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Does anyone still believe in the "1 in10 people is gay" statistic? I remember when I was a teen reading this and finding some comfort in it but now with more studies done is this stat still valid?

Well... that was the Kinsey report and that was a very long time ago. I don't know, I think the actual figure is 5% but its hard to gauge because people lie to surveys..
 
just wondering, what are your thoughts on smoking?

I think it's a disgusting habit and it's the biggest turn off ever. I have a few friends that do but I'm not gonna try to stop them since I guess it's pretty annoying having people telling you it's bad for you, etc, all the time.

I don't think I could ever date a smoker.

Is that an understandable position? to turn someone down or not date a guy just because he smokes?
 
just wondering, what are your thoughts on smoking?

I think it's a disgusting habit and it's the biggest turn off ever. I have a few friends that do but I'm not gonna try to stop them since I guess it's pretty annoying having people telling you it's bad for you, etc, all the time.

I don't think I could ever date a smoker.

Is that an understandable position? to turn someone down or not date a guy just because he smokes?

I'm 3 months without a cigarette and never felt better.. but my husband, who i would like to quit also, isn't doing it.. but its not really a big turn off.. the smell of cigarettes is enticing to me..
 
just wondering, what are your thoughts on smoking?

I think it's a disgusting habit and it's the biggest turn off ever. I have a few friends that do but I'm not gonna try to stop them since I guess it's pretty annoying having people telling you it's bad for you, etc, all the time.

I don't think I could ever date a smoker.

Is that an understandable position? to turn someone down or not date a guy just because he smokes?

Absolutely. Cigarettes just stain a person's body in a way that's hard to explain. Very stinky. A guy would have to be quite the hottie to make me get over the smell.
 
just wondering, what are your thoughts on smoking?

I think it's a disgusting habit and it's the biggest turn off ever. I have a few friends that do but I'm not gonna try to stop them since I guess it's pretty annoying having people telling you it's bad for you, etc, all the time.

I don't think I could ever date a smoker.

Is that an understandable position? to turn someone down or not date a guy just because he smokes?

Reminds me of my grandmother.

And she was the personal incarnation of Satan himself. Somehow, the universe had coalesced a pure, concentrated mote of absolute loathing and hatred into one individual whose sole purpose in life was to suck whatever joy and happiness she could from those around her.

Thus, I would never date a smoker.
 
Different life situations, different priorities. You can't measure "emotional growth" like that because we're not all living through the exact same situations and we don't all think the same. People should be open about it when they think it's time, IF they want. You can't say I'm not being honest with myself based on your own personal need to come out to the world, because I lack that need. And I'm not hiding to anyone anything that should matter to them, I'm not being unfair to anyone.

I'm by no means trying to minimize the feel of achievement and liberation you people experienced by coming out, just understand it's not the same for everyone.

Preach, sister. I don't need the condensing attitude from the 30 year old virgin (er-"not anymore! LOLZ!") and his posse. I've got bigger issues to fry than coming out on a parade float in my pink briefs while naked men dance in the streets to the tune of IT'S RAINING MEN. My sexuality is soooooooooooooooooooooo far down on the "give a damn about" meter that it's kinda funny that some people take it as a slight that I don't give a damn and don't think it's anyone but the person I'm fucking's business that I'm gay as some personal offense.

How about the fact that I get more offended by the assholes that treat me like I'm retarded because I have communication issues? Hmmm? That is a bigger "give a damn" about issue than my goddamn wanting dick.
 
I wouldn't not date a smoker. I'd just tell him to take it somewhere else because I really dislike cigarette smoke. Eventually I'd try to get him to stop if possible, but if he won't budge, it's not like I'd dump him for that.
 
Pipe tobacco can be pleasant, but I'm not really a fan of cigarettes. Though I don't really care as long as a person isn't doing it a lot, or smells like it all the time, then I sort of feel like I'm watching someone kill themselves.
 
just wondering, what are your thoughts on smoking?

I think it's a disgusting habit and it's the biggest turn off ever. I have a few friends that do but I'm not gonna try to stop them since I guess it's pretty annoying having people telling you it's bad for you, etc, all the time.

I don't think I could ever date a smoker.

Is that an understandable position? to turn someone down or not date a guy just because he smokes?
I'd prefer somebody who didn't smoke, but it wouldn't be a deal-breaker.

Preach, sister. I don't need the condensing attitude from the 30 year old virgin (er-"not anymore! LOLZ!") and his posse. I've got bigger issues to fry than coming out on a parade float in my pink briefs while naked men dance in the streets to the tune of IT'S RAINING MEN. My sexuality is soooooooooooooooooooooo far down on the "give a damn about" meter that it's kinda funny that some people take it as a slight that I don't give a damn and don't think it's anyone but the person I'm fucking's business that I'm gay as some personal offense.

How about the fact that I get more offended by the assholes that treat me like I'm retarded because I have communication issues? Hmmm? That is a bigger "give a damn" about issue than my goddamn wanting dick.
You don't think that's a bit harsh? I don't think anybody called you retarded, and I don't see the need to make personal attacks on somebody who wasn't malicious to you to begin with.
 
