Jealous. My neighbourhood's sketchy in broad daylight, let alone 4am.
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Jealous. My neighbourhood's sketchy in broad daylight, let alone 4am.
SpaceBridge
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What part of the city are you MrF?
just move to chicago then obvvvv
North York, not too far from Jane and Finch. I was exaggerating a bit, but muggings and break-ins have been known to happen once in a while.
Well I may be visiting at the very least. I was running the idea by my Dad and he said to go for it sometime soon, and even expressed interest in coming haha.
SpaceBridge
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Oh goodness. Yeah, you don't wanna be out at 4am.
I can't find it, Dragon. I think he's deleted it. 
Suffice it to say it's exactly what it sounds like (but I remember the line being "Come on dawg, come on... not here... come on, dawg.") and exactly what you're thinking.
Suffice it to say it's exactly what it sounds like (but I remember the line being "Come on dawg, come on... not here... come on, dawg.") and exactly what you're thinking.Yeah. It's not too bad in my neighbourhood but the slight sketchiness and occasional incident is enough to make me want to live somewhere closer downtown.
SpaceBridge
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What school are you at?
York University/Sheridan College (joint program).
Henchmen21
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And now my copy of Eternal Darkness doesn't work again....sigh. After I thought I finally fixed it.
SpaceBridge
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So you dont get downtown much then?
Not as much as I'd like, that's for sure. I moved here in 2010 but still feel like I've barely scratched the surface in exploring the city outside the conventional fare. This school year in particular has been really stressful/busy so far, and with work on top of that I don't have much time for anything. :/
GasProblem
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So how do you actually start dating guys? There's a bar I go to every thursday, but it's more of a meet people I know and drink a beer kind of bar then a meet guys that are actually my type bar. One time I actually talked for an hour with a guy I've never saw there before, I thought he was kind of cute and he even bought me beer. In my head I was already going "....wait, is this really happening?" but in the end he started talking about his boyfriend. Now I don't mind some casual chatting but don't give me the wrong ideas :lol. I go to parties with people I've met at this bar as well, but I have the same problems at those parties, people are nice, just not alot of guys that are my type (as in, 90% is clean shaven. I want to see some hair damnit).
Guess I could try out Grindr/Scruff/Growlr but whole quick hookup image I have kind of puts me off.
I should try out some other bars that aren't safe havens. A bar where I may actually encounter a beard and maybe even some chest hair. Go alone, so I have no one to fall back on and be forced to talk to strangers. Need to look into some kind off ball growth formula though, because right now they're not big enough to actually do this.
Guess I could try out Grindr/Scruff/Growlr but whole quick hookup image I have kind of puts me off.
I should try out some other bars that aren't safe havens. A bar where I may actually encounter a beard and maybe even some chest hair. Go alone, so I have no one to fall back on and be forced to talk to strangers. Need to look into some kind off ball growth formula though, because right now they're not big enough to actually do this.
if you're not meeting people in real life, then the internet can work. I've met people there, including my current BF who i am on year 4 with.
There are people just like you on those websites, in the sense that they want to meet people but do know where else to turn..
Can you imagine trying to meet someone 20 years ago or even 10 years ago? I remember being about that long ago, and answering someone in the dating section of a magazine. It was a terrible relationship, but i didnt really have any other way of meeting people. Then internet dating kind of exploded and I used that pretty extensively.
I did meet someone cool in a book store once, a French diplomat. It was just a bit of fun since I left the country about three weeks after we met which was too bad really.
I've only met a few gay people in real life, and honestly those are the most valuable people to me. Only two of them, one of them I crushed on hard for years and the other one seemed like we had alot of potential, but then told me he had a boyfriend like 4 months later. We're still friends though like 8 years later.
I have never met anyone in a bar that I talked to for longer than 24 hours.
tamaster92
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He kind of told the deets on skype chat
Nothing too bad just that I keep meeting random guys like twice a week now that I've started actually doing stuff with guys.
Makes me feel slutty lol
Mystic Theurge
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Henchmen21
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Morning guys. How's everyone's sunday been so far?
tamaster92
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Boring. At work now, homework later.
