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TrutaS said:
Anyway this political correctness is complicated for an european to deal with, because sometimes we say things that in our countries would be completely harmless but not in America.
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That's exactly the reason, from an outsider point of view it's people getting offended for something that seems harmless. Sometimes I get why you americans find things offensive, sometimes I don't.

lunch said:
What sorts of subjects do you talk about where you feel like you're treading on thin ice and people are twisting your intentions? I get that feeling occasionally on GAF, but in person, I've never really had that worry.
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The thing about twisting intentions comes from some of the threads I've read here. I haven't experienced something like that in person. What I'm always worried about in real life it's more about not understanding people. There's always another side to any story, everyone has a reason to act the way they act and I don't like to be judgmental. It's probably just social anxiety, but when I'm meeting someone, I feel like I have to be extremely careful. I'm trying to remember if I've offended someone while meeting him, but I can't. I don't know where this thing comes from.
 
I don't believe the Gaydar has anything to do with that look. The look is a sexual interest communication, it's a decent flirt that can be done in public.

The gaydar is the ability to recognize who is gay and who is not in an instant. It isn't that strange in fact, because with exposure we tend to know the details about movement, interests and mannerisms most gay people tend to have even if subtly and that kowledge becomes second nature. Not flawless by any stretch, but effective nonetheless.

Ps: some of you might feel offended by me saying most gays have mannerisms, even though that is absolutely not my intention (how could it be), so please note when I say that it is flawed, and many times they are subtle, if present even.
 
Nlroh said:
I love reading about fucked up people, but coprophilia doesn't sound interesting at all.
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The book isn't about coprophilia. It's probably mentioned only once like BlazingDarkness said.

lunch said:
Yep. I don't know anything about classical music, but I listened to this recording and while the piece didn't personally move me (and to your credit, I believe you did say that it would different for different people), it was really serene, even during the crescendos. It reminded me quite a bit of A Midsummer Night's Dream, although I can't pin down why.
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To be honest I liked it more the first time I heard it. I haven't listen to it anymore since I mentioned it.
 
Okay, GayGAF. I either need advice or a slap across the face. Whichever you all see fit. :D

So, my situation is, I met someone a couple of weeks ago and we have been talking back and forth. So, we finally met on Monday and it was great. We talked a bit, there seemed to be a little chemistry there, he seemed like an incredibly nice guy.

So, I suppose the biggest issue for me is that, when it comes to the communication via text and all, it's a bit lacking on his end. I seem to have to be the one to send the texts and all, and I don't get a lot of responses half the time. I don't send them obsessively, but I do sent the occasional "How was your day" or "Big plans for the night?" But again, always seems like I am sending the first texts.

Also, he's a good guy and I feel there is potential that a nice friendship can grow out of it, and depending on how things go down the road, maybe something more. The problem is that I am the type of person who feels rejected really easy. So the whole texting stuff and not getting a lot of responses is making me feel a bit down.

So, any advice on that? I'd like to enjoy the situation, not feel like a pile of depressed goo.
 
That's the problem with texting, people put way too much meaning about someone not replying right away or someone who would look at a text, then forget about it and not reply.

If you want to see him again, try and set something up. Face to face is always preferable when you don't really know someone and if he is interested, then he will make an effort to meet up. If he is noncommittal, then forget about it.
 
Wilsongt said:
So, any advice on that? I'd like to enjoy the situation, not feel like a pile of depressed goo.
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Correct me if I'm wrong, this isn't your first time posting similar anxiety about the other person not responding to your texts often enough correct?

Honestly, you may not feel like you're obsessively sending texts, but you are definitely obsessive over his replies (or lack of them). You really should not let anybody affect your mood like that, especially someone you just met and not even dating yet. There is no reason to approach this with anything but a casual attitude, if he responds, great, if not just go about your day. To be so hung up this early is simply not a healthy attitude, and will probably become problematic if the friendship or relationship develops further.
 
I heard this thread was for otters :3


Re: me being bicurious
I still consider myself a lesbian. I guess I have an attraction to men but it's not very strong. I'll probably never date a guy.
 
Billiechu said:
I still consider myself a lesbian. I guess I have an attraction to men but it's not very strong. I'll probably never date a guy.
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It's understandable, I guess. I only started considering myself bisexual in the past few months, but I felt a lot more able to connect to other guys and think about relationships with them once I'd got to grips with myself, as it were.

Never say never ever, is my point. Besides, if Tennant knocked on your door right now and asked you out, I don't believe for a single second that you'd turn him down. ;)
 
Billiechu said:
I heard this thread was for otters :3


Re: me being bicurious
I still consider myself a lesbian. I guess I have an attraction to men but it's not very strong. I'll probably never date a guy.
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GODDAMIT I HATE P.E > : |

No, not because of the Sports and activities. It's because there is this really hot guy that's next to me in the locker rooms, DAMN IT HOW AM I NOT SUPPOSED TO STARE.

I try hard not to but then I end up catching myself taking a glance xD I guess I'll try getting a song stuck in my head and then listen to it in my mind tomorrow, that should help.
 
YoungBlade said:
GODDAMIT I HATE P.E > : |

No, not because of the Sports and activities. It's because there is this really hot guy that's next to me in the locker rooms, DAMN IT HOW AM I NOT SUPPOSED TO STARE.

I try hard not to but then I end up catching myself taking a glance xD I guess I'll try getting a song stuck in my head and then listen to it in my mind tomorrow, that should help.
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Oh man, is there finally somebody in this thread who's younger than me?
 
Henchmen21 said:
15? I thought the age limit for Gaf was 16.
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From the TOS-
F. Registration to this forum is free of charge. We do insist that you abide by the rules and policies detailed above. Also be aware that these terms are subject to change at any time without notification. Note: if you are 13 or under, you are prohibited from registering.
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I was 14 when I joined...

RatskyWatsky said:
To stare? At what? Is he naked? How's his cock?
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No, but he has abs and like that V shape thing, they're not super duper abs, but damn it's enough for me.

Everybody has abs damn it : (
 
YoungBlade said:
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I was 14 when I joined...


No, but he has abs and like that V shape thing, they're not super duper abs, but damn it's enough for me.

Everybody has abs damn it : (
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Okay so I was off by a few years lol.

*shudder* That V shape always freaks me out. Makes the section where the legs meet the torso weird. Like from those old action figures I had when I was a kid and how they could move in ways inhumanely possible.
 
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