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So I'm pretty freaked out. I was hanging out with a guy a few times, we got along well. He is married but in an open relationship. Not my thing, but eh. Anyway, so we talked for hours about personal things, and ended up fooling around last night, making out, grinding naked etc. Don't know if you've ever heard of it, but he has penile pearly papules, those little dot things? Well he told me about it, so I wanted to see what they looked like and took a closer look. He seemed upset I was looking, and I told him that I was paranoid about STDs and I was just looking so I would feel more comfortable knowing what they look like. So a minute later, he gets up and says "I'm leaving" and rushes around getting his stuff. He says to me in a really angry voice "I don't know what's worse, the fact that you think I would give you an STD without telling you I had one after I opened up to you, or the fact you're looking at my penis like it's diseased. Is that what you do, get people to open up to you and then find a way to hurt them?" I tried to apologize but he wouldn't even make eye contact and left. He has disappeared off my facebook too.

So what do you think, did I really hurt his feelings, or was he just looking for an excuse to get out of there?

Oh god. I really wish I hadn't looked up at that picture.. the thing about it is, that it looks like it could be herpes or any number of things you don't want. You aren't wrong at all for worrying about it, especially if hes a married guy fooling around with someone else. If anything people should worry more about acquiring stds.

I don't think he was just looking for an excuse to bail but its probably just something he's very sensitive about. I probably would be too... but you're not a bad person for asking.
 
I've only seen people using them online (at certain entertainment websites) and I have to admit it's kind of a turn off when it happens. I don't know, maybe I'm just too vanilla or just that I've never really liked the idea of using any kind of drugs (including cigarettes and alcohol).

I'm not sure of how "strong" poppers are as a drug but just it just seems to me like I'm watching someone being fucked while he's stoned :(
 
I've only seen people using them online (at certain entertainment websites) and I have to admit it's kind of a turn off when it happens. I don't know, maybe I'm just too vanilla or just that I've never really liked the idea of using any kind of drugs (including cigarettes and alcohol).

I'm not sure of how "strong" poppers are as a drug but just it just seems to me like I'm watching someone being fucked while he's stoned :(

They seem to be pretty safe, but image wise yeah I think it seems pretty sleazy. I'm not really that into casual sex, though, and that association is there, so that might have something to do with it. The only obscure thing I would have done (in a previous phase of my life) to enhance sex, etc, would be 2C-B (which is an entactogen, so it seems less sleazy to me :p). I guess I'm not really that vanilla, though, I have (had?) a pretty experimental mindset, but the only way I can justify the risk is by feeling informed and thus the risk being a calculated one. I don't do drugs anymore, but it's not because I think they're 'bad', I just don't see the profit in them with my current philosophy, but I would generally consider my past experiences to be of benefit.
 
So I just walked home from the hair dressers and I love my hair. It looks really good but I kind of realized I need to work out again. I gained a bunch of weight while I was suicidal. Like, I naturally have chubby cheeks but now my face looks gross. Time to work out and eat healthy I suppose! I know my hair will look fantastic on me once I lose off the weight I gained. :D

Oh, and if I can find my camera I'll post up a picture.
 
We're posting pics of poppers?
no, just picture whoring ourselves :P

BY THE WAY, I'M NO LONGER A JUNIOR!!!!!!!!

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Wow Yaceka, that's quite the transformation. It really suits you. Lol at your 'chubby cheeks' comment though, you look great. Good luck with the workouts! :) (I've become one of those annoying workout addicts, haven't I? >.>)

Soukie still has the bestest hair in all of Gaf. I loved Space's 'Mad Men' look too. Ya'll just have great hair. Damn gays and their style. :P