RatskyWatsky
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Fine. I have the house to myself today, so I've been blaring Taylor Swift while cooking two large pots of mashed potatoes. I cut my finger though, and had to put a huge band aid on it, so typing is really difficult. At least I don't have to do the dishes now!
Well I've been lurking but I may as well join in now that I have something to talk about. 22 year old gay Brit here. Nice to meet y'all.
Quite interesting. Hopefully the following isn't too adult. Since I'm a hopeless virgin I finally gave in and decided to try out dating/hook up sites recently. I have no experience with relationships and I wont deny that hearing about relationships on the net has made me a bit wary. But I thought, "What have I got to lose?" My self respect apparently.
I haven't been having much luck on dating sites so I was happy when I received a message today on a gay hookup site. It consisted of two words which I'm sure you can guess. Since I don't believe you can expect much in the way of meaningful conversation on a gay hookup site I thought I may as well see who asking. Behold, this super hot guy that is totally my type and way out of my league appearance wise.
I was overjoyed. I sent a message asking if he really wanted to and his reply was short yet again. He replied,
A bit abrassive and blunt but again this is a hookup site. So before I replied I thought I would get a second opinion from my most reliable friend... and proceeded to get berrated and basically told that you're better than this. You're worth more than this.
For some reason I never considered how desperate and degrading to myself this actually was. Why have a gotten to the point where I'd be happy to meet up with some random guy who really doesn't give a damn about me and just wants to take my virginity just so I can experience.. uh.. intercourse.
And the sad thing is I'm still considering the offer. What's wrong with me? Is this normal? I am just making a big deal out of nothing?
Quite interesting. Hopefully the following isn't too adult. Since I'm a hopeless virgin I finally gave in and decided to try out dating/hook up sites recently. I have no experience with relationships and I wont deny that hearing about relationships on the net has made me a bit wary. But I thought, "What have I got to lose?" My self respect apparently.
I haven't been having much luck on dating sites so I was happy when I received a message today on a gay hookup site. It consisted of two words which I'm sure you can guess. Since I don't believe you can expect much in the way of meaningful conversation on a gay hookup site I thought I may as well see who asking. Behold, this super hot guy that is totally my type and way out of my league appearance wise.
I was overjoyed. I sent a message asking if he really wanted to and his reply was short yet again. He replied,
"as long as you can take my huge you know what."
For some reason I never considered how desperate and degrading to myself this actually was. Why have a gotten to the point where I'd be happy to meet up with some random guy who really doesn't give a damn about me and just wants to take my virginity just so I can experience.. uh.. intercourse.
And the sad thing is I'm still considering the offer. What's wrong with me? Is this normal? I am just making a big deal out of nothing?
RatskyWatsky
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SpaceBridge
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The first guy you have sex with rarely becomes your life partner. That being said, I guarantee if you wanna avoid self loathing and regret after the hook up I'd advise your first time being with someone more substantial. Keep in mind there are guys out there who only pursue virgins. You're gonna feel like shit afterwards.
The sad reality is this type of conversation has become the norm. If you've decided to join a hookup site, prepare to encounter these kind of messages on a regular basis. You're in a tough spot because if this guy is hot, huge, and someone you want to be intimate with, chances are you'll want more if it goes well. Chances are, he might not. But you never know.
I think it's tough since this is your first experience - personally I'd try finding someone who knows you're new and is willing to guide you a bit. Having "fun" with guys only looking for a one nighter might bring your confidence down a bit. My suggestion is to keep hunting and look for someone who can actually write a full sentence. If you do decide to meet this guy, just know that it could go either way
Hmm well I don't know I'd this is the best way for your introduction. My first time was special to me, probably too special. I really liked the person but the feelings weren't 100% reciprocated and then it turned into a giant mess that kind of ruined my life for a number of years. So in that sense an easy pick up might be less.....involved.
SpaceBridge
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And to be honest, if he's hung and it's your first time I doubt he will be able to get it in. You will be anxious and nervous and your body will betray you. He will not have the patience if all he want is a one night stand.
