I have OCD, and I tried to explain to him that it is hard for me to be sexual with guys without worrying about diseases, but he said that was no excuse. And the sad thing is, now I AM worried that he gave me something by grinding naked against me. Maybe he didn't want me to look closely at his penis because he has herpes. OCD makes me think things like that
Speaking bluntly: he said he had no std's and no fluids were exchanged I presume.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Paring knife.
Dead Prince
Banned
and liquid nitrogen and ball gag.
Someone mentioned that they had it in the GAF confessions thread and avoided relationships/sexual activity because they were so ashamed of it. If this guy was really insecure about it, which is why it sounds like he told you in the first place, I can understand why he had such a negative reaction when you not only wanted to examine it but mentioned that you thought he might be lying and had STDs instead. I can't fault you for being cautious, but there were many more tactful ways you could have gone about it.
Mega Man's Electric Sheep
Member
Yes, he claimed he had been tested for everything and all negative.....and I was the only one who "finished" (on myself), he left before he did because he was mad.
I agree I could have been more tactful, but I'm not sure how I can try to calm my fears about STDs without offending the other guy.....
i was just browsing the list of discus throwers at the London Olympics and saw a pic of a guy that looked decent.. I googled and WOAH, he's one of the most beautiful men I have seen, really impressed:
Virgilijus Alekna, Lithuania, he is 6'6" with 298 lbs of rock solid muscle.
I had to share
I approve.
Why is so hard to find gay guys like that?
Dead Prince
Banned
they dnt know how to use a computer.
What the hell are poppers? They sound like a candy.
SpaceBridge
Member
They're not that hard to find at all. But you have to attract them though.
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