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Yall beards are lame. Sorry if I look like a fatass.

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Yes please.

Fwiw you definitely don't look fat. Looks like a healthy average weight to me.
 
I sure can appreciate nice beards but those legs are awful. As someone for whom strong, meaty legs are a must, I have to say I'd pass on this guy.

Pfft here we have our own "sharp knees" version in the thread
joking with you :P really I can not believe you could pass on that guy, meaty legs or not,I wouldn't :P
 
I don't see anything wrong with that guy's legs. They're not super meaty thunder thighs, but I don't think they're stick figure thighs either. I can't really tell in that picture though.
 
I think its supposed to be 30.. but I think "gay death" is a fallacy anyway..

Blergh, I cannot wait to be 30 just so the kind of guys I fancy start paying me some attention. Will probably have to hit the gym to start bulking up a bit, as I lost a lot of weight since I started going to work by bike.
 
I meant to post earlier in the thread when you guys were posting PSN ID's. I added a couple of you already, based primarily on whether you had a Vita, hehe. My ID, not surprisingly, is GothPunk.

If 25 is 'gay death', then I'm doing it wrong. Best. Year. Ever.
Ditto on that for me. I kicked my 25th year off with a bang for sure. Well, 8 bangs to be specific. :P Since then I've been on a roll!

I look young for my age too so by the time I'm 30 I'll probably only then pass for 25. XD Does that mean I get 5 years of '25' goodness?

I'd say I could pass for older if I could grow a proper beard, but alas I can't. I can only grow a goatee/neckbeardy thing, and my body apparently hasn't decided upon a colour - my facial hair is brown, black, blonde and ginger. I think that's an Irish thing though.
My chest is also naturally smooth... eep.
 
I meant to post earlier in the thread when you guys were posting PSN ID's. I added a couple of you already, based primarily on whether you had a Vita, hehe. My ID, not surprisingly, is GothPunk.

Ditto on that for me. I kicked my 25th year off with a bang for sure. Well, 8 bangs to be specific. :P Since then I've been on a roll!

I look young for my age too so by the time I'm 30 I'll probably only then pass for 25. XD Does that mean I get 5 years of '25' goodness?

I'd say I could pass for older if I could grow a proper beard, but alas I can't. I can only grow a goatee/neckbeardy thing, and my body apparently hasn't decided upon a colour - my facial hair is brown, black, blonde and ginger. I think that's an Irish thing though.
My chest is also naturally smooth... eep.

I wouldn't worry about "gay death" at all. The thing is that for a very very long time, gay relationships are based solely on "hooking up" and very casual dating. This is an effect of pervasive homophobia and closetry. Now that gay people are finally more acceptive of themselves and gay marriage is legal in some places and taboo in fewer, gay relationships are becoming more similar to heterosexual ones. Its looked down upon for heterosexual men and women to sleep around and have one night stands in their late thirties because most heterosexuals have, by that time, ensconced themselves into marriage or long-term relationships. As homosexuality becomes part of normal society, gay relationships become more similar to straight ones.

If the sole extent of your relationship activity is going out to clubs and looking for casual sex, then yes, you might be very unhappy after 30.. but no more than a straight man would be.
 
I wouldn't worry about "gay death" at all. The thing is that for a very very long time, gay relationships are based solely on "hooking up" and very casual dating. This is an effect of pervasive homophobia and closetry. Now that gay people are finally more acceptive of themselves and gay marriage is legal in some places and taboo in fewer, gay relationships are becoming more similar to heterosexual ones. Its looked down upon for heterosexual men and women to sleep around and have one night stands in their late thirties because most heterosexuals have, by that time, ensconced themselves into marriage or long-term relationships. As homosexuality becomes part of normal society, gay relationships become more similar to straight ones.

If the sole extent of your relationship activity is going out to clubs and looking for casual sex, then yes, you might be very unhappy after 30.. but no more than a straight man would be.
Not sure I completely agree with you, but the premise of your post is very interesting. As always though, I think it's dangerous to lump 'gay society' all together like that. Yes there is the more shallow 'party party sex sex, Ohmigawd is that a wrinkle' part of the gay subculture, but I would think that there exists a sizeable group of people who reject that and always have rejected that (The very same people I think would say they don't 'fit in' at LGBT events etc). But perhaps you're right and that never was seen as the 'norm' and nevertheless it has become less acceptable for homosexuals to sleep around.

Perhaps that's exactly why some people in the community reject 'normalisation' of homosexuality, as they enjoy the 'rules' being different as it were.

Personally, I couldn't give two shits, age is just a number. I'm more of a serial monogamist so none of these 'issues' affect me. :P

There are confounding factors, like the HIV pandemic, that I would guess also affected the gay sexual culture - but still, interesting post Bel. :)
 
I'm glad you guys don't think im too fat or w/e. I've always felt like most people arent interested in a guy ( both genders) unless he's ripped or something. like, people are too interested in their ideal than what's right in front of them.
 
I'm glad you guys don't think im too fat or w/e. I've always felt like most people arent interested in a guy ( both genders) unless he's ripped or something. like, people are too interested in their ideal than what's right in front of them.

I think you're pretty cute. Have a little more confidence.
 
So I'm brand new to Neogaf, and of course I end up posting here first, haha. How's it going gay gaf? How fitting that I get approved for an account as my job gets incredibly slow and I need something to fill my days with.
 
Well then turning 25 is the least of your worries.

Hah, I guess. But it isn't like I'm actively looking for booty. So it really doesn't effect me too much. Bigger problem on that front is my "oh that dude is attractive... *looks closer* ... okay not really *turned off*" problem.
 
So I'm brand new to Neogaf, and of course I end up posting here first, haha. How's it going gay gaf? How fitting that I get approved for an account as my job gets incredibly slow and I need something to fill my days with.

Welcome! And yeah Gaf is a great way to kill time :) (except when it's down ;_;)
 
What a bizarre concept. I'm not even really familiar with the term, gay death, except in the sense of gays literally dying, heh. I guess we have time bombs inside us that go off at a predetermined point - sweet! Thinking your life is over at 25 is kind of sad, to me.
 
I never understood "gay death" as well. 25 seems like such an arbitrary number anyway. I've dated guys over 40 who were great.
 
You guys are missing the point: It's a subtle but hard jab at me getting older today. :(
 
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