I think I could probably handle an "occasional" smoker. I guess sometimes that's part of the "whole package". But I couldn't possibly date someone who smokes all the time.

It's not really about hating the smoke per se, it's just an habit that I will never understand. You're paying money for something that can kill you and the people around you and tastes like shit (not that I've ever tasted it but it's SMOKE!!! burning shit!!!). I guess it's an acquired taste it just seems pretty stupid to me.

Same for drinking, most of the stuff I've tasted TERRIBLE, why do people even pay for that?

Guys, I'm eating pizza at a joint and across from me is a sexy doctor in green scrubs and stethoscope. Trying to make eye contact.
FAINT!!!!!
 
Walk up to him and tell him your chest aches while holding an extremely greasy slice of pizza. Breathe heavily and fall down on him for balance. Make it look like you're about to have a heart attack.

Congrats on the sex.
 
I think I could probably handle an "occasional" smoker. I guess sometimes that's part of the "whole package". But I couldn't possibly date someone who smokes all the time.

It's not really about hating the smoke per se, it's just an habit that I will never understand. You're paying money for something that can kill you and the people around you and tastes like shit (not that I've ever tasted it but it's SMOKE!!! burning shit!!!). I guess it's an acquired taste it just seems pretty stupid to me.

Same for drinking, most of the stuff I've tasted TERRIBLE, why do people even pay for that?
People get pleasure out of different things. I'll probably end up a teetotal, as I have enough personal reasons not to drink, but it's something that so many other people enjoy that I don't think it would be particularly reasonable to not date anybody who drinks.

Walk up to him and tell him your chest aches while holding an extremely greasy slice of pizza. Breathe heavily and fall down on him for balance. Make it look like you're about to have a heart attack.

Congrats on the sex.
And when you get pizza grease all over him, offer to wipe it up with your tongue.
 
People get pleasure out of different things. I'll probably end up a teetotal, as I have enough personal reasons not to drink, but it's something that so many other people enjoy that I don't think it would be particularly reasonable to not date anybody who drinks.
I don't really have a problem with drinking, though I still don't get it :P
 
just wondering, what are your thoughts on smoking?

I think it's a disgusting habit and it's the biggest turn off ever. I have a few friends that do but I'm not gonna try to stop them since I guess it's pretty annoying having people telling you it's bad for you, etc, all the time.

I don't think I could ever date a smoker.

Is that an understandable position? to turn someone down or not date a guy just because he smokes?

Nope, not unreasonable at all. I agree 100%.
 
Preach, sister. I don't need the condensing attitude from the 30 year old virgin (er-"not anymore! LOLZ!") and his posse. I've got bigger issues to fry than coming out on a parade float in my pink briefs while naked men dance in the streets to the tune of IT'S RAINING MEN. My sexuality is soooooooooooooooooooooo far down on the "give a damn about" meter that it's kinda funny that some people take it as a slight that I don't give a damn and don't think it's anyone but the person I'm fucking's business that I'm gay as some personal offense.

How about the fact that I get more offended by the assholes that treat me like I'm retarded because I have communication issues? Hmmm? That is a bigger "give a damn" about issue than my goddamn wanting dick.

Defensive much?
 
just wondering, what are your thoughts on smoking?

I think it's a disgusting habit and it's the biggest turn off ever. I have a few friends that do but I'm not gonna try to stop them since I guess it's pretty annoying having people telling you it's bad for you, etc, all the time.

I don't think I could ever date a smoker.

Is that an understandable position? to turn someone down or not date a guy just because he smokes?
That's always been a deal breaker for me. Don't want someone I date to even have 1 smoke a year. Can't stand it and don't want to live with someone who does it.
 
Preach, sister. I don't need the condensing attitude from the 30 year old virgin (er-"not anymore! LOLZ!") and his posse. I've got bigger issues to fry than coming out on a parade float in my pink briefs while naked men dance in the streets to the tune of IT'S RAINING MEN. My sexuality is soooooooooooooooooooooo far down on the "give a damn about" meter that it's kinda funny that some people take it as a slight that I don't give a damn and don't think it's anyone but the person I'm fucking's business that I'm gay as some personal offense.

How about the fact that I get more offended by the assholes that treat me like I'm retarded because I have communication issues? Hmmm? That is a bigger "give a damn" about issue than my goddamn wanting dick.

lmfao what the fuck

edit: cigarette smoking is a deal breaker

weed is w/e

edit 2: drinking is fine too

edit 3: help i need a doctor i cut myself on how edgy TheSeks' post was
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I'm 3 months without a cigarette and never felt better.. but my husband, who i would like to quit also, isn't doing it.. but its not really a big turn off.. the smell of cigarettes is enticing to me..

Congrats on the 3 months ^_^

My siggy other and I have been smoke-free for a little over 3 weeks....I still have the random taste for cigarette's rushing to my conscience (the way they taste when you've been a long time smoker, not the nasty beginner taste), which makes me want one :( but I've managed to avoid cheating and having any bit of a cig.

I don't feel good or bad, but I don't wanna sleep in anymore, or can't. I sleep lighter, I suppose.
 
