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I have wide shoulders, sucks for shirts.

you and me both :(

Opinions on beard/hair?

I kinda want to cut the hair, and beard feels odd, like it's not the right length but I can't place it. Don't comment on my intel shirt, it's my IDGAF school day.

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Looking mighty good man. Maybe cut the beard to look like Tony Stark from Iron Man.
 
The beard looks great. I'd keep it like that. Don't do the Tony Stark beard that was suggested above. The hair would probably look nice a little shorter though. Still looks good though.
 
Opinions on beard/hair?

I kinda want to cut the hair, and beard feels odd, like it's not the right length but I can't place it. Don't comment on my intel shirt, it's my IDGAF school day.

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Beard looks great, shorter hair would be perfect.

And what is it with straight Rugby players? UNF.

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So what do you do if you want to cuddle a lot but you don't want a lot of sex? Most guys have a hard time cuddling without wanting more, right?
 
So what do you do if you want to cuddle a lot but you don't want a lot of sex? Most guys have a hard time cuddling without wanting more, right?

I'd just tell a person as much. I think being straight forward is always the best option with intimacy personally. Heck, I have one or two friends that I don't have sexual relationships with but cuddle with.
 
I'd just tell a person as much. I think being straight forward is always the best option with intimacy personally. Heck, I have one or two friends that I don't have sexual relationships with but cuddle with.

Even if I'm straightforward I think people would lie about wanting to just cuddle hoping that I'll change my mind. For a lot of guys it might be very hard to imagine that a man wants to cuddle without sex.
 
Even if I'm straightforward I think people would lie about wanting to just cuddle hoping that I'll change my mind. For a lot of guys it might be very hard to imagine that a man wants to cuddle without sex.

I can cuddle without leading to anything. It's the cuddling leading to making out leading to, well, everything. Most nights, the boyfriend and I cuddle without sex, and I've done the same thing with friends. I've got a buddy of mine who we just hang out and play videogames/watch movies and cuddle.
 
Even if I'm straightforward I think people would lie about wanting to just cuddle hoping that I'll change my mind. For a lot of guys it might be very hard to imagine that a man wants to cuddle without sex.

True. lol, at least this way they know what they're getting into. I think a lot of guys want someone to cuddle with.
 
So what do you do if you want to cuddle a lot but you don't want a lot of sex? Most guys have a hard time cuddling without wanting more, right?

Find a guy who has a loooooooong refractory period.

I can cuddle without leading to anything. It's the cuddling leading to making out leading to, well, everything. Most nights, the boyfriend and I cuddle without sex, and I've done the same thing with friends. I've got a buddy of mine who we just hang out and play videogames/watch movies and cuddle.

Argh, I need a cuddle buddy! >__<
 
Wilson Bethel
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YES. Yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes!

Mmm. I've watched so many damn episodes of Hart of Dixie, but have no friggin' idea what's going on in this show because I watch it with the volume low and only really pay attention when he's on-screen. (usually while surfing the net)

Meanwhile, HylianGreg has been working on his impersonation of the character's accent..
"so.. you mean you didn't wake me up for sex?"
 
Going to go out on a limb here just for any additional advice that may help me with this situation.

I'm a male in college/university and went out for a date with a girl who confessed she is in love with a girl back home (but does like me), but has yet to really tell anyone about her bi feelings. She doesn't know if the girl is l/b/straight, and hasn't made a decision yet as to what to do about her feelings.

Since it's a touchy subject I've been keeping my distance, but am trying to decide if that's the right thing to do or not.

Any advice? (I know this isn't relationship GAF, but figured I'd start here)
 
Going to go out on a limb here just for any additional advice that may help me with this situation.

I'm a male in college/university and went out for a date with a girl who confessed she is in love with a girl back home (but does like me), but has yet to really tell anyone about her bi feelings. She doesn't know if the girl is l/b/straight, and hasn't made a decision yet as to what to do about her feelings.

Since it's a touchy subject I've been keeping my distance, but am trying to decide if that's the right thing to do or not.

Any advice? (I know this isn't relationship GAF, but figured I'd start here)

Just be a friend to her. These things take time and it always helps to have a friend in real life to talk about your sexuality with.
 