He has a huge dick so yes, yes you should have sex with him.
Oh, and welcome!
Huh I don't think a guy with a huge dick is a really good idea if he's a virgin, this will not be a pleasant experience for him...
And I'd avoid a random hook-up for your first time, especially a guy like that. You'll probably feel like shit afterwards because the guy won't give a damn about you during and after the act.
Henchmen21
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Welcome dellingr.
Lol Space. Just noticed that gif you posted yesterday was tweaked. Was watching an episode and they had Warpath in it and the barrel was chest high. Felt stupid later.
Lol Space. Just noticed that gif you posted yesterday was tweaked. Was watching an episode and they had Warpath in it and the barrel was chest high. Felt stupid later.
I agree with "don't do it". I believe that hooking up with some creep with the obvious intention to take your virginity and be done with you is quite deplorable, honestly. But if you're that desperate, just consider what has been said above; if this... gentleman is as "gifted" as he says he is, you could be in for a world of pain for it being your first time.
It will be unpleasant during, and it will be unpleasant after for more reasons than one. You're still just 22, there's no reason to be rash.
I dunno, whenever a guy mentions his big cock, I take it as just exaggerated dirty talk -- big not actually referring to the dimensions of his penis.
I recently got Grindr but Im not sure what to do with it. I feel like I should have a slutty period but Im too wary of strangers and stds. And I like to think Im not picky, but virtually none of the guys in my area are my type (and constantly ignoring/blocking makes me feel like a bastard).
I recently got Grindr but Im not sure what to do with it. I feel like I should have a slutty period but Im too wary of strangers and stds. And I like to think Im not picky, but virtually none of the guys in my area are my type (and constantly ignoring/blocking makes me feel like a bastard).
Welcome dellingr !
I agree with the opinions voiced above. You probably shouldn't sleep with him in an act of desperation. Also, if it's your first time you bottom, you may want to find someone who isn't too "well endowed", or who is very patient and gentle (or both), because otherwise chances you're not really going to enjoy it (especially if he goes in like a brute with his pneumatic drill).
I agree with the opinions voiced above. You probably shouldn't sleep with him in an act of desperation. Also, if it's your first time you bottom, you may want to find someone who isn't too "well endowed", or who is very patient and gentle (or both), because otherwise chances you're not really going to enjoy it (especially if he goes in like a brute with his pneumatic drill).
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Well, I mean, anything less than a huge dick woul-
You know, I'm actually getting bored of this schtick. Again. Bleh.
It can be really hit or miss, and then even if you eventually meet up most likely won't go anywhere. I've gone back and looked at my profile and getting messages from people and barf. Certainly makes me realize how good I have things now especially when I'm feeling dissatisfied with my relationship.
SpaceBridge
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This dude will use you, break you in, then send you home and gloat about it with his group of buddies. You may see him again in some club, online and it will be a reminder of your weakness. It's a disaster my friend.
Yeah out of idle curiosity I've had Grindr installed for a while now. Apparently I take flattering selfies because I'm regularly inundated by messages, lol. I guess that means I'm fairly judicious with who I do and don't reply to, but the whole experience has actually made me far less willing to just hook up with anyone. Too much attention from... Grindr types hasn't really done much for my confidence. I've had a couple of great conversations (with attractive people), which is all that keeps me from getting rid of it; unfortunately in the last case the person was supposedly only down for the weekend which is a shame, because he seemed just about perfect.
Grindr's also worth it for the amusement of spotting people I recognise though.
Grindr's also worth it for the amusement of spotting people I recognise though.
Henchmen21
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So bored right now
SpaceBridge
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So bored right now
Watch Transforners Prime.
Henchmen21
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SpaceBridge
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Thanks, I needed that laugh
Not this again, listen, we've already established my penis is bigger and stronger.
Henchmen21
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But is it More than Meets the Eye?
Electivirus
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Henchmen21
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I'm sure it Transforms quite nicely. (I can't think of a good Roll Out pun. D
Rolling out is what you do when your done
SpaceBridge
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It's More then Meets the Mouth.
Henchmen21
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He lives close to you?
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