You play TF2?! Why you never on steam?!
I haven't played TF2 regularly for a few years now, due to moving out and only having a laptop. It runs TF2 fine obviously, the Source engine isn't exactly demanding, but it's just cumbersome to play hooked up to the TV. Once Valve release the 'Big Screen' update for Steam, or I get a gaming rig, I'll be back to TF2. I'll have to get Ricky to play as well!
Hah, it is possible that I've just hit a slump. I've recently begun changing my routine after about three months of the same thing so it could be that. Plus the stress of moving and everything involved with that could be adding up as well.
That's gotta be it. I may not be frequenting the Skype chat so much what with this whole thesis thing to write, but I've still got your back. I know how hard it is to keep your motivation up, so I'll just nag you about it for a while. :P

But seriously, you should be proud of yourself for getting up off your arse and working out. It can be quite hard to find the will to keep at it, so don't let a bad period hold you down. I berieve in yooou~~~!
I know I keep saying this, but I'm going to get Ricky to take some new pics soon to document my progress. He's been telling me my back muscles look good but as I can't see them properly I've been wanting him to take a photo so that I can see. Maybe this weekend, or maybe I'll wait a for a couple more weeks of leg raises to take effect before I do. :P
Yeah, food's a bit expensive here. I'm pretty sure I'm shopping at the cheaper location nearby as well since my roommate goes there and he lives on the cheap side.

Going to be checking out some apartments today which is a bit nerve-wracking. There's not a lot that I can find in my price range and I really don't want to get something that's over $800.
So I checked out how many calories I eat... apparently I get 3250 calories a day, and up to 250g of protein and 345g of carbs. I know I eat a lot but Jaysus, I didn't realise I was eating that many calories, after reading the recommended calorie intake for my desired weight before I filled in my diet log I thought I was going to come up short. The website graded my diet as 'A-' though which is cool, due to low saturated fat and everything else being pretty balanced. (I was using caloriecount.about.com if you're interested)

Good luck with the apartment hunting, I know how draining it can be look at a load of different places. Our rent is kind of high but it's worth it to have our own place and not share. My ex's Dad is also our landlord, lol, so I didn't have to pay a deposit. Maybe you can find a diamond in the rough. XD

I love Simon Amstell SO MUCH
YES! I just love Never Mind The Buzzcocks in general. I dunno if I prefer him over Lamarr, they're both really funny, but Amstell is much cuter. And you know, the whole being gay thing helps.
 
Blergh, late to the poppers discussion. It's hit or miss for me, depends on the situation and the partner because with some people, it just doesn't work at all. With one of my fuckbuddies it's a huge trip when we're doing it slowly, probably one of the strangest, yet most awesome experiences, like getting insta-stoned while still being completely aware and somehow enhacing sensitiveness of all your skin.

And I'm not into drugs at all (especially since seeing what does coke do to an erection), but poppers is mostly safe when used in moderation.
 
6'2" and above. I didn't know you had a thing for Mexicans.
You mean giants. It's not nearly on the same level as neojubei's thing for Asian men, but yeah, as a white person, the last few pages have had way too many white people.

Seriously guys, just make a Tom Daley thread.
 
Kay, here's a quick picture of my new hair. Once I get back into working out (took a 1.5 year break because I had so much schoolwork) I think it should look good on me.

Looks great! What a change too. Now doesnt your head feel lighter? ;)

people always mistake me for being 16 or 17, so rude.

Im 25 and still get mistaken for being 18 :/ You get over it after a while. I blame tv shows and movies for casting such old people for young roles.
 
So I checked out how many calories I eat... apparently I get 3250 calories a day, and up to 250g of protein and 345g of carbs. I know I eat a lot but Jaysus, I didn't realise I was eating that many calories, after reading the recommended calorie intake for my desired weight before I filled in my diet log I thought I was going to come up short. The website graded my diet as 'A-' though which is cool, due to low saturated fat and everything else being pretty balanced. (I was using caloriecount.about.com if you're interested)

Wow, that's pretty close to what I was eating when I got up to 190. It should be good so long as your goal is to put on weight since, as you said, it's basically all healthy. I was following the meal plan in the workout routine so I expect mine should be rated highly too.

Im 25 and still get mistaken for being 18 :/ You get over it after a while. I blame tv shows and movies for casting such old people for young roles.

I can see that given your previous avatar.

Also, Butters is awesome. That is all.
 
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