Going to go out on a limb here just for any additional advice that may help me with this situation.

I'm a male in college/university and went out for a date with a girl who confessed she is in love with a girl back home (but does like me), but has yet to really tell anyone about her bi feelings. She doesn't know if the girl is l/b/straight, and hasn't made a decision yet as to what to do about her feelings.

Since it's a touchy subject I've been keeping my distance, but am trying to decide if that's the right thing to do or not.

Any advice? (I know this isn't relationship GAF, but figured I'd start here)

Just be there for her if she needs an ear.
 
Going to go out on a limb here just for any additional advice that may help me with this situation.

I'm a male in college/university and went out for a date with a girl who confessed she is in love with a girl back home (but does like me), but has yet to really tell anyone about her bi feelings. She doesn't know if the girl is l/b/straight, and hasn't made a decision yet as to what to do about her feelings.

Since it's a touchy subject I've been keeping my distance, but am trying to decide if that's the right thing to do or not.

Any advice? (I know this isn't relationship GAF, but figured I'd start here)


Abort the situation. There's no way you're coming out the winner.


And don't do the friend thing either.
 
Just be a friend to her. These things take time and it always helps to have a friend in real life to talk about your sexuality with.

Just be there for her if she needs an ear.

Abort the situation. There's no way you're coming out the winner.


And don't do the friend thing either.

Conflicting replies here. Different opinions are good though.

So you think even if she finds out her friend is straight I'll have no chance? Even though she agreed to a date in the first place and apparently likes me? Just wondering why you think this so I can take it into consideration.
 
So, I'm rearranging all of my remixes in iTunes (just got the computer back after it exploded like a week ago) because I just rendered a few I meant to last week and I had Street Fighter and Homestuck in the album column next to eachother.

My brain read it as "Street Fucker."

Uhhhhhhh.
 
Conflicting replies here. Different opinions are good though.

So you think even if she finds out her friend is straight I'll have no chance? Even though she agreed to a date in the first place and apparently likes me? Just wondering why you think this so I can take it into consideration.

If she's a lesbian you have no chance anyway (unless you get a sex change, lol), but it sounds like she's still finding herself? I say just be a friend because you certainly don't want to put pressure on her, and any relationship should be based in a strong friendship IMO. If she finds over time that she's not into men or has stronger feelings for this girl than you got a chance to be supportive of someone going through a tough time. If she considers herself bi than I don't see why you two can't still pursue a relationship later.
 
Conflicting replies here. Different opinions are good though.

So you think even if she finds out her friend is straight I'll have no chance? Even though she agreed to a date in the first place and apparently likes me? Just wondering why you think this so I can take it into consideration.

no gay likes seeing another gay/bi person being sexually confused with no one to confide in. Perhaps that's why others are recommending you to be her friend. However, I think that's extremely unfair to you. You're there because you want to date her not to be her counselor. Don't get sucked in.

Additionally, she's in love with the other girl. Even if that girl turns out be straight she won't be emotionally ready to date you.
 
is that when you're checking if you cleaned out your system or else you'll have a chocolate fondue disaster on his speared cheese cubes?

What. We had beer and fucking chicken fingers/fries. lol.

It was alright. No chemistry, as usual. Hope we'll be friends though. Good guy.
 
This is my first time posting here...but i feel like every guy I meet plays up "being gay". I just want tell them to shut up, your already cute. I would rather meet a guy and fall for him and for us not have to say anything. :( i just want to meet a guy that doesnt have to tell everyone in the world he is gay....its such a turn off for me. I hope im not weird or something
 
This is my first time posting here...but i feel like every guy I meet plays up "being gay". I just want tell them to shut up, your already cute. I would rather meet a guy and fall for him and for us not have to say anything. :( i just want to meet a guy that doesnt have to tell everyone in the world he is gay....its such a turn off for me. I hope im not weird or something

If you're weird then I am too - I largely feel the same way and it's also the same reason I'm not really into pride. I don't feel like your sexuality has to (or should) define you the way it seems to for some people. But then for others that seems to genuinely be who they are (ex. more 'feminine') and I guess at that level it's just a matter of me not being personally attracted to that personality type.
 
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