People get pleasure out of different things. I'll probably end up a teetotal, as I have enough personal reasons not to drink, but it's something that so many other people enjoy that I don't think it would be particularly reasonable to not date anybody who drinks.

Difference between drinking and smoking is that the smell gets into everything. And then there are the stains...

There's really nothing pleasant about it.
 
Difference between drinking and smoking is that the smell gets into everything. And then there are the stains...

There's really nothing pleasant about it.
Don't get me wrong, I don't like smoking, and if I was with somebody who smoked, they'd need to do it outside, but I've become so accustomed to cigarette smoke where I live that it doesn't bother me as much as it probably should.
 
She did that to a 15-year-old you? Ouch. Did she eventually get over it?

Yeah things are essentially fine. I'm ambivalent to her and she's over it, as my older brother is no longer the favorite son, so I guess I got promoted. The immediate aftermath was that I joined the GSA at school, one of the advisors found out what happened to me and then got involved, as it's quite illegal to kick out a 15 year old, and she had to take me back home.

But screw bad memories, I had my birthday party Saturday, got a mohawk, played real life Slender in the woods with my friends, and EARTHBOUND, guys, earthbound!!! I've wanted it since it came out in '95, so bad, and I finally have it! I was literally weeping with joy when i started it tonight. My holy trinity of SNES games I wanted as a kid is finally complete (Mega Man 7, Mega Man X3, and Earthbound!) So so happy = D
 
Meet gay guys.

Was just going to say the same thing. :P

Straight guys are fine but guys actually into you are way better.

Don't get me wrong, I don't like smoking, and if I was with somebody who smoked, they'd need to do it outside, but I've become so accustomed to cigarette smoke where I live that it doesn't bother me as much as it probably should.

Heh, all the power to you. Personally, I just could never deal with it. I have very few dealbreakers and, unfortunately, cigarettes are one of them. Plus, I'm not a huge fan of the long term health implications of smoking. I watched the complete deterioration of said devilspawn of a grandmother and I can't imagine how horrible it would be for someone I actually loved to go through it.
 
Meet gay guys.
There's a whole thread of 'em.

Heh, all the power to you. Personally, I just could never deal with it. I have very few dealbreakers and, unfortunately, cigarettes are one of them. Plus, I'm not a huge fan of the long term health implications of smoking. I watched the complete deterioration of said devilspawn of a grandmother and I can't imagine how horrible it would be for someone I actually loved to go through it.
I understand that. My grandfather was a life-long smoker until he died four years ago, and it was awful watching him carry around an oxygen tank. That said, I went to a hotel in a different city for the first time in ages, and when I didn't see people smoking, it kind of freaked me out.
 
Same, I've seen firsthand close relatives die because of smoking-related health problems, it's not nice. And really, my clothes and hair smelling like cigarette? Lolno. I was furious at a friend that borrowed my 3DS and returned it a bit smelly, he didn't hear the end of it.
 
I have several cousins who smoke, but I never catch a whiff of it on them. They do a pretty good job masking it.

While its a huge negative, I don't think it would be a deal breaker for me. What happens if the guy is perfect in every other way? And somehow manages to mask that filthy odor on his breath?

A real dealbreaker is rotten teeth though, no masking that.
 
If he's perfect in every other way, it's going to suck seeing him deteriorate because of his habit. Lose-lose situation.
 
I have several cousins who smoke, but I never catch a whiff of it on them. They do a pretty good job masking it.

While its a huge negative, I don't think it would be a deal breaker for me. What happens if the guy is perfect in every other way? And somehow manages to mask that filthy odor on his breath?

A real dealbreaker is rotten teeth though, no masking that.

Invest in mint gum is the best move in that instance. lol
 
Is that neck tattoo real? Googling him I'm not seeing it.

I hope it's not real. It's weird.
Maybe it's new.

I'd be way too afraid of getting a neck tattoo to ever do it. I'm down with having needles stuck in me, but that close to my throat? All it takes is poor aim and the thing's going right in my jugular, and choking up blood in a tattoo parlor is not how I want to go out.

Edit: And there's an 80 post gap between BeesEight and me. You guys need to post more.
 
Preach, sister. I don't need the condensing attitude from the 30 year old virgin (er-"not anymore! LOLZ!") and his posse. I've got bigger issues to fry than coming out on a parade float in my pink briefs while naked men dance in the streets to the tune of IT'S RAINING MEN. My sexuality is soooooooooooooooooooooo far down on the "give a damn about" meter that it's kinda funny that some people take it as a slight that I don't give a damn and don't think it's anyone but the person I'm fucking's business that I'm gay as some personal offense.

How about the fact that I get more offended by the assholes that treat me like I'm retarded because I have communication issues? Hmmm? That is a bigger "give a damn" about issue than my goddamn wanting dick.

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Maybe it's new.

I'd be way too afraid of getting a neck tattoo to ever do it. I'm down with having needles stuck in me, but that close to my throat? All it takes is poor aim and the thing's going right in my jugular, and choking up blood in a tattoo parlor is not how I want to go out.

Edit: And there's an 80 post gap between BeesEight and me. You guys need to post more.

You have tats Lunch?

I have a thing for guys with tats
 
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